Hey there, tehGDS, of course you can join.
The first thing that needs to be said immediately is that clearly your parents are not good enough and they don't deserve you. Never let
anybody make you think that you are the bad person in this scenario, because they are the disgusting bullies. The bad part is, right now I'm sure you need them financially, so for now you're kinda stuck. You shouldn't have to hide, but I guess for now you do. It breaks my heart to hear that there are parents who would be this way to their own child over something so insignificant.
The only advice I can give is wait until you're 18 and then tell them when you're in college. The more independent you are, the less you need them. If I were you and my parents had told me they'd kick me out of home for being gay, then what I would do is find an incredibly creative way to let them know you're gay that will inflict the largest amount of pain on them possible. Use your homosexuality and their homophobia as weapons. If they're religious, go into a detailed speech about how much fun you'll have living in sin. If they're just bigoted for no reason (not that religion is a reason) then at the very least you can put on your most condescending smile and let them know in no uncertain terms that you are gay and that you are a better person now than they could ever hope to be.
*snaps out of rage-trance* Wow, I'm a little bitter, aren't I?
Sure lol, I guess I can grab the nearest guy say I'm gay and make love to him right in front of them <3 lol Thanks for that, welcome lol, I think that I might just keep it to myself, I actually like my parents though they're horrible at times I know they love me so um I don't want to cause them pain. How did you know my mom is religious? lol Lucky guess..
Originally Posted by Landorus
Welcome to the club!
I can't stress this enough. Do not come out to your parents until you are living by yourself and your life is stable enough to risk losing them.
Right now, you're dependent on them. So, if you are risking ruining your life just to tell them it isn't worth telling them. But, they have a right to know. You should tell them eventually, in your case it will take longer.
Your friends..I don't know what to say about it. On one hand I want to call them rude and that you don't deserve them. But on another, some of my friends and I do the same thing. For example, my friend Isaiah (who is black..and gay for that matter) he calls me a honkey and makes fun of me whenever I do something stereotypically white. When he comes up behind me I'll scream "Don't rob me!" and I'll make fun of him whenever he does something stereotypical. We do that because we think racism is so stupid it's funny and that's our way of making fun of racism.
Just try and don't let being gay control your life. Some people put too much focus on it. You're gay, so what? Who you have sex with doesn't matter, although people don't see it that way sometimes. Just ignore those people (although, that is very hard to do at times) and focus on the good people!
Although it sounds cheesy (I think it does anyways)..it does get better.
(I'm using a lot of parenthesis.)
Thanks for that really warm welcome ^ ^, I feel appreciated Well, Bye America! Good luck with your weed and Homophobic things : D , hello Japan freedom, work,
(censored) and acceptance Lol that's my future tbh. My friends and I always joke around like that, I say why are you so emo, he says, because you touch yourself at night, or because.. then he yells Jason is a F****t, then he gets something coming to him lol, another example coming to my friends, he says, Get ready to hear something really gay, I mean what? lol "One time in band camp.. I mean hi" Lol, we just joke around like that, but if I don't know them and they start annoying me then um, I ask why are they getting into my business you know, lol, nosy haters make me angry, you know those people who have something up their butt all the time and constantly getting into your business, eugh.. I had a run in once, he just pretended to be my friend I never felt betrayed before.. but yeah you know, people gonna hate, all you got to do is smile, that's all worth it. : )