The Post Your Problems Thread Page 11

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Nutella

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Female
Skyloft
Seen January 27th, 2012
Posted January 26th, 2012
398 posts
12.1 Years
Hi everyone... I just want to share my predicament. I have been going out with my girlfriend for 5 months now :) Every time we're not together I miss her so much! It hurts being away from her, it sucks :( Is it normal to miss your girlfriend so much? I see her every weekday, just when she leaves all my sanity seems to go with it. :(
It's not normal to miss somebody that much that you see on a regular basis. Not at all. What are these people telling you?! It's normal to experience heartache, especially in the beginning of a relationship, but not "your sanity slipping away." I suspect you're an insecure person.

Sometimes I debate if killing myself would make the pain go away
Some say that suicide spreads the pain onto others- you know, the ones that will miss you and all those other trivialities- like your girlfriend.

I just don't know.. I'm really screwed up I have tried to kill myself on multiple occasions...like choking myself
I'm angry that you haven't sought out help. Throw your pride, or whatever that is barring you away, and seek psychological help. It's not normal to contemplate and/or attempt suicide on "multiple occasions."

I'm not even worth any girl's love
You know we're all going to tell you "that's not true" and ****, but that won't make you better, I assure you. An ego trip, for sure, but it won't make you better. Once you have lapped up enough shallow praise, please get help.

Bolens

Soul Hacker

Age 29
Male
PA
Seen August 22nd, 2016
Posted March 28th, 2013
359 posts
13.4 Years
Thanks everyone :) It was rough, but my girlfriend really helped show me how much I do matter in this world :) Sorry for being a ***** to everyone, my life was just falling apart :( I hope i can keep it on track now, and have the best times with my girlfriend...ALIVE :)

NamelessGuy

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Age 28
Male
Paradise City
Seen July 26th, 2011
Posted May 22nd, 2011
342 posts
12.4 Years
So, a new problem arose for me just the other day:

I posted about a week ago explaining my current situation with this girl I'm into, but barely know. Now, I'm only 16 (nearly 17), but I've been hoping for a long-term relationship for a while now. I'm tired of the drama associated with hook-ups. I get the feeling that this girl's not interested, but I've dated enough girls in my school to know that she's the only person that I'd want to have a relationship with. She has a lovely personality, and she's pretty damn cute. I occasionally talk to her, but she responds without smiling, and in a quiet, almost upset tone of voice. However, she also smiles at me too, and sometimes laughs at what I say. This is rarer, though.

I met her in September, and we talked sporadically until about mid-November, when she suddenly changed her behavior. She seemed happy to talk to me until then. That's when she began to avoid me (or talk less).

Anyway, here's the situation: I recently heard from two of my friends that she was caught doing something illegal, which I laughed off as a joke at first. However, it turned out to be true. She wasn't in class for the past week and a half, and one of my friends told me she was distraught over what happened. I realize that she may not be worth it after getting in trouble, but I feel like she's not the one to blame for this. She was in a group when this happened, after all.

Now, she's apparently suspended and might be facing expulsion if the school board appeals for it. I'm not upset at her for doing this, strangely. Worried is probably a better word. I don't know her all too well, but she means a lot to me. I don't know how my emotions will fare if she ends up being expelled... not well, no doubt.

I also have trouble getting over certain things, and relationships and major crushes are a couple of them. If this girl was forced out, I'd be devastated. Time and time again I've tried to get her out of my mind, and nothing works.

I desperately want to help her in any way I possibly can, but because of this little gap we have, I can't tell her how I feel. I don't have her number, but my friend does. I've asked him for advice, and he just reassured me in saying that she would be okay, but he also said that she is in mental pain and needs help.

All I want to do is talk to her, and see if I can comfort her in any way. I thought about asking my friend for her number, but that would be a foolish move on my part. Then I thought about messaging her on Facebook, but I doubt she'd check it, and she'd probably think of me as a freak (which I already am, in my opinion).

Sorry if it seems like I'm rambling, but I had to clear this little fiasco out of my mind and onto virtual paper.


