Friend Zoned

Started by WingedDragon December 18th, 2015 7:31 PM
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Posted March 24th, 2020
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This is just a rant and rave and I know no body I know is here so this is safe.

I have a friend Ive known for over 10 years. Shes smokin hot. Little bat sh*t crazy but very fun. She knows I have a thing for her. Ive asked her a handful of times. We are super close and trust each other with our lives. We've even done bf/gf things without bf/gf benefits. Anyway it just reallyyy sucks that I cant get a try to prove Id be a good man for her. I know there isnt anything I can really do about it but it just sucks in general. Now I guess when shes done with school shes moving to New York with her bf. Which makes it suck worse. Anyway thats my rant thanks for reading.
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This is just a rant and rave and I know no body I know is here so this is safe.

I have a friend Ive known for over 10 years. Shes smokin hot. Little bat sh*t crazy but very fun. She knows I have a thing for her. Ive asked her a handful of times. We are super close and trust each other with our lives. We've even done bf/gf things without bf/gf benefits. Anyway it just reallyyy sucks that I cant get a try to prove Id be a good man for her. I know there isnt anything I can really do about it but it just sucks in general. Now I guess when shes done with school shes moving to New York with her bf. Which makes it suck worse. Anyway thats my rant thanks for reading.
I really don't want to sound harsh, but the term "friend zone' is a really immature term. It implies that the person you're talking about should be vilified for not having interest in you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Also, you seem to talk about her in a really disparaging manner. That also doesn't seem fair. The term "friend zone" is an excuse to not move on, to be honest. It's a pretty bad one at that.

Hey buddy check out this video its really important.
Excellent! A+++ work! The number of dudes out there that need to see this video is way too high for my comfort level.

Umm.. 2:40 and onward in that video speaks truth.. lots of it.
Just 2:40 onward? haha The entire video was spot on and brutally honest in the most appropriate way.

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Age 35
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Milwaukee, WI
Seen November 2nd, 2020
Posted March 24th, 2020
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I really don't want to sound harsh, but the term "friend zone' is a really immature term. It implies that the person you're talking about should be vilified for not having interest in you. There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. Also, you seem to talk about her in a really disparaging manner. That also doesn't seem fair. The term "friend zone" is an excuse to not move on, to be honest. It's a pretty bad one at that.


Excellent! A+++ work! The number of dudes out there that need to see this video is way too high for my comfort level.



Just 2:40 onward? haha The entire video was spot on and brutally honest in the most appropriate way.

She has a lot of good qualities about her. Shes smart energinic witty. I dont do well with constructing words at one time. 2nd its not that i havent tried to find someone. It just hasnt happened for me
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I-If she has a BF then you shouldn't...really be trying to get her I think ^^ You can still keep in touch via skype and stuff so I wouldn't really worry too much!

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It's at times like these where you should just be happy you've found a friend you can be close with. A lot of people struggle with finding a really good friend, and it seems you've found one. Don't be so hung up on dating this girl. She has found someone and you have no right to change that. It's her life, her choices. I can understand why you'd be upset about this though. But just remember, the gift of friendship is a fantastic one too. I know that sounds corny as hell but it's true!

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