Forgiveness

Started by Mazen August 5th, 2011 3:28 PM
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Nick

Seen 4 Weeks Ago
Posted July 28th, 2021
17,572 posts
18.6 Years
I've forgiven every single person who has ever wronged me. I feel this is a flaw in my character, but I do find that forgiveness is a valuable and necessary trait. A trait much more pure than resentment and grudges like other people I know hold over people. Though, when used in excess, it's something that - again, is flawed.

2Cool4Mewtwo

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Age 29
Male
Cerulean Cave
Seen February 1st, 2013
Posted February 13th, 2012
1,182 posts
12.1 Years
I'm generally unforgiving towards others, though I do have to unwillingly forgive others (only explicitly) when I have to. I always look down on people who do something wrong to me, and dislike them even more when they try to console me. It comes across me as a "pathetic excuse for being lame." IMO It's one of my glaring weaknesses as a person. Trait that I need to fix somehow. (You should've seen how mad I was when I lost PC easter egg contest by 1 EGG)


Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
I'm very forgiving. It's probably because I've made so many mistakes myself that I'd feel like a hypocrite to hold anything against anyone else. Everyone makes mistakes and as long as someone doesn't continue to hold hatred or resentment for me I have no reason not to forgive them.

Her

Age 29
Seen 5 Hours Ago
Posted 4 Days Ago
i hold grudges permanently, thats just how i am

Hybrid Trainer

Age 28
Him/Them
«UK»
Seen April 12th, 2023
Posted January 27th, 2022
2,096 posts
14.5 Years
Since i'm quite hard to offend in the first place if you do something that is worth forgiving then i probably wont forgive you. But its not always 100% so if you do end up being forgiven it means you mean a lot to me :3

Meganium

memento mori

she/her
Houston, TX
Seen February 1st, 2023
Posted February 1st, 2023
I'm really, really, reallyreallyreallyreallyreally bad at forgiving others. If someone has done anything wrong to me, I shun them out of my life and never speak to that person for months, or even years. Yeah, it sounds a bit harsh, but that's how I was for a long time. :/

It is rare for me to find it in my heart to forgive a person after a bad thing.

Shining Raichu

Expect me like you expect Jesus.

Age 32
Male
Australia
Seen October 17th, 2020
Posted December 21st, 2017
8,958 posts
12.3 Years
I'm incredibly forgiving. Sometimes when someone has upset me I milk it a little bit, but I always make sure it works out in the end. I just ask that as I'm so forgiving toward others, they show me the same courtesy.
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Age 31
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Bronx, New York
Seen September 4th, 2014
Posted September 4th, 2014
12,048 posts
17.3 Years
If I do not like the person, then I will never forgive them. If I am neutral with the person, it would take a long time for me to forgive them and if I like the person, it would take a while for me to forgive them


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Mr Cat Dog

Frasier says it best

Age 32
Male
London, UK
Seen September 29th, 2017
Posted July 12th, 2017
11,344 posts
19.1 Years
I'm way too forgiving for my own good. Most of the time, it's completely justified; those few instances where it's not have the effect of making me look ridiculously week. It's an aspect of my personality that's probably not going to change, so I might as well get used to it.

Elite Overlord LeSabre™

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Age 97
Shimoda City
Seen 2 Days Ago
Posted January 25th, 2022
9,705 posts
15.5 Years
If it's something minor, I can forgive easily. If it's something that involves personal attacks or theft or something major, it's much harder for me to forgive... I still hold major grudges against people fromm Sppf for insulting, negative things they said to me over three years ago.

My IRL friends I can forgive pretty easily. My parents, not so much, though...

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