Your biggest secret.

Started by Nick December 15th, 2013 7:55 PM
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Nick

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Posted July 28th, 2021
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Everyone has a secret or two. Whether it be something that they feel will harm their relationship with someone, something that they just can't really accept about themselves, something that you just don't tell people, or any number of things. Revealing that secret to people you know offline can be incredibly difficult, but I've found that telling them to a person or two on the internet is kind of different. Setting the secret loose and on the world is incredibly liberating, even if it is to someone you may never come to know.

Would you feel comfortable revealing your biggest secret to anonymous? Do you find any differences between revealing it to someone you don't know as opposed to someone you see every day? How many secrets do you have that you aren't comfortable revealing to people you know in your life? Do you have any that you would feel comfortable revealing here? If so, what are they? If not, why do you feel that way?
I am not a person to keep secrets tbh because I like being open and not hiding anything from anyone, but I do have one or two secrets that I wouldn't dream of telling anyone on or offline unless I felt 100% comfortable of doing so. Sure, telling online friends is a bit easier and I actually have told one or two people here those secrets but it's still incredibly frustrating to actually hit the enter key and send those messages :/

Sydian

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Age 30
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Seen May 22nd, 2022
Posted November 29th, 2021
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15.2 Years
I don't have secrets per se. I have one thing I'm trying to figure out lately, but it's nothing that would really change any relationships I have with people or anything. In fact, I think it would just confuse them more. There's only one person that knows about it, because he was the perfect person to ask. I'd probably only share that with like...one person, aside from the one I went to for advice. But it's not anything I'd be upset over if someone found out, unless they used it to make fun of me for whatever reason.

Back to the "not having secrets per se" thing, I really don't have any major secrets. I have certain things I don't like people to know, but that doesn't fit into the secret category to me. idk what that'd make it though, lol.
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Sniper

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Seen August 9th, 2016
Posted June 5th, 2016
1,412 posts
9.5 Years
I don't keep secrets now. Since they cause big, big problems, as always.
But back in high school, I had a secret relationship with my Girlfriend. But
her parents was strict, as well as mine, we've decided a secret relationship.
It was very hard, but at the end, my parents found out. But they didn't get
mad at me, instead they congratulate me. Which is the best feeling. Yet, my
GF's parents aren't that happy when I introduce myself to them. But it all
worked out in the end. Happy ending, now she's still with me. ^^


Flushed

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Seen November 4th, 2017
Posted May 18th, 2017
2,301 posts
9.7 Years
I do have a secret that could potentially cause problems. I have no problem sharing it anonymously or with people I don't know/will never see, but I haven't exactly been in such a situation. Here for instance would be risky (idk if that's the right word), since I don't make it a point to be anonymous, I have my location posted and people may know me from around the internet. Conversely, if I got to know someone really well, like from here, or somewhere on the internet, I'd probably share the secret if they were genuinely interested.

At the same time, the insecurity factor probably plays a role in that. Like OP said, having a secret sometimes has to do with accepting something about yourself, and sometimes that's difficult if it goes against the flow of things.
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Posted February 12th, 2022
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Hmmm, not really any super big secrets for me that I can share. I know some other peoples big secrets, but it's not my place to share those with the world, lol. Family doesn't know I don't believe in God, I guess that's the biggest thing I hide that I can post on here. Like some above me have said, secrets cause problems and always float to the surface eventually.

Sam89

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Seen March 26th, 2014
Posted December 18th, 2013
71 posts
9.5 Years
Mine are usually to dark and horrid to tell. But I sometimes used make accounts with the emails of stangers. (I used to like trolling people but I was 10.) I also wonder traded that Espurr that my brother loved a lot and if the police of San Diego look at this thread than I hope that they don't suspect anything. If they're reading this, I didn't do it. I rarely let my parents know anything about my social life but it's not what they think. I'm 12 not 6.

disciplish

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Seen June 17th, 2020
Posted April 13th, 2020
880 posts
10.7 Years
I guess it's safe to say that from PC, I have one [or two?] secrets- which are both embarrassing to the point that I wouldn't want to share them. Besides that I can tell you mostly everything you need to know about me, if you ask.

Outside of PC/the Internet... I guess I'm a lot more secretive haha. A lot of people think I look suspicious because I'm usually so happy or smiling or whatever, but it's more like no one ever brings up any topics that require me to share anything that could be a secret. More like "how was your day" or "dude look at this pic" or whatever random jokes my friends have or something.
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14.3 Years
oh good god no I have only told said secret to one person, thank god they understand but anyone else would be like WTF.

I'm open about like 99.9% of things but that is just a BIG NO

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Posted December 21st, 2013
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9.6 Years
I have lot's of secrets...
Like the time when I used t-.... wait... I ain't tellin' ya!
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Posted December 21st, 2017
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I don't have any secrets, it's not the way I run my life anymore.

When I did have secrets, I was much more comfortable relaying them online than in real life. Everybody on PC knew I was gay before my family and friends in real life did; and I didn't even tell anybody I was on PC for fear they'd come looking and find out.
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Treecko

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Seen November 30th, 2021
Posted November 29th, 2021
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11.2 Years
The only real big secret I have is something I can't tell anyone since it's related to family matters and I just don't want to risk giving much details on it even on here. Though generally I'm rather open about myself.
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Posted November 7th, 2022
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14.7 Years
I don't have secrets. I don't see the point, really, and I have a big mouth as it is. Seriously though, if we're close enough, you'll know every single thing about me, darkest and grimmest secrets included.
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