I haven't got anything better to do

Started by Kikaito plush November 27th, 2012 6:42 AM
  • 621 views
  • 10 replies

Kikaito plush

Angeline plushxKikaito plush

Age 30
Male
plushies resort
Seen May 30th, 2019
Posted February 28th, 2019
5,557 posts
13.4 Years
this might be placed on another board...anyhow

What really annoys me is when people decide to hang around me when they haven't got anything to do. Even when I say I need to pick up my daughter from school " Oh I'll come with you" without thinking I want to spend more time with them. He came with me to pick my daughter up..Straight away my daughter said " GO HOME DAVID" he told her. No I haven't got anything to do so I'm staying.

anyhow how do you feel about people hanging around ?

Kura

twitter.com/puccarts

Age 33
Female
London, UK (orig. Toronto, Canada)
Seen August 30th, 2021
Posted August 24th, 2021
10,993 posts
18.7 Years
this might be placed on another board...anyhow

What really annoys me is when people decide to hang around me when they haven't got anything to do. Even when I say I need to pick up my daughter from school " Oh I'll come with you" without thinking I want to spend more time with them. He came with me to pick my daughter up..Straight away my daughter said " GO HOME DAVID" he told her. No I haven't got anything to do so I'm staying.

anyhow how do you feel about people hanging around ?
You get annoyed by a lot of things.. yet I find it strange that you don't tell them straight up "actually I rather be alone if you wouldn't mind." Same with when other people ask you for errands. Why don't you just speak your mind instead of talking about them behind their backs?

Anyways, no, I don't mind when people hang around with me.. if I rather be alone, I tell them I need space. I don't like, however, when people try and invite themselves into my home. I've had something happen to me where, when I was more naive, I had invited a friend up because they said they just needed a quick glass of water after walking me home, then something happened that was pretty scary, but I am thankful they had enough of a mind to respect my boundaries and didn't touch me.. but what they said makes me think more than twice now about trusting people that easily- even if they are friends.
Different situation though. I'm not going into detail.
~Yuugiou Fan~
~Kamen Rider Fan~
♡(´・ω・`)LOVE! ☆

Sassy Milkshake

It's ok to cry.

Age 31
Female
Seen February 10th, 2013
Posted January 28th, 2013
371 posts
10.5 Years
People usually don't hang around that often, at least not around me. Not sure if that's good or not haha. If I'm hanging around with someone, we both have nothing to do. If I have something to do people usually respect that and leave me alone.

Going with you to pick up your daughter though? That's more awkward than it is a cure for boredom.

antemortem

rest after tomorrow

Age 24
he/they
Los Angeles
Seen June 15th, 2022
Posted June 14th, 2022
7,467 posts
11.3 Years
If I'm in a position to be hung around, and people take advantage of it because they need to hang around somewhere, then I don't mind. Mingling with people of the same species, so to speak, can never do any harm, especially when there's not much else I could be doing with my existence at that point in time. Of course, if I don't really like that person I'm sure I could find ~something~ to do.
TURN ON THE BRIGHT LIGHTS

Elite Overlord LeSabre™

On that 'Non stop road'

Age 97
Shimoda City
Seen 2 Days Ago
Posted January 25th, 2022
9,705 posts
15.5 Years
As long as I somewhat know them, I'm not in a bad mood or in a rush to get somewhere, and they aren't too annoying (and don't smell like toxic waste) I don't mind being in the company of people for no particular reason. I actually like being able to make small talk with friends and acquaintances, particularly if I don't have anything to do either.

Elite Overlord LeSabre™
PC Vital Stats
* Pair
* PC Family
* Bishies
* VG Claims
* Friend Codes
Links
* Blog
* Web Site
* Fan Fictions:
* Leaf Green LP

Her

Age 29
Seen 4 Hours Ago
Posted 4 Days Ago
If they're someone I respect/like, then they can hang around, it's cool. However, if I don't know them or if I have a particular vehemence for them then I will tell them to go buzz off.
However, I tend to be in a mood quite often where I don't want anyone hanging around me full stop, so I get pissy and tell whoever they are to leave. If they stay or intentionally hang around just to piss me off, certain swear words will come out and I will give them a good ol' fashioned tongue lashing.

Shining Raichu

Expect me like you expect Jesus.

Age 32
Male
Australia
Seen October 17th, 2020
Posted December 21st, 2017
8,958 posts
12.3 Years
I'm absolutely fine with it as long as I don't have something pressing to do. I like people so if someone wants to hang I'm happy to let them :)
Moderator of General Chat