Are you a social OUTCAST

Started by Rogue planet August 24th, 2014 3:38 PM
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Do you fit in y/n

Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
3,499 posts
14.9 Years
Do you feel like you don't fit in with everyone around you? Be it family, classmates, work colleagues, anybody. we're here to listen to you so don't be shy, we are all on a pokemon forum after all

If you aren't a social outcast tell us how you are so SUCCESSFUL with your normal person swag and plethora of friends

Nick

Seen 4 Weeks Ago
Posted July 28th, 2021
17,572 posts
18.6 Years
No but I think there are many social outcasts here.

I'm a little socially awkward. I'm not really sure what I do though. But I can make friends pretty easily and a lot of people tend to like me. I can't think of anyone offline who dislikes me. I'm pretty easy to get along with and compatible with different types of people.

Shiny Bunnelby

Tolerated, but never celebrated.

Age 31
Female
Oklahoma, United States
Seen November 1st, 2015
Posted April 20th, 2015
362 posts
8.9 Years
Jesus, no. I mean, I had an okay school experience, because I am outspoken and wasn't afraid to say something ridiculous out loud. But I cannot make friends worth a damn. I can only charm people on a one-on-one encounter and even that has odds stacked against me for being a bit too eccentric. I probably repulse more people than I attract. ;-; I'm just lucky to have met the one person who appreciates it the most, and that's because he is just as bad as I am. If not worse. ヽ(´ー`)ノ
"I call dis 'Flight of the Bunnelby'."
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Altairis

take me ☆ take you

Female
database database
Seen December 29th, 2022
Posted October 5th, 2018
5,170 posts
11 Years
I don't think I'm an outcast in the sense that people have deliberately "cast me out" but I'm definitely on the outside when it comes to friendship groups. It's kinda my fault though since I'm pretty quiet and awkward. So no, I don't think I'm a social outcast.

ORAS/XYBW

TwilightBlade

All dreams are but another reality.

Age 31
Female
Florida
Seen 10 Hours Ago
Posted 6 Days Ago
7,098 posts
16 Years
I rarely raise my voice and speak up in crowds. I don't know what to say and how to interject. Can society really boot me out when I am invisible to begin with. ヽ(´ー`)┌
Age 29
Seen November 5th, 2017
Posted November 5th, 2017
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14.9 Years
I rarely raise my voice and speak up in crowds. I don't know what to say and how to interject. Can society really boot me out when I am invisible to begin with. ヽ(´ー`)┌
Society doesn't boot you out and neither does it accept you; you have to choose whether to participate or not

Alfieri

aka Ronnie

Age 27
Male
New York City
Seen June 23rd, 2019
Posted June 23rd, 2019
2,850 posts
9.2 Years
I don't think I'm an outcast in the sense that people have deliberately "cast me out" but I'm definitely on the outside when it comes to friendship groups. It's kinda my fault though since I'm pretty quiet and awkward. So no, I don't think I'm a social outcast.
^ pretty much exactly that.

My friends will always want to hang out with me one on one. However once there is a group of friends involved, I'm never invited. Mostly because I never met their group of friends and they don't want to make things awkward for me.

Aether★

Age 32
Male
Monaco
Seen December 29th, 2021
Posted December 3rd, 2020
2,910 posts
12.9 Years
I'm a huge solitary, yet I must say my feelings are mixed... One day I feel I could fit in everywhere and won't even think about it, second day I don't want to have anybody near around me. It's weird I know :P
I don't feel awkward around friends and my work colleagues. Mostly I feel awkward around people I just don't know and family members that I see very rarely.

maccrash

foggy notion

Age 24
Male
Massachusetts
Seen October 7th, 2021
Posted April 17th, 2017
3,583 posts
9.2 Years
well, I wouldn't say I fit in, but no one really dislikes me and if they do they can eat my dick. I have plenty of friends that span across many a clique. I'm somewhat awkward, but I'm way better than I used to be. overall I'm functional.
you're the poet in my heart

starseed galaxy auticorn

PC's Resident Auticorn

Age 34
she/he/they
the land of magical unicorns
Seen 1 Day Ago
Posted 1 Week Ago
6,648 posts
18.9 Years
...I read the poll wrong. ._.

