love will find you out

Started by Rogue planet August 2nd, 2011 5:34 PM
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Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
Do you often tried to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative? What kinds do you try and hide?

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?

And for those outgoing ones who aren't faced with any of these problems:

When faced with someone that's very shy, how do you deal with it?

Have you ever found yourself being a matchmaker for shy individuals? Or for anyone, have you ever had one of your friends try and get you together with somebody else?

Blaziken15

You gotta purty mouth!

Age 26
Male
You know, the place, with the thing, and the stuff
Seen February 17th, 2012
Posted December 23rd, 2011
354 posts
13.2 Years
My friends always try to get me to ask out a girl I've had a crush on for 2 years. It gets quiet annoying and I just hid the feelings.

The sad thing is, being the matchmaker falls in to this story. The girl I wanted asked my oppinion on whether or not she should start dating a close friend of mine had asked her out the same day and who didn't know I had feelings for her. I told her to go for it and BANG, sadness.

Skip Class

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Age 28
Female
New Zealand
Seen July 7th, 2021
Posted July 24th, 2020
4,713 posts
14.8 Years
Usually I'd hide my feelings, whatever they were. Although I've never really felt for someone that bad so... xD


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PlatinumDude

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Age 29
Male
Canada
Seen July 31st, 2020
Posted May 30th, 2020
12,958 posts
12.7 Years
Do you often tried to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative? What kinds do you try and hide?: I try to hide my negative feelings.

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?: I'd do somewhere in between: watch from a distance and getting into a conversation or two.

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?: Yes, because I don't feel ready for them.

Patatas Fritas

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Age 27
Female
Spain
Seen February 10th, 2023
Posted December 7th, 2017
2,222 posts
15.2 Years
I like to hide any negative feelings I have toward someone, especially if I'm talking to them.
Depends on the person. They'll probably find out eventually though because it's obvious.. XD;
No I dont avoid them but I wouldn't say I activley pursue them.
Well, I just talk to them like I would anyone else.
No, I'm not a matchmaker at all. xD
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Do you often tried to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative? What kinds do you try and hide?
I usually try to hide negative feelings all the time. Which I think I do pretty well because no one ever says otherwise.

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?
Most likely do nothing, but it's only because I second guess myself! Whenever I really like someone I just somehow over think it and for every reason I can think of that shows they like me I'll go out of my way to find five that show they don't. Either that or I'll just assume right off that bat that they don't and then I don't end up doing anything because I don't want to make the relationship I have with them awkward.

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?
No.

Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
I tend to let my romantic feelings stew inside for a while until the pressure builds up and I start to feel this need to tell someone, though not necessarily the person I have feelings for. I'm usually too timid to tell a person directly without someone else prodding me first. The same goes for when I really don't like someone. I have this bad habit of feeling like I could always make things worse by doing something.

Most of my stronger feelings I keep hidden just because I don't want to be that person who is overly emotional in public and being stared at by everyone. I also have an image to keep up in front of people who know me so I don't appear as unstable fluid and emotional as I can be on occasion.
Seen September 18th, 2020
Posted February 18th, 2018
7,741 posts
16.6 Years
Do you often try to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative? What kinds do you try and hide?
Crying, if that counts. Otherwise, I generally am as emotionless as I seem.

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?
Something akin to a romantic friendship is about the closest I'd care to get to anyone, and like a friendship conventional to our culture, I just 'let it happen' rather than persue it as an agendum.

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?
Aye.

Have you ever had one of your friends try and get you together with somebody else?
No.

Kylie-chan

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Age 29
Non-binary
New South Wales, Australia
Seen December 3rd, 2022
Posted October 5th, 2016
14,976 posts
18.7 Years
Do you often tried to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative? What kinds do you try and hide?

I used to try to bottle up sadness and fear, but I was terrible at it and everyone knew when I was miserable. All it did was cause outbursts of pent-up angst and tension. I only try to hide bitterness now, though I don't feel bitter very often. I try to be kind to people but I prefer to be upfront about my feelings and if that 'kindness' involves being unable to be emotionally honest with someone then it's questionable whether that 'kindness' is the right thing to do, for me or in general.

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?

