Are you more masculine or feminine?

Started by Mia Mew September 19th, 2013 6:39 PM
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Mia Mew

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Age 26
Female
USA
Seen September 27th, 2013
Posted September 21st, 2013
31 posts
9.7 Years
This can go for both appearance or personality. Whichever you feel like answering, I guess. Of course, you could also be somewhere in between.

As for my answer:

Appearance: I've always kinda looked like a boy. T_T I never really developed much at all in the chest and people say I have a boyish face. It's something I'm kinda insecure about but I've gotten better with it.

Personality: People say I'm super "girly" but I think a lot of gender roles are silly anyway.
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IggyKoopa

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Rochester, NY
Seen May 3rd, 2017
Posted March 25th, 2016
384 posts
9.7 Years
As far as appearance goes, I used to look like a girl from a distance when I still had long-ish hair.

As for personality, well... I've been mistaken for a girl on PC. That was before I had an avatar & sig, and I don't think my avi/sig combo now helps much. :P

But I accept it and I actually kind of enjoy it... it makes me slightly more unique. :P

xseed

Reality? Or a dream?

Age 29
Male
Miississippi
Seen December 3rd, 2013
Posted November 13th, 2013
441 posts
9.7 Years
I will proudly post that as a male I am not very masculine at all.
I dislike sports and muscles and exercising. I mean come on. why do men like that crap anyway. I also have somewhat long hair(goes down to about to the part of my back near my neck) and do not like cutting my hair at all. I also have a "baby face" as well. I also perfer to be the opposite gender on video games ect. I dunno why but I am most comfortable doing that. I also dislike fighting(dispite my very quick temper. hahaa. guess you can refer to me as a gentle giant.). In additon I am also very emotional too(which Is why I hate getting angry as if I get too angry I start to cry). I still dress masculine but I perfer to wear loose clothing(my favorite combo is to wear a buttoned up shirt openly and wear a t-shirt under it. I even dont mind shopping(though most of the time I am home playing video games). as for jjust how feminine I am I have no idea.

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Sandshrew4

Also known as Sandwich

Age 24
Male
Illinois, USA
Seen November 18th, 2013
Posted November 18th, 2013
304 posts
10.6 Years
I used to have pretty long hair, but I never really looked like a girl. Specially now that my hairs short, I look like a guy, which I am, so yay?

I'm going to generalise so much in this bit, please don't kill me.
I'd say that in the stereotypes of boys and girls my age, I fit in neither group. Im not like a guy in that I'm into girls, dating, or any of that crud, I couldn't care less if I'm "jacked" or whatever, and I wear my pants like they're supposed to be worn. Around my waist. I do like sports though.
Yah, I'm a guy, so of course I'm not into makeup or any of that, I detest shopping, I don't like guys (I don't "like" anyone, ok?), and I'm just not like a girl. Most of the girls I know are very empathetic and caring, so I guess in that aspect I share the trait of the stereotypical girl my age, or try at least.

I can relate most to an 8 year old boy. Enough said.

I think I was confused for a girl on here once, actually XD
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Trev

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Age 26
Male
Seen December 31st, 2021
Posted March 27th, 2019
1,505 posts
11 Years
Sadly, I am more feminine when it comes to my personality... and in some aspects my appearance as well. I was raised by mostly females, so I didn't end up like most guys (aka, I hate exercising, I don't care if I'm buff, I usually don't care how I look) and that's gotten me a lot of **** from people in my school. Eh, whatcha gonna do?

Hiatus

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Posted July 24th, 2021
12,283 posts
10.8 Years
I'm not very muscular appearance-wise. I'm kind of happy about it though, because in my opinion, women look a bit unattractive when they have too much muscles on their body. D: When it comes to personality, I'm not too muscular, either. My feelings are extremely sensitive, and they're bruised quite easily. I could also be pretty shy around people, especially around those who I don't know or haven't seen in a while. If shyness wasn't holding me back, then I would have been a lot further in my life than where I am today.

