I am SO hot!

Started by Nick November 22nd, 2011 4:23 AM
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Age 31
Female
Bronx, New York
Seen September 4th, 2014
Posted September 4th, 2014
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17.3 Years
The little things that boost myself esteem is usually my appearance. My hair for example, is liked by practically everyone that I walk by, the way my eyes look (many people say it is beautiful) and when I put eyeliner and mascara on, they look even more better and they sparkle.


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Holy Roman Empire
Seen February 23rd, 2016
Posted February 23rd, 2016
2,551 posts
13.7 Years
My self-esteem is inversely proportional to the number of people around. So when I'm alone, I feel like I'm the king of the world, in a group of four or five I'm still comfortable, in a group of nine or ten I always feel awkward, and crowds make me want to scream/die/whatever.

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Lone ★ State
Seen February 21st, 2013
Posted February 19th, 2013
271 posts
12.1 Years
My confidence gets boost whenever someone says how hot or good looking I am. To which I respond with; Hmph. >///< I don't believe it, though. xD Also, when someone tells me I'm really intelligent or in their words a "genius". Which I also don't think is true. xD
But my confidence really gets boost whenever someone praise something I did and tell me I did a great job.^^

Yoshikko

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Posted February 6th, 2020
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When I feel comfortable with what I'm wearing and the people I am around. If I feel uncomfortable my expression shows and I get self-conscious etc.

Her

Age 29
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When people give me compliments, my confidence goes up. I like compliments, we all do. So naturally, a compliment makes me feel good about myself for a certain period of time. But it takes a lot to raise my self esteem, something which has been very low for a very long time. I mean, I won't lie, I do take a lot of pictures. But I have this theory that may sound stupid to you, but it makes sense to me. Basically, I feel that if I take enough pictures of myself (not like a cam ***** but you know what I mean), over time I will begin to feel comfortable in my own skin. This little 'experiment' per say won't work for everyone, but I think that it'll work for me. Ultimately, I will feel that the experiment will be completed if I can post a picture of myself and not care what people will think of it.

Uecil

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My confidence usually gets boosted when people say nice things about my personality or the things I do.



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Posted January 4th, 2012
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11.5 Years
this is going to sound so nerdy, but educational achievements. i feel accomplished looking at a certificate and knowing i put in all that hard work for it and got great marks.

and when people attribute even a little inspiration to me, that makes me feel really great (:

Yoshikko

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Posted February 6th, 2020
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Compliments and achievements are the two main factors to give my ego a boost which it doesn't generally need, but it's much appreciated regardless.
it doesn't need it indeed LOL

Dawn

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Let's see... The things that really boost my self esteem are when others come forward on their own and genuinely compliment me. I like to know when what I say is valued or when what I create as an artist is enjoyed. I like to know when someone thinks I'm a good friend. Those sorts of things.

One of the more passive things that boosts my self esteem are my friends. Just having them around makes me feel better about life in general.
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Esper

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Appreciation and accomplishments. Even better when I do something for someone else and they really understand the effort I put into it. I can look like a hot mess and hate myself all day but if someone tells me 'thanks' then I feel like 50 times better.

And I wanna echo what Yellow said about friends. Having them around just makes me feel better about myself.

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Age 27
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Spain
Seen February 10th, 2023
Posted December 7th, 2017
2,222 posts
15.2 Years
yes, i am so hot.

My ego is boosted (if thats possible i mean it's so inflated) when people compliment me and stuff, depending on the person more or less so but either way you get the picture. Oh and when I'm right, which is all the time, when I look nice which is also all the time are all also factors which attribute to causing my ego to boost.
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Compliments, when I do well in an exam. Even the most smallest things. Though saying that, I think there are more things that lower my self-esteem.
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Age 28
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A few have said it but basically just small compliments will do the trick.

Things like writing fanfic and sometimes art where I'm not confident about what I've done and people reviewing my work just gets me a little more confident than I originally was.


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Truality

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Posted December 4th, 2012
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11.8 Years
My self-esteem is in perfect equation with the amount of care I give. If I care about something someone said about me, of course my self-esteem drops or rises accordingly. If I don't care, however, I'm usually confident-no matter what I do.

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