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Posted October 4th, 2015
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Educational Crisis:

So my interests are in the fields of physics and computer engineering. However, I've been having recent experiences that have been putting pressure on me to petroleum engineering.

It's not just my parents putting that pressure, it's my conscience. I tend to have just this natural instinct to want to help something that might have a critical effect. And so far I know for a fact that the field is going to weaken. My dad brought me to the recent Offshore Technology Conference in Houston and I can confirm for my self the retirement rate will be massively larger than the college graduate rate in coming years.

And I don't exactly want to feel like I'll be doing something with my life I'll only be bittersweetly satisfied with, but I don't want to feel I could have put effort into contributing something great that might save the field, especially since it seems that oil independence is still a couple or more generations away before it can be executed correctly.

My parents are putting a lot of hope and expectations on me. I know I still have time to decide, college is still technically a long way, but I've also been feeling that time has just been accelerating, and if I don't make up my mind well in advance or have a rough roadmap I will get caught by surprise.

edits: Elaborating bittersweet, I know I could enjoy things of the field like the fluid dynamics and physics as well as the mathematics and technology, not to mention the job is very high paying (by my research and experience), but then there's the core of petroleum engineering with the unique concepts and terminology and then the more pure aspects of it I'm afraid I might not grasp, if you know what I mean.

Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
all that stuff you said
Sounds like she could be having a bad time right now, but do you think you could do something to help her? I mean, you said you don't really talk right now so from her perspective you might not be close at all and if you tried to help it might come off as sudden. Plus, you know, you like her and that complicates things since you've got two feelings acting together. You want to help her and you want to date her.

I guess you should ask yourself what you think would be best for her right now. Would she want to be dating anyone if she's not feeling well? Without really knowing what's going on I would guess that what she needs is a friend. If you think you can be a friend then try talking to her. From my total outside perspective it seems like the worst that could happen is she says she doesn't want to talk.

Just be considerate toward her and you'll figure out what to do.

NamelessGuy

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Age 28
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Paradise City
Seen July 26th, 2011
Posted May 22nd, 2011
342 posts
12.4 Years
Sounds like she could be having a bad time right now, but do you think you could do something to help her? I mean, you said you don't really talk right now so from her perspective you might not be close at all and if you tried to help it might come off as sudden. Plus, you know, you like her and that complicates things since you've got two feelings acting together. You want to help her and you want to date her.

I guess you should ask yourself what you think would be best for her right now. Would she want to be dating anyone if she's not feeling well? Without really knowing what's going on I would guess that what she needs is a friend. If you think you can be a friend then try talking to her. From my total outside perspective it seems like the worst that could happen is she says she doesn't want to talk.

Just be considerate toward her and you'll figure out what to do.
Thanks for the input. I don't intend to start dating her right away. If she returns to school, I'll be casual and friendly to her for the time being. For an offense this serious, her chances are probably 50/50. But I'm also assuming it's the first time she's done something like this. If it is, they might let her off easy.


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Posted November 13th, 2018
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Well, lately my parents are saying I've been acting really depressed, I don't really see it, but they do. I recently talked with my ex, and all the feelings I let go came back, it's like I couldn't figure out what to say so all I ended up saying was 'Hi, ummm...., bye!' then walking away. That was the first time I talked to her all month, and it seemed like she didn't even care. It got me thinking all the time we had been close and while we were going out, she didn't seem to care if I was there or not. I used to walk her to her class everyday and even if I was late one day she wouldn't wait for me like I would wait for her. It's like I was putting in all the effort. And then after we broke up, I took some advice and stopped talking to her and walking her to her classes. But then one time on Facebook she had 'Truth is....' on her status and I 'liked it' so I could see what I would get. And well, this is what I got:

Truth is... You are good looking whether you believe it or not. I enjoy hangin out with you a lot. You have to play just dance one of these days. I like the fact that you are indian. I am very fortunate to have a friend like you. I hope we can become even better friends. I wish we had a class together. I like how you understand me and make me feel better when i am depressed. I like how you are shy and timid. I love the fact that you like my family. Truth is... You are amazing!
And then I felt horrible for ignoring her all that time, but all my friends said that avoiding her would be better. So I listened to them and after a month I talked to her and she didn't even care. (As I stated before) It's like I wasted all that time with her. I feel like an idiot for ever falling for her. And now it feels like I'm missing something, something important, ever get that feeling? It takes it toll on me, along with other problems I have. So any tips on how to feel a bit better? I'm up for anything right now.


