Your defining feature.

Started by Squirrel July 16th, 2016 2:31 PM
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Squirrel

Age 28
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11.7 Years
Right now for me it seems to be being jobless! All anyone talks about in real life to me is "hey, have you got a job yet?", "when are you getting a job?" and "wow this job would be great for you!" - it's sad :( Otherwise the thing most people comment on is my bitter sense of humour, usually using insults or "shut up person" as a way to make a 'joke' but it seems to work out :D

Sothis

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Firene
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I'm basically a photocopy of my mother, we look so much alike people have assumed us as siblings.

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Aslan

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I'm kind. I might even be too kind. People always comment about how nice I am or how I always put others first and while I am glad that people associate that with me, I don't want to be seen as a pushover :s
I know what you mean! It can be draining when you're always offering to help people or finding it difficult to be blunt to someone but I like that I'm too kind and I wouldn't change that for the world. I'd gladly put someone else's happiness over my own and helping others is the best feeling in the world for me, no matter how challenging it might be. I guess that's why I've always dreamed of being a psychologist even though other people would find the job really draining.

I really understand being seen as a pushover though. I've always let people walk over me without any retaliation. I can't bring myself to respond with a smart comeback or be mean because I'd rather not escalate a fight. I apologise for almost everything, even if it barely had anything to do with me. If someone is insulting me, I apologise. I have no idea why but it's just something I do. I rarely ever show that I'm angry or upset because I don't want to worry or make other people feed bad. The list could go on and whilst it sucks to be a pushover, it's just who I am.

To answer the question though, I think I have a few defining features. My kindness would definitely be one but people also appreciate how easygoing I am. Apparently I'm also good at cheering people up or creating a good atmosphere so that's kind of neat! People also like that I always make the effort of being happy even if I'm not feeling that great. Online I've been told that I sound mature for my age but I'm already turning 15 in a few months so I feel like it won't be a defining feature in a few years. It's definitely what I've been known for the most though on PC.

If we're talking physical features then a lot of people know me for the strange facial expressions I can make! I have zero dignity so I'm pretty much the only person I know who does them. It makes people laugh and people like them a lot so I enjoy doing them even if I look really silly. People also seem to notice how underweight I am and comment on it. I'm not proud of it but I've learnt to ignore comments like those and just appreciate my body.
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Khoshi

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Age 24
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Posted October 16th, 2019
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I say what needs to be said most of the time, nice in tone or not.

Lapis

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Age 30
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People point out that I'm short a lot. Also a lot of people say I'm very kind (sometimes to a fault, people do take advantage of me sometimes).

On the bad side, people often point out that I wear my heart on my sleeve and am too soft for my own good.

Overall though people just love pointing out my height. Lol.

Signomi

Age 32
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I can be very bubbly, outgoing and sarcastic. People very often notice all of these things straight away as soon as I open my mouth.

People whom have worked with me on a more serious level notice I can be meticulous with time, organisation and attention to detail. I always reward hard work and encourage a forward thinking mindset in everybody - but as a consequence I can be quite blunt and straightforward with angsty individuals who like to shirk taking responsibility for themselves and therefore become a liability to others.

It's tough love, but there are circumstances where I feel I need to be in some way cruel to be kind in order to make somebody understand their own capabilities as a human being. I'm sure I'm not the only person out there who feels this quite strongly but it's certainly a mark of my character, and I'm in no way afraid to hide that.

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Flower

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Posted August 25th, 2016
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7.9 Years
I don't tend to act the way I do in real life that I do online.. for the most part, anyway. People often point out that I have crude humour, but that I'm kind, too kind—I tend to be a pushover and I do lots of things and end up in lots of messes for helping people out that would've all been avoided if I just would've said "sorry, no". I would definitely say both are defining features of mine, more-so them mixing is the defining thing (they don't normally tend to go hand-in-hand at all).

That and my nose. x:

Gabri

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I smile and laugh easily and am nice to pretty much anyone. Probably that.
Other than that, no idea. Though there aren't many males with hair as long as mine around here.

My... laziness, actually. That, and my ability to get things done somehow even with such laziness.
Ah, and this. SO. MUCH. THIS.

moon

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I'm short and look younger than I am, I keep hearing it.
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Probably my dedication. I can be incredibly dedicated if need be, which I think is great! It can be tiring but someones gotta get things done. I'm usually able to do it. 8)
Don't forget your ability to meme everything ;)

But I agree with you. I've never seen anyone as dedicated to things as you are. It's inspiring!

Cariad

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i don't really know; people comment on my ability to learn things quickly and with little practice so perhaps it's how quick i am to pick things up. other than that, i'm good at cheering my friends up!

seeker

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Posted May 20th, 2018
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14.1 Years
Me: rika what's my "defining feature"
adventure: ok it's the fact that you're irish
adventure: nah I'm kidding
adventure: your defining feature is Phoenix Rising
adventure: nah I'm kidding
adventure: your defining feature is me
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My defining feature is the fact I can't do muk without auto-correct.

Cinderizer

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Seen August 6th, 2016
Posted July 20th, 2016
77 posts
6.9 Years
I would say, My Autism or maybe that I'm an always changing person! sometimes i sing when no-one around, sometimes i make bracelets in the middle of science class! sometimes, i randomly squawk back to my birds when they talk, (i started a conversation that lasted almost 2 hours!) sometimes im brave enough to sing a homemade song in front of my entire school (got rejected, last place in the talent show :(. JK, 3rd place haha.) and other times, i'm afraid of my own room! for 8 years i hated pizza, now its my favorite food! some nights i cry because i feel lonely, and some nights i have dreams of the future! I trust almost anyone i meet and try to be as friendly as possible. it sometimes backfires and they break me, they find out everything about me and destroy my life! and other times i feel like iv'e found true love with a girl thats like 7 years older than me! there is no calm in my life after what has happened. it started with a satanist girl. Mckenzie, (if you know a Mckenzie, then its probably not her!) she lied and cheated and stole and ripped my life out from the inside - out. she turned my mom into a drug addict and sent me to 2 mental hospitals. now i live with my dad, he gets drunk half the time and i have to take care of myself 24/7, i'm usually alone, and i have a deep fear of being alone ever since i was four, i was left alone, in the dark, in an old house that was and is rumored to be haunted. all night long. My mom took away my freedom for 2 years! i was not allowed to go outside at all! except for school. i didn't have my Video games until after all this had happened. i had no hope, and to be truthful, i still don't, for the future. i wanted to be a police officer. i cant now. don't tell anyone, but i'm crying on my keyboard right now. this is the truth for those who want to know about me. before i went on this site, i had been having dreams about a girl named Cinder, telling us to evacuate from a war zone, while angels with golden wings were protecting my family, they were not my family. they chose to stay. the angels took me, Cinder, and 2 little girls into a cave. as we watched my family get eaten by the flames. that is why i chose the name Cinderizer. Cinder-Terrorizer because of the dreams that terrorize me at night. anyway, this probably sounds pretty dark, coming from a kid who's usually so happy and upbeat, but my friends need to know the truth. the truth will set you free. so, my defining feature? the ability to change, and adapt to this corrupt world. Thankyou friends! I'm so glad i found this site.

Sincerely - Cinderizer
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