I didn't do it because I don't like that person

Started by Kikaito plush June 3rd, 2014 1:57 AM
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Kikaito plush

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Posted February 28th, 2019
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I asked my sister in law to take my daughter to something important, We'll name her Lucy(not her real name) and when I ask my daughter did she have an good time at the thing she told me she did not go.

Me: Lucy why didn't you take Hanna to that thing ?
Lucy: I saw someone go in
me: and ?
Lucy: I don't like this person so I didn't go
me: SO WHAT!

Anyway do you know anyone who does this ?
Age 29
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Seen January 2nd, 2015
Posted November 28th, 2014
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12.1 Years
Wow! Unfriend immediately!! If you have an obligation to take your sister's daughter to this very important event, YOU ♥♥♥♥ING TAKE HER! There had to be some serious reason you asked her to take your daughter, she needs kick in the head seriously.

The only reason for me to have said no to your request is if I had a personal vendetta out against you, not because I saw someone I didn't like.

Oryx

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Posted December 27th, 2014
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I mean...it's not the answer you're very obviously looking for but yes, I do sometimes refuse to do things if it involves interacting with people I don't like. It influences my enjoyment of the thing I wanted to do, if I have to feel stressed about it, so if the event is small enough where we can't avoid each other, I'd rather not go than have to have cordial interactions with someone I don't get along with.

Luckily, there are very few people that I don't get along with so it doesn't hinder me much.


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If it's for me alone, yeah, I'll not go to an event if I know someone else is gonna be there. But if I'm taking someone else there, I have a responsibility to them to take them there, and I won't back out because I'm a brat.
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Posted December 8th, 2014
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I think that, when asking a favor to somebody, one should mind how this person might feel about it at least a bit and be considerate.
Maybe this person would have felt a great degree of discomfort being in the presence of this other person, for reasons you might not be aware of...
While it's rather hard for me to imagine myself in such a situation of discomfort, if I gave my word I would still do it, but my previous point still stands: I would avoid asking a favor to someone if I knew doing so meant putting them in an awkward position.
Then again, I have never asked a favor to anyone so this post might be worthless advice...