I miss you!

Started by Palamon September 25th, 2015 10:15 PM
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Palamon

Silence is Purple.

Age 26
he/him
Snezhnaya, Teyvat.
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14.3 Years
This might be a sad thread for some.

Is there anyone you deeply miss right now? This can apply to both here, and offline. And, yeah, this question can apply to people who aren't alive anymore, too. :(

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I really miss a friend of mine from online right now. His name is Jim, I call him Jimmy. He had feelings for me that I couldn't return. I really want to talk to him again and get into contact, but I don't know how to say hi again since things haven't been the same between us since October of last year...

IRL, I have no one I miss right now. I don't have many people in my life to miss.

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starseed galaxy auticorn

PC's Resident Auticorn

Age 34
she/he/they
the land of magical unicorns
Seen 1 Week Ago
Posted 1 Week Ago
6,648 posts
18.9 Years
To tell you the truth... I miss my ex-best friend/sister. :c She was the most amazing person on the planet too. So kind and sweet, and I loved her like a real sister. The only difference was that we weren't blood-related. It sure felt like we were because we used to be that close as well. I often find myself thinking of her quite constantly at times too. I've tried talking to her in the past, but she refuses to respond.

It makes me feel like I did something bad or wrong, you know?

Wicked3DS

Until the very end.

Age 31
Male
New Jersey
Seen February 24th, 2022
Posted October 5th, 2021
4,592 posts
9.7 Years
Yes, one of my friends. I've been friends with her for 9 years. We haven't been able to hang out a whole lot because she has a boyfriend 2 hours away and they spend their weekends together.

Not to mention I have a very large crush on her.

Somewhere_

i don't know where

Age 23
Male
somewhere (duh)
Seen June 5th, 2019
Posted March 17th, 2019
I feel a little cold for saying this, but I find it difficult to miss people.

For example, my best friend for 8 years and I split when we went to different high schools. He was one of my only friends, and a great one as well. We were very close and went through a lot together. And yet, I do not miss him.

Another example is when I went away for 3 weeks. It was my first time away from anyone I knew, but I still did not miss my parents.

Every once in a while, but very rarely and for a VERY short amount of time, Ill miss someone. But its usually only the hours after they left and I get over it VERY quickly.

What is wrong with me?

Sothis

Will this hand destroy you?

She/her
Firene
Seen 11 Hours Ago
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17,837 posts
9.9 Years
I miss my grandparents, they were always there in life and it made me think they'd never be gone, but I was wrong. I really miss the visits the cottage and everything really.
It's just hard to believe they're no longer around sometimes.

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so bound in flesh


Margaery Tyrell

Growing Strong

Age 24
Female
USA
Seen February 28th, 2018
Posted November 27th, 2016
335 posts
10.4 Years
I miss a few friends I made online, they proved to be pretty important in my life, but sadly all of us are so busy we never get to talk anymore. :/

I don't really miss anyone irl, I keep in touch with everyone that's important to me.
But he who dares not grasp the thorn should never crave the
R O S E

rebelrabbit

CRAAAAWLING IIIIN MY SKIIIIIIIN

Male
The hellish wasteland known as southeastern Colorado, USA
Seen April 15th, 2016
Posted April 15th, 2016
34 posts
7.8 Years
I miss my friend Nathan. He was a good kid, played Unreal and Pokémon with me. Had depression issues from several things, but he eventually bounced back (mostly). He was like the autistic little brother I never had.
Its been a year since he was murdered, and it still feels like a piece of my soul is missing.
I don't suffer through my insanity, I enjoy every minute of it.

Meganium

memento mori

she/her
Houston, TX
Seen February 1st, 2023
Posted February 1st, 2023
I would say I miss my boyfriend even though I was at his place this past weekend...but,

You know who I really miss? My ex-best friend/boyfriend/PC Pair. Sometimes I do miss those days when I'd get random text messages about random stuff like Pokemon and Ponies, and we would stay up until 3 am during skype calls. To this day I still had no idea how our relationship ended the way it ended, after four years. I still wanted to be friends with him, but with how things happened the past few months, I don't think we'll be the same ever again.

Today, it really doesn't matter now...because I now realize I dated an asshole. Felt like I wasted four years of my life.

Synerjee

Atra du evarinya ono varda.

Everywhere and anywhere.
Seen May 28th, 2016
Posted February 25th, 2016
2,901 posts
10.6 Years
I slightly miss my friend's brother who passed away a few months back. Although we weren't close as we've never talked since forever, I still have this strange connection with him and felt an absence after hearing about his passing. The missing is not as strong as before, but it's still there somewhere.

Norou

Drifting away into an illusion

Age 27
Male
Canada
Seen January 23rd, 2023
Posted April 20th, 2022
56 posts
12.3 Years
I miss my brother and my grandpa, I haven't seen them for over a year. I especially miss my grandpa, I never had a father growing up so he was always like a father to me. He lives in Texas while I live in Canada, so I only really see him once a year, sometimes every other year.