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Seriously?

Male
Seattle
Seen March 28th, 2020
Posted June 8th, 2014
3,899 posts
13.4 Years
I have recently found out a friend of mine has been inducing self-harm upon herself. I found out and desperately want to cheer her up.... Just, how do I do that?
Let's ask the obvious question first: Why is she doing that? Is there anything in her life that's changed?

Impo

Playhouse Pokemon

Male
Earth
Seen 1 Week Ago
Posted December 7th, 2021
2,456 posts
13.3 Years


Let's ask the obvious question first: Why is she doing that? Is there anything in her life that's changed?
No, apparently it isn't something new. She was having pains, and I squeezed what happened out of her (I didn't know it was something like that, so I may have been a little childish). I believe it's the pressure of her life. She's an academic genius and such.

インフェルノの津波

Seriously?

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Seen March 28th, 2020
Posted June 8th, 2014
3,899 posts
13.4 Years
No, apparently it isn't something new. She was having pains, and I squeezed what happened out of her (I didn't know it was something like that, so I may have been a little childish). I believe it's the pressure of her life. She's an academic genius and such.
Well...still, keep an eye on her. Pressure like that and lead up to some...interesting results (hell it's happening to me and I'm nothing of the sort).

But since it isn't new is quite disturbing, so I'll ask this: do you think she's still doing it?
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Seen May 13th, 2011
Posted May 13th, 2011
7 posts
13.1 Years
This problem is serious and you must have an understanding of MMORPG (massive multi-player online role playing game)
-------RUNESCAPE-------
It has only been three months since they've given back free trades and old wilderness to runescape. It was removed due to real world trading and credit card scams.
Now it's back. That means unlimited staking. Where you wage your money against someone else. My problem isn't that I play runescape 10 hours a day. My problem is I stake all the money I make and lose it. Then I ***** and cry and rage.
I do really cry by the way. I worked so hard for my money, invested so much time. Then I got into a gambling addiction if you will, and it has ruined my fun now that I reflect on the agony that staking has brought forth.

Some people may think 100m (Million gold pieces) is a lot, I used to but I accumulated over 3BILLION WORTH. And was just a month ago I lost every thing of value in my bank. I have broken up with two of my girlfriends (real life) to avoid reality and to isolate myself just for the sake of regaining everything I have ever lost in my 5 year investment in runescape.
I beg and beg and beg and beg all of my friends for a small 5m just to stake.
I double up then I get greedy and try for 20m! That's a success! But when I go for 40m, I lose.
I can't stop. I owe my friends so much gold. They don't even care anymore. In fact, they've decided to ignore and remove me as a friend.
I was recently banned on the forums I used for runescape/castle wars.
After having lost many friends and many more hours of life...
I've decided to steal a credit card to buy gold off a website to transfer to my account so that I could stake again.


When I go on staking sprees, I invite all my friends to come spectate.
They pressure me most of the time to double up.
"all or nothing m8"
"go hard or go home"
"10m is **** m8, cant do nothing with 10m"
"you can do this m8, we believe in you m8 l0l"
"you're a boss, who cares if you lose you'll get money eventually"
"just double up m8 worth it m8"


How do I stop this madness. How do I control myself?
It's like me asking how do I quit smoking?
How do I quit drinking?
HOW DO I QUIT STAKING ALL OF MY GOLD???????

Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
This problem is serious and you must have an understanding of MMORPG (massive multi-player online role playing game)
-------RUNESCAPE-------
It has only been three months since they've given back free trades and old wilderness to runescape. It was removed due to real world trading and credit card scams.
Now it's back. That means unlimited staking. Where you wage your money against someone else. My problem isn't that I play runescape 10 hours a day. My problem is I stake all the money I make and lose it. Then I ***** and cry and rage.
I do really cry by the way. I worked so hard for my money, invested so much time. Then I got into a gambling addiction if you will, and it has ruined my fun now that I reflect on the agony that staking has brought forth.

