Nihilego

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scotland
Seen September 28th, 2018
Posted March 16th, 2018
8,874 posts
12.1 Years
Have you ever harshly rejected someone who was coming onto you? They might have been really unsubtle about it and you told them to go away, or they might have asked you out and you were just like [see title]?

If so, a little background would be nice too. Fire away!
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Sammi

Age 33
she/her
The States
Seen 5 Days Ago
Posted November 8th, 2021
14,085 posts
18.3 Years
One day, when I was middle-school aged, the home phone rang. I answered, thinking it was for someone else. It was actually for me! A boy was on the other end, and he said "I think you're cute." Me, being the socially awkward person I am, said "You're creepy" and hung up on him. He called back again, but I hung up on him. After that, I realized that maybe I should've entertained this guy taht I didn't even know (???), but of course, by then it was too late.

ONLY TIME I HAVE EVER BEEN HIT ON. ;_____; I think it's because everyone thinks I'm jailbait... and/or I'm not very attractive.

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Shining Raichu

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Age 32
Male
Australia
Seen October 17th, 2020
Posted December 21st, 2017
8,958 posts
12.3 Years
One girl in high school tried to ask me out. It caught me by surprise because noone EVER asked me out or anything, so I was just like "uh no." and walked away. I was like 15... but I still feel bad about that now.
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Hybrid Trainer

Age 28
Him/Them
«UK»
Seen April 12th, 2023
Posted January 27th, 2022
2,096 posts
14.5 Years
Well I remember once when i was about 10 my best friend had a crush on me. So she pulled out this little piece of paper which I had in my pencil case and wrote about how she felt about me on the back of it and then put it back in with it poking out a little bit.
I found the note later on, read it and felt really embarrassed and awkward (note that I was 10) so I threw it away and pretended it never existed. All through out the week after that she kept hinting at the pencil case and if I'd found anything in there and when she checked and saw there was nothing there she worked out that I'd seen it and threw it away.

She took it pretty hard and never spoke to me again x]

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Age 34
She/Her
Seen 2 Weeks Ago
Posted February 3rd, 2023
1,301 posts
15 Years
I've come close or contemplated it before (I do seem to sometimes attract people who have no business being into me for one reason or another), but really, I don't have it in me to be that harsh or blunt unless I'm really pushed to the edge - I'm too concerned with being nice and not hurting feelings or making tension/conflict worse than it needs to be. Thankfully that hasn't happened.




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PlatinumDude

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Age 29
Male
Canada
Seen July 31st, 2020
Posted May 30th, 2020
12,958 posts
12.7 Years
I remember back at middle school when I had this classmate. We were kind of in good terms, even sitting next to each other on the same class. But as time went by, I started to get annoyed at him because of the way he sounded and started to avoid him. I even asked my teachers to make me sit next to other people.

2Cool4Mewtwo

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Age 29
Male
Cerulean Cave
Seen February 1st, 2013
Posted February 13th, 2012
1,182 posts
12.1 Years
I remember back at middle school when I had this classmate. We were kind of in good terms, even sitting next to each other on the same class. But as time went by, I started to get annoyed at him because of the way he sounded and started to avoid him. I even asked my teachers to make me sit next to other people.
I've had those things happen to me all the time...

On the topic itself, I never try to bluntly tell someone something that would offend them without thinking. I try to be as polite as possible. Though sometimes bad things happen when I become suddenly rash, that has never been a problem for me.


Kevin

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Age 24
Male
Virginia
Seen February 3rd, 2021
Posted July 5th, 2015
2,686 posts
12.8 Years
I remember around middle school (lol) this annoying kid is just ugh. Everyone hated him, and he didn't really annoy me directly, but he annoyed our whole class. Every single day... D:

If he asked out girls then they'd say: "no not in a million years you're nasty please leave me alone"!
Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
I just throw up and then they lose interest anyway so I don't have to say anything.

But seriously, I just feel bad. There's one funny story when I was about 11, I ended up just running away from my friends house after she tried flirting with me and my innocent mind couldn't take it. Also one girl rejected me even after she said she liked me a few months back, then tried to be close with me after about two weeks of avoiding me (wut) so I just straight up said I didn't want to spend time with her anymore, which I think was warranted. I tend to think most of the creepy flirting is committed by guys anyway, so thankfully I'm safe (mostly). I don't know how girls put up with it.

Vrai

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Age 28
Male
Seen October 24th, 2022
Posted April 1st, 2016
2,896 posts
14.9 Years
No, I don't think so. Then again, I'm generally... really oblivious to people trying to get me to subtly notice anything so yeah, even if they did, my obliviousness probably would be taken as a refusal anyway. I've never totally bashed someone down before, though. Not intentionally, at least. :x

Margot

some things are that simple

they/he
Seen April 16th, 2022
Posted February 25th, 2019
3,662 posts
17.3 Years
I was meanish? once about it. I was hanging out at a pool and some guy asked me to come party in his hotel room and I said "no thanks, I don't even know you" a good three times and he wasn't taking the hint. So I said no again and got up and left the pool area :| that's the only time I think being rude is okay, if you CLEARLY tell them no and they don't respect that you really don't have a choice.

