we've got open arms for broken hearts

Started by Rogue planet August 2nd, 2011 5:58 PM
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Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
Have you ever had your heart broken?

How long did it take you to get over it?

What helped you to deal with it, if anything?

Have you ever had to help a friend deal with a break-up?

And one anyone can answer:
Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?

Kevin

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Age 24
Male
Virginia
Seen February 3rd, 2021
Posted July 5th, 2015
2,686 posts
12.8 Years
Um... Actually no. :D
I don't go out often, plus I usually break up with the people.

But actually I can be sensitive at times, but I keep these feelings locked inside my heart, so I'm like dead quiet on the outside, and act like nothing has happened.

PlatinumDude

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Age 29
Male
Canada
Seen July 31st, 2020
Posted May 30th, 2020
12,958 posts
12.7 Years
Couldn't answer the above questions, so I'll answer the last one:

Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?: I'm a rather sensitive person, so I tend to get my feelings hurt rather easily.

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Age 27
Female
Spain
Seen February 10th, 2023
Posted December 7th, 2017
2,222 posts
15.2 Years
Aye, but I was single at the time. I think the rejection broke my heart. Yeah, I had plenty of friends to help me out during that time. Me and the guy are still close but yeahh... xD; Oh and chocolate helps too!

Yeah, I'm really overly-sensetive. I get so worked up at the littlest things it actually annoys some people.
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Have you ever had your heart broken?
Well once I really liked someone and we were close friends, but they ended up liking my best friend at the time which overly hurt me because I was eleven at the time and easily hurt, but regardless! At the time I considered it having my heart broken because it was the first time I had liked someone that much, but now looking back I laugh at it. So I don't know if I would count that!

How long did it take you to get over it?
Oh god, a really long time. More than a few months at least.

What helped you to deal with it, if anything?
I think eventually you come to a point where you realize it's pointless to keep hurting when they obviously don't care and you just find a way to move on and forget about it. Plus seeing as I was so young my feelings for them was pretty sure to change anyways.

Have you ever had to help a friend deal with a break-up?
Too many times to count.

Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?
If I'm hurt by someone I really care about then yeah they're pretty fragile, but if by anyone else I'm more than likely to not care much at all.

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Age 32
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Australia
Seen October 17th, 2020
Posted December 21st, 2017
8,958 posts
12.3 Years
Never had my heart broken or anything, so I'll move on to the everyone question :P

I'm pretty unfazed by most things. It's hard to hurt my feelings, though it has been done before.
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Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
I've had my heart broken a couple of times. Nothing I want to go into much detail over, but it did take me a while to get over it and in general I had not much help with that so it was a slow process.

I remember one time a friend broke up with her girlfriend. They'd been dating for almost a year and had moved in together and seemed to be a wonderful couple and nothing seemed to be a problem for them. I thinks she was as surprised as everyone. I spent the night sitting with her on the bathroom floor while she cried and got gobs of snot all over my clothes (sorry for that detail, it's just really vivid in my memory). That wasn't the last time I was a shoulder to cry on, but it was the longest, worst time.

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THE HOST IS BROKEN

Seen April 13th, 2016
Posted April 12th, 2016
4,163 posts
14.2 Years
Never really experienced it myself, I've broken up with people but on good terms really.

Have you ever had to help a friend deal with a break-up?
Yes, a friend of mine (a girl) broke up with a boy she'd been seeing for a few months, but he broke up with her just saying that they weren't working, when she was really fond of him. She was really upset, but me and my friends managed to help her get over it.

Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?
Well, I wouldn't call myself an emo, but I don't really think my emotions would be really hurt that bad on a certain occurrence, but not unfazed.
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Age 28
Female
Seen January 28th, 2019
Posted November 13th, 2018
13,369 posts
13.8 Years
Have you ever had your heart broken?
Twice sadly.

How long did it take you to get over it?

First one, a week, second one took, or I should say taking months.

What helped you to deal with it, if anything?
Avoiding the person, not coming into contact with them, etc.

Have you ever had to help a friend deal with a break-up?

Plenty of times. They usually come to me, so I console them and things.

And one anyone can answer:
Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?

Easily hurt, sadly. I wish that I could change that :/


Age 31
Female
Bronx, New York
Seen September 4th, 2014
Posted September 4th, 2014
12,048 posts
17.3 Years
Have you ever had your heart broken?
Nope and I dont think I ever will

How long did it take you to get over it?
It never happend to me and I am super lucky

What helped you to deal with it, if anything?
When I broke up with the person or vice versa, I would ignore them and it worked

Have you ever had to help a friend deal with a break-up?
Yes, so many times. One of my friends broke up with this girl like 2 years ago and he is still feeling it, he needs to move on already

Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?
Unfazed


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Seen February 7th, 2015
Posted March 10th, 2014
60 posts
11.8 Years
Ive never had my heart broken, soooo, ill move on to the final question
Are your emotions fragile and easily hurt, or are you usually unfazed?
Depends on the insult, when it hits me really deep, I wallow in a corner for like an hour than feel better.
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