Some people may think 100m (Million gold pieces) is a lot, I used to but I accumulated over 3BILLION WORTH. And was just a month ago I lost every thing of value in my bank. I have broken up with two of my girlfriends (real life) to avoid reality and to isolate myself just for the sake of regaining everything I have ever lost in my 5 year investment in runescape.
I beg and beg and beg and beg all of my friends for a small 5m just to stake.
I double up then I get greedy and try for 20m! That's a success! But when I go for 40m, I lose.
I can't stop. I owe my friends so much gold. They don't even care anymore. In fact, they've decided to ignore and remove me as a friend.
I was recently banned on the forums I used for runescape/castle wars.
After having lost many friends and many more hours of life...
I've decided to steal a credit card to buy gold off a website to transfer to my account so that I could stake again.


When I go on staking sprees, I invite all my friends to come spectate.
They pressure me most of the time to double up.
"all or nothing m8"
"go hard or go home"
"10m is **** m8, cant do nothing with 10m"
"you can do this m8, we believe in you m8 l0l"
"you're a boss, who cares if you lose you'll get money eventually"
"just double up m8 worth it m8"


How do I stop this madness. How do I control myself?
It's like me asking how do I quit smoking?
How do I quit drinking?
HOW DO I QUIT STAKING ALL OF MY GOLD???????
I had this exact same addiction except mine was using real money rather than ingame coins.

The best thing I can say is weigh up what you can lose by doing this. You have already given up girlfriends over this which is a sure sign that things need to change. You have to think about what yo could be doing instead of this. It is an addiction and addictions can be beaten but it takes a lot. I mean I still play the MMO game but I haven't used real life money like I used to in months. I do the odd bit here and there if I have extra money to spend but I never go over the top.

Make sure you never spend more than you can afford. So in your case don't bet all your money so you leave yourself with nothing as that is silly. Just bet what you can afford.

Impo

Playhouse Pokemon

Male
Earth
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Posted December 7th, 2021
2,456 posts
13.3 Years


Well...still, keep an eye on her. Pressure like that and lead up to some...interesting results (hell it's happening to me and I'm nothing of the sort).

But since it isn't new is quite disturbing, so I'll ask this: do you think she's still doing it?
I'm positive she is continuing with her actions, but to a lesser extent. She has been given counseling and it has helped reduced her actions, but she is lying to authority (one teacher and the counselor) claiming that she has stopped. As a replacement to cutting she pinches herself until she bleeds...

It's distressing, she knows she should seek help but I believe she is too ... frightened, in a sense... to confide her inner most feelings with a stranger (the counselor. I mean, we are in a world were gossip travels, if people find out that she (a confident, mentally stable, intelligent person) is crumbling under the pressure would only worry her more.

Razer302

Three Days Grace - Break

Age 32
England
Seen November 22nd, 2022
Posted December 13th, 2018
3,368 posts
17.1 Years
I have become exactly the same as you and I have been like it for the past 3 years with everyone. It is good to try and get out of that as fast as you can. I have lost so much for how i have become and it really isn't worth it.

Try your best to get out of it.

Dragonite's Wrath

Dragons are my Heart and Soul

Male
In Johto, living the life of a Dragon Trainer
Seen May 15th, 2014
Posted February 19th, 2012
141 posts
12.3 Years
I might as well post here. I basically have this whole slew of problems, each of them overlapping one another.

I decided that I needed a way to convey my feelings, so here goes:

Over the past few months, I've felt a bit alienated. I used to have a lot of friends back in middle school and in my first year of high school. But now, I feel like I've lost that socializing spark I had before. My friends don't talk to me very much anymore, but I can probably amend that.

My grades have been slipping as well, but thankfully not by much.

The two problems that I just listed are the two that I can probably handle on my own. However, the next two are my "major" problems in my book. (Okay, it's nothing tragic or life-threatening, but still.)

