would you marry someone who already has kids

Started by Sirfetch’d February 19th, 2017 4:55 AM
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Limey-chan

Batzu

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Mt Moon
Seen May 27th, 2021
Posted October 31st, 2020
2,523 posts
14.2 Years
No. God no.

Honestly, it scares me when current GF talks about having kids when we've only been seeing eachother for a month. I really can't see myself being a dad. Certainly not a good one, anyway :/

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gucci

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United Kingdom
Seen September 26th, 2021
Posted August 7th, 2019
21,056 posts
15.4 Years
unless i was totally besotted by the person then i doubt i would. i don't even want kids myself just yet, i need to meet someone first.

gimmepie

Age 27
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Australia
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I love kids so fine with me.
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Sothis

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Firene
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I would not mind being a step parent.

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aurevesque

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Somewhere peaceful
Seen October 10th, 2022
Posted March 11th, 2021
729 posts
13.7 Years
Do we have the same parenting policies? Who gets primary custody of the children? I would try not to be shallow enough to pass up meeting a great person because life didn't go ideally for them.
But, if we had different disciplinary ideas and what children were allowed to have it would be a different story.

pastelspectre

Memento Mori

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13.1 Years
it depends i guess. maybe not now but when i'm older, maybe. i'd have to think about it..

Mawa

The typo Queen

Age 30
Female
Canada
Seen August 13th, 2020
Posted March 1st, 2020
I think yes?

Because I kinda want a family later.... But I don't want to have kids??
If I could get an operation to not have kids, never, I would. I am terrified of pregnant woman (it's true. My legs becomes week when I see someone pregnant. Just thinking about it and I stick my belly inside and feel just weird in my body)

Anyway. I kinda want a family, maybe, but I don't see myself having one. So why not having one who's already in this world?
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Radiating

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Seen March 7th, 2021
Posted December 21st, 2018
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6.3 Years
Nope

I'm pretty sure they would hate me and I would have to pay them money in some way.

Her

Age 29
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Posted 1 Week Ago
i'm more open to this idea than having my own children tbh

Esper

California
Seen June 30th, 2018
Posted June 30th, 2018
Like, if they weren't babies, or toddlers, or preschoolers, or gradeschoolers, or preteens, or tweens. Basically they'd have to be at least teenagers and more or less independent. I don't like kids and don't want to raise any.

Bay

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Since I have a condition where I'm unlikely able to have children, I might be open to this. However, I don't know how I can handle if my significant other's kid is in their teens unless I myself is much older.
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Nihilego

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Seen September 28th, 2018
Posted March 16th, 2018
8,874 posts
12.1 Years
i'd much much much rather have my own kids

but, if circumstances meant that hadn't happened and wasn't going to happen, then yeah definitely. that'd be at least preferable for me over someone who didn't have kids, but as i say, i'd much rather my own kids

...not that i'd tell my hypothetical stepchildren that
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Lunar

Age 24
Male
England
Seen September 16th, 2020
Posted September 15th, 2020
I think it would be alright tbh, just have to try and form a bond with them

Her

Age 29
Seen 3 Hours Ago
Posted 1 Week Ago
i'm never going to understand why procreation is such a desirable process tbh

Kostas

Male
Greece!
Seen April 5th, 2023
Posted March 10th, 2019
1,279 posts
8.1 Years
Of course I would! If I really love this woman then yeah, no problem at all, i have a step parent too so I somehow know how it feels and I think I would be a good step parent too. (Of course I would like to have my own kids btw)