Kanzler

naughty biscotti

Male
Toronto
Seen April 22nd, 2022
Posted March 11th, 2022
5,957 posts
14.8 Years
I enjoy exercising and building muscle because I am deeply insecure about my own masculinity so I overcompensate in order to dissipate obsessive doubts about my own sexuality. I am also very concerned about how I am perceived by women in social settings and I'm always working on my game. I try my best to keep my emotions on the inside, but when I'm alone it's too much for me to handle and I pour my self-shame into a pillow at night so no one can hear me.

Nah, being male is pretty cool. Exercising isn't about being masculine or feminine, to me it's about taking control of your life - your body is just one aspect of that - and this applies to both men and women. Also, sports (and dance) for people is a way to communicate to yourself and express to others with your body. That kind of vigorous activity can scream to you that just how "much" you're alive in a very unique and rewarding way, and I see that in both men and women that strongly identify with that kind of flow or feeling.

I'm relatively more wary about how women perceive me than men because I have this strange belief that men don't judge each other unless he has a bad reason for doing so. I know some pretty empathetic guys, but maybe they're all gay or something.

I don't look particularly masculine as I'll always look rather slight. I've been trying to grow some facial hair but I think it only works with a particular set of clothing, else I wouldn't be taken seriously.

T_T I never really developed much at all in the chest and people say I have a boyish face.
All things considered, my own chest development is going pretty well 8D

New Eden

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Age 29
Female
My Nevereverland
Seen September 20th, 2014
Posted September 13th, 2014
406 posts
9.9 Years
I guess I'm pretty masculine in my appearance, though I hope to change it. Be it my legs or my face, I always have some sort of shadow no matter what. I don't work out, pertaining to anything outside of the usual lifting/running around at my job though (baby weights, aka ranges of 2-25 kilos of food boxes sometimes for hours on end.)

Personality is quickly accelerating into turbo feminine mode. Over time I've found myself dismissing stereotypically masculine traits and roles in which I attempted to shove myself into during adolescence. Part of this though is because of my acceptance of myself.

Synerjee

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Seen May 28th, 2016
Posted February 25th, 2016
2,901 posts
10.6 Years
Although I am female and look like a female and act like a female and talk like a female and like female-related stuff, I'm not exactly what you call.....girly. Sure, I'm feminine to an extent, but you know, those girls that like putting on make up and shopping and dresses and stuff - that ain't me. I do like window shopping though lol

Oh, and I have been mistaken here for a guy before once or twice. I guess that proves my point? Haha.

On the Likert Scale...

Masculine...1...2...3...4...5...6...7...Feminine
(between 5 - 6)

Treecko

the princess without voice

Age 31
He/Him
St.Louis,Missouri
Seen November 30th, 2021
Posted November 29th, 2021
6,311 posts
11.2 Years
Appearance wise I'm more masculine than feminine. I have short hair, facial hair (a very big goatee too), and good amount of leg hair. And from the looks of it, my face is a bit more masculine than feminine but I'm not sure what's considered a manly face. I also dress more of what a stereotypical man dresses like. T-shirts (some plaid buttons downs) , jeans, and athletic pants/shorts. Though on the other hand, I'm not at all muscular built and pretty out of shape. Personality wise I'm about 50/50. I do enjoy sports, but I can't get into them as much as some guys. Though my favorite sport is baseball and my favorite team are the Cardinals. They're in first right now and that makes me really happy. I get passionate about the playoffs hahaha. But I only watch sports and never play them. I can get into video games, but mostly Pokemon and Nintendo games, not stuff such as CoD, Halo, sports games, or Assassin's Creed. I don't really care what I wear as I already stated and I don't follow fashion as much as I used to. I usually just pick I think looks good and go throughout my day. Although I do enjoy getting new clothes and if there's something I like I buy it. I mostly listen to what's usually considered masculine music ;rock, aternative , and some hardcore but also some electronic pop and synthpop occasionally. I also talk rather feminine (especially on Facebook and Tumblr) and I tend to bicker sometimes too. If I was asked this 3-5 years ago I would say I'm more feminine looking. I had longer hair and at one point had it been bleached. I was always buying what was in style more such as plaid shirts and skinny jeans. And I enjoyed more feminine music or most pop music such as Beyonce, Rihanna , Lady Gaga, Kesha, Christina Aguilera, Gwen Stefani, some Britney and Katy Perry, etc. I know certain music shouldn't really be assigned to certain genders, but unfortunately that's how society works. I also was more in touched with my emotions back then.
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Hikamaru