Ever since the beginning of the school year, I've been infatuated with this girl in my English class. Now, I've never had any problems asking out my past girlfriends. Usually, I'd just go up and introduce myself, ask about likes and dislikes, crack a few jokes, etc.

However, this girl hasn't really seemed that interested in what I say or do, and that's slamming my confidence down. I've talked to her quite a bit (not enough to be a creep, mind you. Once a day or every two days, maybe), but she rarely smiles when she answers me, yet she seems to enjoy talking to my other friends (guys).

Seriously, I'd do anything to have this girl. She's beautiful. She's got a great personality. But she just... inaccessable. And at the moment, I can't imagine myself with anyone else. That's my main problem. I'd ask her out, but I barely know her because of this little gap we have... I don't mean to sound desperate, and I've tried countless times to get over her, but nothing I do works.

Finally, I feel like my life is devoid of any purpose or meaning. I go to school each day to learn about subjects that I probably won't be using as an adult. My soul belongs to music, not to an office cubicle.

It's hard to describe my state of mind right now. It's not depression (although I've been upset over this girl quite a lot), and it's not necessarily anger. It's just... blankness, I suppose.

Also, I don't speak and act the way I type. xD Using a larger vocabulary calms me down, for some reason.

Anyway, it's typical teenage wasteland, but I'd still like to fix these problems.

It's nothing for any of you to worry about, though.
She's probly playing hard to get. Give her short answers and see what she does.
My problem is similar. It's long, so I'll make it short.
I like a girl thats in almost all my classes. I think she likes me(I'm too stupid to figure this stuff out). There was a Valentine thing. (Just that stupid theme where you buy something anonymously for someone) There was a dog house thing. I was making a dog house at Tech and I was literally in the dog house. She got down to the door to the dog house(trapping me) and started asking me about the dog house. And there was a project for Government(at my high school), I got stuck with 'No Violence in Games' (I put the most gory Resident Evil stuff I could find in that) Next day back at Tech, she asked about it. I answered. She asked if I was going to keep doing that.(If I truly thought games were too violent) I told her blood and violence is what makes the games awesome. She laughed.
The entire time through this 'experience' my mind was '??? What do I do?' So, what do I do?
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I like a girl thats in almost all my classes. I think she likes me(I'm too stupid to figure this stuff out). There was a Valentine thing. (Just that stupid theme where you buy something anonymously for someone) There was a dog house thing. I was making a dog house at Tech and I was literally in the dog house. She got down to the door to the dog house(trapping me) and started asking me about the dog house. And there was a project for Government(at my high school), I got stuck with 'No Violence in Games' (I put the most gory Resident Evil stuff I could find in that) Next day back at Tech, she asked about it. I answered. She asked if I was going to keep doing that.(If I truly thought games were too violent) I told her blood and violence is what makes the games awesome. She laughed.
The entire time through this 'experience' my mind was '??? What do I do?' So, what do I do?
Spellcheck your signature?

Girl's obviously paying attention to you, but whether that's par for every guy depends on her personality. Ask her about herself, get her comfortable and talking and see where it goes.

NamelessGuy

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Age 28
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Paradise City
Seen July 26th, 2011
Posted May 22nd, 2011
342 posts
12.4 Years
Spellcheck your signature?

Girl's obviously paying attention to you, but whether that's par for every guy depends on her personality. Ask her about herself, get her comfortable and talking and see where it goes.

Neither of you read what I posted a few days later on here. Last month (late April), she got in trouble and was most likely expelled from school. I asked my friend (who sometimes texts her) if there was anything I could do to help, and he said that she would be fine, but he also said that she was in a lot of pain, which I can understand, since this "mistake" she made was pretty intense, by school standards.

All I wanted to do was comfort her and help her with her problems, but because of this little gap we have, I can't contact her. And even though I barely know her, I deeply care about her, and I wish she could reciprocate that. I've been depressed for the past month over this, and it looks like nothing is going to improve anytime soon.

Besides, it's probably too late. I've failed yet again.