Anyway, I'm a huge social outcast. I struggle with interacting to others, but it's mostly because of my autism spectrum disorder as well. I've always had trouble socializing with people and making friends. When I was younger, I was bullied for being different. I never fit in with anyone, so I was lucky to have one friend over none at all.

Sonata

Don't let me disappear

Age 27
Male
Indiana
Seen 9 Hours Ago
Posted March 25th, 2023
13,619 posts
10.2 Years
I don't want to fit in anyways. I really hate the social norms of this generation and strive to be different from them because a lot of them really just make me feel sick.

£

You're gonna have a bad time.

Age 31
Male
"england would also be acceptible"
Seen November 3rd, 2019
Posted November 5th, 2017
947 posts
9.2 Years
I'm like a line piece. Takes a lot of work to fit in PERFECTLY AND BEAUTIFULLY but it's not like there's many situations where I won't at least fit somewhat well! On the whole you can put me anywhere and as a fellow human I can strike a chord with people. 8D

of course in situations where you're not using me to clear 4 lines I'm going to be like "oh well look at you using your line piece wastefully" and I will be DISPLEASED. even if I do fit somehow.

(if none of you have played tetris I have no respect for you just sayin')
Sarcasm, its what social able people have, you know wen you go out and meet chicks just not on forums 1,000,000 miles away from you and you ask them what color underwear they have. - Aristotle, 355 B.C

$ ¥ £
Seen January 1st, 2023
Posted March 23rd, 2022
3,316 posts
9.2 Years
I used to think that and I think that lead to me out casting myself from other people automatically instead of trying to be friends with them. I've come to realize there are actually lots of people I fit in with. Especially after you graduate high school (whatever equivalent) people finally become themselves and for the most part are enjoyable. If you jam into your head that you're a social outcast then yes you will probably become one.

Honest

Hi!

Age 27
Male
New York City
Seen March 19th, 2023
Posted November 7th, 2022
11,676 posts
14.7 Years
No, I don't consider myself a social outcast at all. Several people have told me that I'm a people's person, and that I get along with more or less everyone, which I suppose is the truth. I still consider myself to be my own person, though.
he did it, not me.

elnoor

Male
villege hidden in the leaf
Seen February 8th, 2015
Posted September 19th, 2014
143 posts
8.8 Years
I don't think I'm an outcast in the sense that people have deliberately "cast me out" but I'm definitely on the outside when it comes to friendship groups. It's kinda my fault though since I'm pretty quiet and awkward. So no, I don't think I'm a social outcast.

I am kind of the same really not an outcast but I make myself one for some reason.

Limey-chan

Batzu

He/Him
Mt Moon
Seen May 27th, 2021
Posted October 31st, 2020
2,523 posts
14.2 Years
I think I fit in pretty well. I never had any problems making friends at school (albeit, looking back, my choice of friends wasn't the best), I get along with my work colleagues and my current friendship group, I socialise often enough.

Family is a mixed bag, however. There are some members of my family i'd really rather not try and socialise with, and I know some family members aren't particularly fond of me, but hey-ho.

I have been told i'm a difficult person to read at times, and that my dry sense of humour isn't to everyone's tastes, but otherwise I can socialise just dandy.

Paired with Pigu

DJTiki

absolutely should have never given me the internet

Male
Florida, USA
Seen November 23rd, 2022
Posted April 11th, 2021
1,256 posts
9.2 Years
Ehhh....I'm sort of the outcasts of the outcasts. I speak to people, but I don't relate to anyone, so I usually not the one to befreind them. So I mostly just sit in a corner, talk to my 5 or so friends, and be happy about it. Besides, I think the fewer the people, the more you know them.