Depends, really. I don't like having a rule of thumb for something like that. I'm probably more likely to bide my time until 'the time is right' to strike. If the person is out of my reach, already involved, etc. then I just try to move on. It also depends what's at stake.

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?

Not at all, but deep down I'm rather avoidant and shy, so I can be quite distant during certain moments.
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Age 28
Female
Seen January 28th, 2019
Posted November 13th, 2018
13,369 posts
13.8 Years
I tend to hide all my feelings, good or bad. I don't like people knowing about it because it makes me feel uncomfortable for some reason. If I like someone, I'll judge, if I'm somewhat close to them, I'll pursue, but if I don't know them that much I won't.


Age 33
Female
NC
Seen February 20th, 2012
Posted January 30th, 2012
332 posts
12.3 Years
I hide negative feelings that could be corrosive, like jealousy, fear, or uncertainty, to an extent. I act neutral towards someone I don't like so's not to invite drama. I'm comfortable with expressing positive emotions and won't hesitate to show someone I'm interested, but it's up to the male to pursue.

My sister and I dated brothers once; she set me up with the younger brother after she and the older had already started dating. Didn't amount to much and both of us ended up breaking it off.

2Cool4Mewtwo

Pwning in Ubers since 1996.

Age 29
Male
Cerulean Cave
Seen February 1st, 2013
Posted February 13th, 2012
1,182 posts
12.1 Years
Often times I try to hide my emotions, but I absolutely suck at it. When I see a girl that I'm interested in, I usually can't take it. I blush and my heart beats faster and all, and I sometimes even stutter and nothing comes into my mind. jeez...... I wish I wasn't like this @[email protected]


Seen August 15th, 2011
Posted August 15th, 2011
152 posts
11.8 Years
If I hide feeling it's only because the person I'm interested in hasn't shown me that they're interested in me. I just wait for girls to give me signs they're interested in me, then I pursue them, even if I don't see myself being with them forever. I just look at relationships like that as all in good fun.
Age 29
Female
Under the Bridge
Seen October 15th, 2017
Posted September 23rd, 2011
379 posts
12.8 Years
I myself am not too outgoing, so I'll usually just keep my feelings and emotions to myself.

I'm not really looking for an intimate relationship, so I tend to avoid pursuing people, and those kind of relationships in general.

I have played matchmaker once though, sort of. My best friend and another one of my friends liked each other, but didn't know if the feelings were mutual, so I basically reassured them they were good for each other after they both confided in me.

Elite Overlord LeSabre™

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Age 97
Shimoda City
Seen 2 Days Ago
Posted January 25th, 2022
9,705 posts
15.5 Years
Unless it's something very personal, I'm usually open with my feelings... sometimes a little too much xD I've never fallen for someone intimately, though... so far it's been mostly crushes and little more than that.

And trust me... you don't want me matchmaking for anyone, shy or not.

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Age 34
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I hide negative feelings that could be corrosive, like jealousy, fear, or uncertainty, to an extent. I act neutral towards someone I don't like so's not to invite drama.
I'm more or less like this. I hate needless conflict as it's really stressful so I avoid it at all costs. Usually I'm happy-go-lucky and embrace and express the positive as much as possible.

As for pursuit of a man it really depends, although I won't make a move unless it becomes clear that it'd be okay to. I'm rather afraid of overstepping boundaries, especially with the man I'm after right now, as in the past (as in a couple of years ago) I overstepped them too abruptly and utterly failed the pursuit.




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Age 31
Female
Bronx, New York
Seen September 4th, 2014
Posted September 4th, 2014
12,048 posts
17.3 Years
Do you often tried to hide certain feelings, whether they're positive or negative?
It depends on the situations

What kinds do you try and hide?
the negatives, but as stated above, it depends on the situation

If you're ever interested in someone romantically, would you pursue them or would you do nothing?
I'll wait and be patient and this time it worked

Do you purposefully avoid intimate relationships?
Nope, not at all

Have you ever found yourself being a matchmaker for shy individuals?
Yes, I usually hook my friends up

Or for anyone, have you ever had one of your friends try and get you together with somebody else?
I told my friends not to do that for me and I hope they respect my opinion


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