Imperator161

Seen February 5th, 2023
Posted July 31st, 2020
1,415 posts
14.7 Years
I miss both of my grandfathers. It's around the time of year when they passed away, and even though one of them died when I was quite young, the other died more recently, and it makes late summer/early fall tough.

I also miss various friends who I never see or hear from anymore. Some of those relationships kind of drifted off, and maybe some of them could be restored, but it can be hard to rekindle friendships with people who live nowhere near you and are on completely different life trajectories (especially if you weren't super close to begin with).
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Nolafus

Aspiring something

Age 27
Male
Lost in thought... again
Seen March 3rd, 2018
Posted March 11th, 2017
5,722 posts
10.9 Years
I feel a little cold for saying this, but I find it difficult to miss people.
Same here. I think it stems from the fact that my dad was in the military, so we moved every two to three years. I would make friends, leave them behind, make some more, and then leave them behind. This was before the social media craze, so I never kept in touch. I guess over the years I developed the attitude that people come and people go, and I got used to people appearing in my life for a short time that I don't really miss them. There's always someone to replace someone else, as cold as that sounds.

Although, I will admit that there are a couple people who I will miss a lot if they ever disappear.
PairPC sister

Tigelreaf

Fairy Tail Trash

Male
Seen March 30th, 2017
Posted January 29th, 2017
93 posts
8.4 Years
The person I miss most is my cat. Well, some might say a cat is no person, but she's been my best friend for the last 10 years. I grew up with her. I told her everything, we used to sleep in the same bed when I was really tired after school. She noticed when I was sad and helped me through being there, even without any words. Sadly, she died 5 months ago. I'm not sure wether I'm over it, but she's in my mind every day. So yeah. That's it.

Can you tell me why the good die young?
Where do they go?
Why do they leave us
when there is so much to be done?

Pendraflare

Age 32
Male
Pennsylvania
Seen July 30th, 2021
Posted March 29th, 2021
6,263 posts
9.8 Years
If you ask me this question, one name who will likely come to mind quickly is former user AquaMarine8. She was a doll to have a conversation with in the around a month or so she was here, I had so much fun talking to her and after some small disappearances, she said that she was back and ready to have fun, but I should have known what was to come. And at the time, it hurt terribly. I'm not going to go into the same long ramble, but it was thanks to Marriland being able to tell me that it's more about what I was able to do for her, and not whether things lasted or not, that I was able to release the pain that I initially felt.

And you know, it's not that i'll most likely never get to talk to her again that hurts the most, nor is it how she disappeared with zero warning (which she said she would try to prevent) just when it looked like things between me and her were really about to extend to greater heights. No, it's the fact that I have no idea what became of her that's upsetting. Did she forget about the site? Did her depression and social anxiety take ahold of her and make her want to just vanish? Or god help me, is she even alive? As I said, Marriland was able to help me through that, but to say I don't miss her would not be true. (To be fair, I didn't even tell him about the "what even became of her" aspect.)

That was just one name on the internet. And of course there are people I was able to know in real life many years ago, most of whom I knew at lower grades when I went to private school, but I don't see them anymore. I do have Facebook, but I comment there like once in a blue moon. God knows if i'll ever pass by them again... Interestingly, i've run into quite a few people I know well when they stop by at work.
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Raine

Age 29
Female
Ontario, Canada
Seen December 16th, 2017
Posted October 5th, 2017
3,722 posts
9.3 Years
There are times when I envision what life would've been like if I was still on friendly terms with my ex-best friend, though she seems to be the partying type as of late, which I want no part in. Even so, elementary and middle school would have been terrible without her. In elementary school, I had surgery that not only had me being home-schooled for about a month, and then another 2 months needing the assistance of her carrying everything, and she did nothing but care, which I will always be grateful for. And in middle school, once word got out that I was gifted, friends in regular classes that I had starting avoiding me; gifted students had a reputation of being weird at that school, which I can understand, but doesn't mean we're no less human. So she was basically the only one who I could socialize with, aside from the handful of gifted students who were friendly enough to accept a new student like myself. And I was even more alienated at that time since I was doing high school during the morning, and returning to middle school in the afternoon.

In terms of passed family members, although I was not relatively close to them, the family as a cohesive unit seems more distant without my maternal grandmother and uncle. The latter of which was basically my dad's best friend and now I feel that he's lonely without him, which sometimes has me worried, but of course he has my mom, sister and I.

Last, but definitely not least, my boyfriend. We've been in a long-distance relationship for nearly a year, and though it can be tough at times, we're determined to do whatever it takes. At the moment, we visit each other every weekend, alternating between who visits who so we get to spend 2-3 days together. Despite getting to hear him through Skype when playing League and spending every waking moment to text him, nothing beats seeing him in person.