~*Relationship Guru*~ (Revived)

Started by Claire December 6th, 2004 3:15 AM
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Seen May 21st, 2011
Posted May 9th, 2006
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Since some people revived the old thread, i thought i'd make a new one

I love helping people with relationships, so if you have any questions or would like advice, go ahead and post here ^^
Can be about PC pairups, or real life relationships ^^

I am here to help all i can


P.S. If it's quite personal and you dont want to post on here, feel free to PM me
P.P.S. To other people, please do not post advice which isn't really sensitive to the person who is asking.

EVA-01

Looking at Mewthree's past

Orange County
Seen August 25th, 2010
Posted October 22nd, 2005
749 posts
18.7 Years
heres the deal, i like this chick and i want to show it, she kinda likes me but is too scared to dump her current bf bcoz she thinks i will leave her, she doesnt wanna be alone what do i do?

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Posted April 20th, 2009
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Alrighty,
There is this girl I really think, THINK, I like. She's really nice, smart, and all the other stuff. Now my problem is with deciding what to do.
There's no good movies or anything, which, on my budget, is all I can do. And I'm still not sure I like her like that. I think I do, but I'm not sure. I used to, but then I got confused about something with another girl, and, well, things happen...
So, should I just go for it and ask her out, or think about it a while longer?
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Seen May 21st, 2011
Posted May 9th, 2006
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FZ: Yeah, you should definately find out how you feel before making a move. Maybe rather than a movie you guys can hang out -invite her to play video games or go watch a sport or something (free) ^^. After you find out how you feel, you can then decide how to play things next.

Omega: If she cares about her boyfriend, i would suggest to stay friends and not make a move -its not fair in the boyfriend if they both really care for eachother. Don't make a move unless she makes one first -that way it's her decision about her relationship
Age 34
Seen October 15th, 2012
Posted March 11th, 2010
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this seems amusing to some degree...
my relationships are kinda messed up. let's see... i have a girlfriend who i almost never talk to cuz she lives in colorado, she's really awesome, but there's also a girl in my state that i think is ok... so that puts me in a tough situation because i haven't told the local one about the one in colorado, and i don't want to be unethical by having them both as girlfriends. they're both really cool girls too... i'm so mixed up...
actually, i don't really think i need any guru help, but it seems like something one could have fun talking about.
Seen March 30th, 2005
Posted March 11th, 2005
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18.6 Years
*sigh* Thank God for this thread. XD

Well, you see, I fell in love with a wonderful man in August. I loved him dearly, and he loved me. We did everything together, and we talked about anything and everything. I felt I could tell him anything at all. I had (have) complete trust in him.

Well, a while back, this girl interupted our lives and corrupted my brain. She got me into thinking that our love wasn't real, and it didn't exist. She had gone on and on about it for months. Until finally she had subdued me. I believed her. I broke up with the man I loved most.

After I had realized how horribly stupid I had been, I told him everything, but he said he had to think about it before considering if he could cope taking me back, knwing that it could happen again.

Well, it had been a while before we mentioned anything of the subject. Then, one of my dearest friends asked to pair with me. he was so sweet, and I am cursed in that I cannot say no to a friend. I accepted to be his love, but soon realiezed that this decision was futile. He is an awsome friend, but he's not the one. The man I met in Sugust is and always has been the one who carries my heart with him wherever he goes.

So, I ask of you, my fellow PC friends, help me. I do not know what to do. I have told my love how I feel, but it seems the wound I embedded in him is far too deep for me to ever gain his love again. Please, I beg of you, help me. ;-;

~Kelsey
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Lily

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Female
New Joisey
Seen February 26th, 2017
Posted June 26th, 2011
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Finally! A relationship thread? Without these hundreds of relationship threads will clog up the forum...[/exaggeration]

Okay...well, there's this cutie. XP I like him, and my friends call it 'flirting.' Funny, I swear a couple of years ago, it was referred to as, "Having a polite conversation with a boy." But anyway, I make him laugh at times and he's sometimes so confused about my behavior. o.O I keep mistaking him for another name, and I do that purposely...so I never call him by his real name. Problem is, I need to know if he likes me back. I already know he appreciates me for being funny...but...o_o;

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Seen March 30th, 2005
Posted March 11th, 2005
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LOL, the heart of a woman is a confusing thing, I can tell you that much, Mutt. I want him back, but I don't know if he'll be willing to take me. You see...he states that he is paired to and loves someone else now...his heart isn't capacious enough for me I suppose. I am afraid I am at a loss...

~Kelsey
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(. (.` ♥ Kelsey

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Seen May 21st, 2011
Posted May 9th, 2006
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Kelsey: I think i know the situation you're talking about..i dont really know if i can tell you what to do regarding things..i'd say its just something you and him need to talk about, and then both let go of whoever you wish to let go of -your pairs or eachother..

