seeker

Ireland
Seen November 1st, 2019
Posted May 20th, 2018
10,593 posts
14.1 Years
Depends on what angle I'm looking at her from you know? But whatever angle, it's gotta be all chicken' lickin'. But she's also gotta have that certain swagga. Now, I know I'm spoken for and all that yo, but this relates to that one who speaks for me. You dig? Of course, the first thing I am attracted to, is looks, because you need to be attracted to that girl. Other wise you wont be able to do the dirty dance with no pants in the wrong sorta stance, if you catch my drift. The eyes lure me in, the voice caresses my senses, except the smell one, the perfume does that. But you get me. Figure is amazing too, girl gotta have some figure. She can't be taller than me though, she'll be trippin', and not in the metaphorical sense either.


dat ass
Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
dat ass

personality, really. I've meant plenty of ~mediocre looking~ people that are far sexier thanks to their personality; and plenty of stunners that just are annoying as **** which is an instant turn off

and then theres bad lookers but you know
if someone doesn't care enough to at least make themselves presentable then they probably have a stinky personality anyway

seriously though, dat ass is important too
Seen January 4th, 2013
Posted October 21st, 2011
1,804 posts
13.8 Years
i kind of drew the idea that we subconsciously base what we're attracted to on the opposite of ourselves after having a discussion with my friend, who is a big hairy, muscular dude who happens to dig scrawny, feminine men. then there's me: a small, delicate, not-hairy girl who fauns over bestial beards and general burliness. obviously attraction is more complicated than that but it was an interesting talk

Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
When someone has a subtle fire burning like the embers and coals in a bonfire. You can see that they aren’t letting themselves shine at their full brightness and it makes me want to know what they’re holding it in for. Someone with a small, shy, but silently confident smile. Someone who makes you want to talk with them, who creates a feeling in the air that invites you in and makes you feel safe. Someone witty. I also like broad noses and dark eyes.

This is difficult.

moments.

quixotic

keyholes
Seen January 3rd, 2017
Posted March 13th, 2014
3,406 posts
14.9 Years
For me it can be either, it depends on what I notice first to be honest. Obviously, just because someone is good looking, doesn't mean I'm going to approach her and ask to get to know her... But like, if I meet them the first time, and they are funny, nice, have a personality that I like, that will be what draws me, if they are good looking, and not just like physically, but fashion sense, if they seem confident and stuff, then that can draw me in as well.

It's the whole package really, but it can be either which catches my attention ultimately...
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Age 27
Female
Seen August 25th, 2013
Posted June 30th, 2013
331 posts
12.7 Years
Mostly intelligence. Like, even if they're really good looking, I'm not going to be that attracted to them if they're a total idiot. And vice versa, I don't really care if they're kinda unattractive as long as they're smart.

But if I'm looking at appearance alone... I really like when guys wear suits. Like we go to the city on vacation and I always stare at all the cute businessmen! <3