The Post Your Problems Thread Page 6

Started by Livewire December 2nd, 2010 9:39 PM
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Kura

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If she ran off, there's your answer right there; she's not ready for commitment.
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rainbow

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I guess....
But I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.

Meganium

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Posted February 1st, 2023
At your age, you probably don't understand what love really means. The girl is too shy to talk to you or maybe she has no interest. The whole "fiddling her hair" doesn't mean anything. So, my suggestion is to just be friends with her.

rainbow

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See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.

Captain Fabio

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I can't sleep. It's 5:50 am right now and I have school in 2 hours. I honestly dont know what to do.

Stay in bed then.

See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.

I am sorry, but you don't feel true love.
I have never known or seen a 10 year old to stay faithful, since they were 10, grow up with that person, get married and live out their days together. Because, if you love her, you want to spend the rest of your life with her, yes?

I don't think so. It is a crush. You are attracted to her. But if you thought you overheard her saying that, ask her.

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Seriously?

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Well...I would side with you...except when I was 10, I was depressed, so yeah...

But ED, you shouldn't love her. I mean, you can try, but it's probably not going to work out until you mature a little. Go out with her, who knows, maybe you'll stay together.

We're not telling you what to do, I mean really who listens to someone on a forum? So ask her out when you think the time is right, got your friendship in check, and be prepared to get rejected.

It may take a while, but you obviously like her enough to at least do that much, right?

* * * *

Anyway, I have my own problems. You see...I have a surgery coming up, apparently I have premature bone growth in my nose, so they're going to basically cut open my face/nose, and I have the choice on whether to do it or not. I have 3 days to decide, so what should I do?

Captain Fabio

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Anyway, I have my own problems. You see...I have a surgery coming up, apparently I have premature bone growth in my nose, so they're going to basically cut open my face/nose, and I have the choice on whether to do it or not. I have 3 days to decide, so what should I do?

This is a big question, I am not sure you should be asking us. :/
But I will give you my advice anyway!

Ok, so first off, is this bone growth going to cause you any major pain in the future or going to cause, say, a deformity? I don't know much on the condition, so I wouldn't know. But if it is going to make life easier for you, then I would go ahead with it.

_Dean_

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See that's the thing.
Just because I'm 10 doesn't mean I can't feel love.
What about : I overheard her chatting to her friends and all I heard was "If he asked me out I would say yes"
I walked up to my line and they were like shushing each other.
Yes, it does. [/bubble]

not to sound heartless, but.. Really, dude. Have fun with girls but please don't try to love anyone. You'll look back in not even ten years and think "wtf was I thinking??"

But cheer up! It's not the end. Like I said have fun with girls. ESPECIALLY since you're ten. ;)

marcc5m

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At school tomorrow, I have to do a talk in front of all my English class. I was supposed to do it today, but I got too nervous and asked to do it tomorrow instead. The thing is...I just don't have the confidence to do it, and it's important because it is a third of my final English grade. What should I do?

_Dean_

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At school tomorrow, I have to do a talk in front of all my English class. I was supposed to do it today, but I got too nervous and asked to do it tomorrow instead. The thing is...I just don't have the confidence to do it, and it's important because it is a third of my final English grade. What should I do?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=upniIg29Tcc
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marcc5m

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That has nothing to do with anything, and studying is not what I'm talking about...I said I have a confidence problem, I find it hard enough to talk to one person, let alone a class of 20-30. When I was supposed to do it today, I felt sick and my mind went completely blank.

_Dean_

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It was a joke.. XD;

Here's some advice from someone who speaks publicly A LOT. Pick a person out of the crowd that you know (ie a friend) and present your speech or whatever it is to that one person. It helps a lot for me.

marcc5m

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It was a joke.. XD;

Here's some advice from someone who speaks publicly A LOT. Pick a person out of the crowd that you know (ie a friend) and present your speech or whatever it is to that one person. It helps a lot for me.
Oh xD

...I have none :\
Again, due to lack of confidence.

Meganium

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Posted February 1st, 2023

Anyway, I have my own problems. You see...I have a surgery coming up, apparently I have premature bone growth in my nose, so they're going to basically cut open my face/nose, and I have the choice on whether to do it or not. I have 3 days to decide, so what should I do?
I don't really want to make you decide, but it could be for your own good if you want things to be easier. Prevention is key to a better life. Are you concerned about side-effects or after-surgery effects?

At school tomorrow, I have to do a talk in front of all my English class. I was supposed to do it today, but I got too nervous and asked to do it tomorrow instead. The thing is...I just don't have the confidence to do it, and it's important because it is a third of my final English grade. What should I do?
Sooner or later you're gonna HAVE to speak in public, and do it a lot frequently than what you will do. Hey, we all done it, and we were nervous, but we got used to it. Lemme give you some tips: practice with a friend. Practice in front of your mirror. If you want feedback, practice with your parents. They are likely to tell you what you should say during the presentation and what you shouldn't. Don't bail out like you did today. It'll likely hurt your grade even more.
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There's this guy I liked since 1st grade, and I told him how I felt and he said 'I can accept that.' That actually made me laugh hysterically. xD Well anyway, he told me he has a crush on my best friend, and she likes him too. (He doesn't know) And like a month later, one of my friends asks him out and he says yes. But later she told him it was actually a dare, but if he still wants to she would go out with him. He said he did it only so he wouldn't hurt her feelings so they were chill. A week later he asks out the most popular girl in the school, but she says no... So I was thinking if I should ask him out... But I'm afraid my best friend would be sad, and I know how it feels.... D:
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Hmm...not sure on how to say this, but here it goes:

Spoiler:
Today, I was thinking about how much of a BSer I am sometimes, and so I want to change that. Problem is, I've only been exposed to that kind of personality, plus I'm a hypocrite, and a procrastinator, also I'm very lazy.

These aren't admirable things to be sprouting off, but that's who I am, and I really, really want to change that. Does anyone have any tips?

Meganium

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Seen February 1st, 2023
Posted February 1st, 2023
There's this guy I liked since 1st grade, and I told him how I felt and he said 'I can accept that.' That actually made me laugh hysterically. xD Well anyway, he told me he has a crush on my best friend, and she likes him too. (He doesn't know) And like a month later, one of my friends asks him out and he says yes. But later she told him it was actually a dare, but if he still wants to she would go out with him. He said he did it only so he wouldn't hurt her feelings so they were chill. A week later he asks out the most popular girl in the school, but she says no... So I was thinking if I should ask him out... But I'm afraid my best friend would be sad, and I know how it feels.... D:
Hmm, reminds me of a guy I liked since high school, but anyways... I think it's better for you to be friends with the guy (if you have not done so). Talk to the guy & spark a convo. Look for some things you have in common.

It's also better for you to talk one-on-one with your best friend about the guy. If she gives you the ok, then I'd say go for it. It doesn't hurt to talk.