Lily: I know the kind of situation you mean. All i can suggest is being more affectionate etc. to show him your kind of 'girlfriend side' and let him see you from that point of view, as opposed to purely a friends point of view -that way he can see your feelings a bit more, and make a decision as to his own feelings ^^
Age 33
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Seen October 31st, 2005
Posted July 18th, 2005
442 posts
18.5 Years
I have a problem when I would go up to a girl to ask her for her number I kinda get a bad feeling and don't. I attempted asking a girl her number that I liked but the best I could do is give her my number. Now if it's a girl that I really am not to flattered by they start giving me tons of info. about themselves.(If your reading this Megatron you know what I'm talking about) this one girl at the pool was talking to my sister and was asking,"Is that your brother? My sis says yes and she asks how old I was and sis is like 14 at that time, and she was like wow I thought he was like 16 or 17. Well she started talking to me and I was saying(very easily) what's your number? All she would tell me is where she lived and I'm not going to go to her house and get into a weird situation. Anyhow a girl I did like at drivers training. At the end of class I planned on asking her number. Instead I just wound up just giving her mine. (she didn't call) no worries though. What would the advice be next time I try to ask a girl her number and start backing out of it?
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Age 33
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Seen June 3rd, 2009
Posted April 20th, 2009
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18.5 Years
Thanks for your advice Claire. Even though I didn't do anything, it still helped.

I've just been preoccupied with a new development in my life, you may know what as it caused a ruckus in the pair up thread....lol
ANywho, thanks again! :D
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Seen May 21st, 2011
Posted May 9th, 2006
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Fire: There's nothing much i can advise to you -you just need to spend time with this girl and work out what your true feelings are. Maybe picture the two of you as boyfriend and girlfriend compared to staying friends. Best of luck ^^

Stripes: Just remember that girls lke to be flattered. By giving her your number, it's almost like saying "you're interested in me, take my number." which is probably more forward than asking for her number which suggests "i'm interested in you, so id like to call you some time.". So, even though you tend to give your number, it's actually being more forward and less flattering than if you ask for hers. If you keep that in mind, hopefully the next time you think about backing out, you'll stop yourself.

FZ: You're welcome ^^ *hugs*

Taki

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Age 31
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Seen August 19th, 2007
Posted May 31st, 2005
201 posts
18.7 Years
Hi DFdadragonz... could I help with those relationship problems? I think I'm quite good at giving advice... If you want a sample of it there's something I wrote in the second page of the thread 'A girl...' in Other Chat. So can I help? ^-^
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Ash_luver

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Age 32
I live with my pokemon in a cottage
Seen March 2nd, 2005
Posted March 2nd, 2005
61 posts
18.5 Years
Isnt it true that age really doesnt matter in love...cause i just got paired with a guy that is 2 years younger than me, i have to feelings, i lyk him a lot, but should i dump him do his age? Taki, since ur online, u can help me^^
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Posted May 31st, 2005
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*sees she's late and Ash luver was relyiing on her* Oh sorry babe I'm late... anyway I think that you shouldn't dump him, no no, you shouldn't care about what other people think of you being with him... If you like him then stay with him and don't dump hiim only for the impression you might make on other people or for his age. Be happy with him! I hope this helps ^o^
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Seen March 2nd, 2005
Posted March 2nd, 2005
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18.5 Years
kinda, u confused me, but i made up my mind, i luv him, and i am gonna stay with him^^
my pics created by Scyther, Caims and...more, but dont remember at the moment ^_^;

i am paired with the best guy i met so far...PIKA2! he is sooo sweet!

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My PokeDolls, i want more!
My other pokemon:

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PC's official CrAzY cAt!!

Age 31
Looking for CrAzY cAtS around the world!
Seen August 19th, 2007
Posted May 31st, 2005
201 posts
18.7 Years
Oh, did I? Ok! :p
I meant if you wanted to dump him because some people thought it was strange and stuff I meant don't dump him for that! :p
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KoBRe LaiR

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Age 35
Male
Florida
Seen February 10th, 2017
Posted August 4th, 2016
3,591 posts
19.2 Years
Hi Claire, im back for some advice this time. Well here goes.


im going out this Saturday with this girl named Megan a senior, and we like each otehr and all. We are goiung to the beach this Saturday, but something happened unexpectedly. I asked one of my best buds, Will to ask this guy Chris if he was bi, he did, and according to him he added that I wanted to go on a date with him, so he gave him the place and time where im taking Megan. Now im afraid to talk to chris tomorow in fourth period. And there is a third person, since I flirted with this guy named Jason who is "straight" but everyone knows he will turn eitehr bi or gay. So I started like a prank by choking him, but nothing happened since he didnt say not to, he let him self, then I rubbed his back and going down, and he said nothing. What do you think this means?
Oh, and now my whole school knows Im bi thanks to some gay guy who hates me and everybody gives me this look. What can I do about that? Besides ignoring...
I need major help.
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