Age 30
Female
Australia
Seen January 24th, 2019
Posted September 4th, 2018
50,214 posts
12.2 Years
I'm female, and I look feminine, my personality however is not. I don't like doing all those girly things like wearing make-up, shopping or hanging out. The latter being hampered by my social issues. In fact, I actually act way more "masculine" than I think. You could probably say I'm a manly girl. So yeah I'm more of the masculine type of girl which sorta explains some of my avatars/sigs that I use here.
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Crunch Punch

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Age 25
Male
England
Seen March 18th, 2019
Posted January 16th, 2017
1,374 posts
10.2 Years
My interests lean more towards the masculine side of things. I love I guess what you call "boy stuff" like football, cars, shooter games, paintball blah blah blah, cringe at most romantic stuff in movies and anime (though there are times where I can be a sucka for them, but that's rare :p) and I never really had an interest on anything... girlish? I think that's because of the influence my sisters had on me. Having three sisters can make all the feminine stuff look really lame aha

In the internet though I have been mistaken for a lass once, which was a strange experience. I guess I do kinda act a little more feminine whenever I'm in PC than in real life but... nah, I still think I act more masculine. I dunno.

Appereance-wise I'm definitely more masculine than feminine aha, not that I have like bursting guns on my biceps or ripped eight-pack abs but I do try get some arm muscle at least.
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Kotone

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Female
somewhere ;]
Seen June 29th, 2018
Posted June 14th, 2018
2,787 posts
14.1 Years
i think i'm mix, but more probably more feminine (:

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Dreg

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Seen July 11th, 2016
Posted July 11th, 2016
1,496 posts
11.2 Years
With long hair, I've had people say to me "are you a girl?" and I've never really answered to it. I would say I'm a lot more Feminine than I am Masculine, because I'm a lot more emotional and I can be more gentle. Another feminine trait that I have is that I prefer to have little to no body/facial hair, I hate it so much.

Broken_Arrow

Paper Plane

Female
The Land of Amun
Seen August 28th, 2021
Posted January 5th, 2019
1,209 posts
11.7 Years
Not so sure i think i'm so-so not girly not manly but i think I'm a bit boyish female though..when i look at my childhood i loved to kick ze guys ass whenever they annoy me or my sisters and friends...i didn't have time to cry like ze other girls did! 0.o ...ahh,old days ^.^
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Age 28
Female
USA
Seen October 23rd, 2013
Posted September 29th, 2013
28 posts
9.7 Years
My overall appearance is feminine, but I've been told that when I don't wear makeup, my face is more androgynous (or, basically, in the middle).

I've been told I have a more masculine personality, but I think I have some feminine traits in it as well. However, I try to avoid assigning personality traits a gender, so I'm not going to elaborate any further on this.
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Nick

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Posted July 28th, 2021
17,572 posts
18.6 Years
Appearance, I mean, obviously I'm more masculine.

Inner workings, I suppose, are a mixed bag and depends on the day. I have both masculine and feminine interests and I can't really identify male and female traits, past the hyper-masculine and hyper-feminine ones, which I think is a huge relief to my psyche. Somedays I feel more masculine than I do feminine, and some days I feel more feminine than I feel more masculine. I'd like to think, in the grand scale of things, that I'm more on the masculine side than the feminine one, though.