this might be placed on another board...anyhow
What really annoys me is when people decide to hang around me when they haven't got anything to do. Even when I say I need to pick up my daughter from school " Oh I'll come with you" without thinking I want to spend more time with them. He came with me to pick my daughter up..Straight away my daughter said " GO HOME DAVID" he told her. No I haven't got anything to do so I'm staying.
anyhow how do you feel about people hanging around ?
You get annoyed by a lot of things.. yet I find it strange that you don't tell them straight up "actually I rather be alone if you wouldn't mind." Same with when other people ask you for errands. Why don't you just speak your mind instead of talking about them behind their backs?
Anyways, no, I don't mind when people hang around with me.. if I rather be alone, I tell them I need space. I don't like, however, when people try and invite themselves into my home. I've had something happen to me where, when I was more naive, I had invited a friend up because they said they just needed a quick glass of water after walking me home, then something happened that was pretty scary, but I am thankful they had enough of a mind to respect my boundaries and didn't touch me.. but what they said makes me think more than twice now about trusting people that easily- even if they are friends.
Different situation though. I'm not going into detail.