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Posted November 13th, 2018
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So one of my friends was told me that he overheard one of my ex (We broke up two months ago, but recently we became close again) talking about me and how I was annoying her. I then go to apologize to her but then she was like 'What are you talking about?'. I thought that my friend just made that up, so I apologized for bothering her. Then on Facebook, I was chatting with her, and I said sorry for the misunderstanding, and she was like what misunderstanding? And I said the one when I told you I was sorry for apologizing, and she said 'I won't lie I was talking about you.' So I apologized saying 'I'm sorry for bothering you.' and she said 'wow. I'm not in the mood for this, do whatever you want.'

I mean seriously, I was trying to apologize for whatever I did to bother her, and she just blows me off? Don't you find that kind of rude? I mean, all I did was apologize and then she comes back like that? God, now I feel like an idiot for being nice to her even after we broke up. Do you think that was an appropriate response from her?


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Dragons are my Heart and Soul

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Posted February 19th, 2012
141 posts
12.3 Years
Spellcheck your signature?

Girl's obviously paying attention to you, but whether that's par for every guy depends on her personality. Ask her about herself, get her comfortable and talking and see where it goes.
I know about the sig. Someone made it for me. Forgot who.
.... When I think about it, the dog house thing kinda made me look like an idiot. I had to crawl in and out. It was funny. But about your suggestion, I can be sarcastic when I want to, and I may use it too much. I was even sarcastic about crawling in the dog house(I did go inside the house) but I'm actually timid.
My eyes are extremley sensitive to movement. I can see a small spider crawling on the wall from across the room, with very little light.(Not exagerating) So I was seeing something move and my eyes automatically move to it, and she's watching me out of the corner of her eye. Turns out she's been watching me for a long time. And I can miss stuff easy(again, not smart) but when I think about it, she's seems to have been....I dont know how to say it...showing off? Wearing skin tight pants and keeping her back to me. I'll try what you said, though.
And can someone explain to me why a girl would wear skin tight pants everyday in winter. I dont get it.
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Dragons are my Heart and Soul

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I know. Its like, every time I see a girk wearing those in winter I'm like 'wtf'. But it does make some of them attractive lol.
And to Charizard, I have no idea. Though I may not be smart, I can figure out complicated stuff in my head. And that is another wtf moment. Ask what the deal is or something. See if there's a problem or something, idk. My thoughts, move on. Say something to her thats mean, but also a 'goodbye' an 'apology'. I cant explain through internet. But see if that gets her to tell you.

I got it!! The 'mean, apology, goodbye' thing. Give her a 'Dont let her see you cry' speech. If still dont know what I mean, go online and watch the end of the Family Guy Episode 'Dammit Jannet'
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13,369 posts
13.8 Years
I don't want to insult her tho, I'm not that kind of person. I'm tired of being the one always going after her, always the one caring, always the one who tries to fix our friendship. I really enjoy being with her and I don't want our friendship to go to waste.


Dragonite's Wrath

Dragons are my Heart and Soul

Male
In Johto, living the life of a Dragon Trainer
Seen May 15th, 2014
Posted February 19th, 2012
141 posts
12.3 Years
I didnt mean insult, but, OK. Sorry, I just saw a Family Guy commercial and I just thought of that. Still, watch the series. It's funnier than watching someone act like a badass, then trips.
But, something that might help, maybe try just going on, say your sorry for whatever you did (cuz she'll know what you mean, probly) then forgetting the whole thing. Then only talk about it if she brings it up. You know, Reverse Psychology (or watever its called)
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Seen February 20th, 2012
Posted January 30th, 2012
332 posts
12.3 Years
Neither of you read what I posted a few days later on here. Last month (late April), she got in trouble and was most likely expelled from school. I asked my friend (who sometimes texts her) if there was anything I could do to help, and he said that she would be fine, but he also said that she was in a lot of pain, which I can understand, since this "mistake" she made was pretty intense, by school standards.

All I wanted to do was comfort her and help her with her problems, but because of this little gap we have, I can't contact her. And even though I barely know her, I deeply care about her, and I wish she could reciprocate that. I've been depressed for the past month over this, and it looks like nothing is going to improve anytime soon.

Besides, it's probably too late. I've failed yet again.
I don't recall quoting your post, lovie.