Otherwise I try to be as nice as possible. It's not fun turning down people on either party so I don't think there's any reason to try and be mean if all they did was say they like you. I just say i'm not interested and everyone moves on.
Seen August 15th, 2011
Posted August 15th, 2011
152 posts
11.8 Years
Yeah, one time this guy was hitting on me and I was so, so rude to him. At the time I didn't know he was hitting on me, because I'm a guy to, so I thought he was just being really creepy and I was an ******* to him in front of all our friends, and even got some of them to not like him either.

Then I found out he was gay and felt awful. :/ I still think it was sort of wrong for him to assume I was gay to, or maybe he didn't even assume that, but if I knew I would have just told him I wasn't into that.

I've also told a girl no. But I tried to do it really softly, and it was genuinely one of those "It's not you, it's me" situation. I just didn't want to be in a relationship and where she lived it just wouldn't have worked out. She probably hates me now even though we were really good friends.

Martins

Male
Seen August 11th, 2014
Posted June 26th, 2012
353 posts
12.7 Years
It happened to me a couple of times when I was like 12.

Once with my overly creepy neighbor who always wanted to 'play'. Now, I don't know what she meant by play (I'm positive it isn't your usual play; you should hear her saying it), but I never agreed and just shrugged her off every time I spot her. After weeks of her constant stalking, I got to a point that I threw at her my GB SP, and called her a, and I quote, "fat, ugly, stupid girl". What. I was 12.

The other time was a bit more toned down. Or not. There was this girl in my class that everybody, including myself, liked. I never had the slightest balls to even say hi. I was assigned as her partner in a certain assignment one day. I went to her house to start the project, and after several moments of pure awkwardness and buckets of sweat, I shouted, "I LOVE you, Sarah". She looked at me with, I think, disgust and said "What?!?". I couldn't move and out of nothingness, I threw my pen on her and ran like I never ran before. The next day, I started avoiding her, but again out of nowhere she came and...did something I never expected her to do. The end.

I was a bit of a freak, wasn't I?

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Age 27
Female
Spain
Seen February 10th, 2023
Posted December 7th, 2017
2,222 posts
15.2 Years
Uhm.. Huh.. Have I?
No, I don't think so. Sure. It's happened to me a couple of times...
But I don't think I'd have the heart, I'd either say yes and go with it or try to let them down gently.

I guess I'd have to be really repulsed by someone to be harsh to someone about it.
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Captain Fabio

Age 33
London, UK
Seen November 4th, 2021
Posted November 2nd, 2021
12,193 posts
17.1 Years
I've never done it harshly or in a mean way, but it's happened quite a few times. Live's a lady killer, sorry. XD

Lady killers o/\o.

Haha, but seriously, I am the same as my buddy Live. I have never been harsh about letting someone down, but it has happened a few times.

Charizard★

Age 28
Female
Seen January 28th, 2019
Posted November 13th, 2018
13,369 posts
13.8 Years
Only when I was a kid XD

I remember the time when I was around 6 years old and there was this girl that would keep on asking me out and such, and I was like 'Eww a girl!' (I was six mind you and girls had cooties.) and she kept on coming over and saying that. But, then she had to move when we were 8 and she said she'd come back to marry me.......pretty weird.


Jorah

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Age 32
Female
UK
Seen August 18th, 2021
Posted September 24th, 2016
4,214 posts
17.1 Years
Oh yes, which I'm quite ashamed of now :/ It was back in secondary school, though. One guy I said "NO" to just so harshly. A few years later apparently the "nerdy guy" of our year had a crush on me, and kept doing er, nice things for me, which just annoyed me. Well, he put his arm around me for a photo and I jumped about a foot away from him upon contact :S I think I'm the person who causes hover hand. Ugh, I feel awful for that now.

NightOfRemorse

my anxieties have anxieties

California
Seen August 24th, 2013
Posted August 24th, 2013
808 posts
12.3 Years
In Kindergarten, there was this little boy who smelled like bananas and he would follow me everywhere! I remember whenever he sat next to me on our alphabet rug I would go sit somewhere else and he would keep following me. And then on the playground he would keep stalking me so I would run away and hide LOL. I feel mean ._."
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Sydian

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Age 30
they/them
Georgia
Seen May 22nd, 2022
Posted November 29th, 2021
33,354 posts
15.2 Years
I uhh...can't think of anyone I rejected that harshly really. Everyone that's asked me out has been someone I liked...so I've never really had to reject someone harshly. I'm not that mean.
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Nick

Seen 4 Weeks Ago
Posted July 28th, 2021
17,572 posts
18.6 Years
The only thing I can remotely remember was that I accused whoever it was for harassing me, and got into a huge mess with the principal, her, the guidance counselor, and some other faculty there. We became friends later on. I don't remember what the outcome of it all was. But I was in first grade, I think.