"The things I do for love..."

Started by User19sq March 15th, 2017 1:35 PM
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Lunar

Age 24
Male
England
Seen September 16th, 2020
Posted September 15th, 2020
(Love the title)

I spend too much money

Sothis

Will this hand destroy you?

She/her
Firene
Seen 11 Hours Ago
Posted 14 Hours Ago
17,837 posts
9.9 Years
I am to a fault, I've let people take advantage of me in the past.

you cannot hope to win
so bound in flesh


pastelspectre

Memento Mori

Age 25
he/him
The Pacific Northwest
Seen 1 Week Ago
Posted 1 Week Ago
2,156 posts
13.1 Years
definitely. even when someone is mean to me, i have a hard time being mean back. i've been walked on all over too many times and been screwed over a lot because people like to take advantage of me because i'm so nice, but i hope to change that by (trying) key word: trying, to stand up for myself
Age 25
Female
Seen June 19th, 2019
Posted March 5th, 2018
1,259 posts
13.7 Years
I guess on love...

I was willing to adjust my everything, whatever it took to either please her or stay by her side. I was young and wasn't aware I was actually in love, so I think that makes sense. If I had the feeling she didn't like my t-shirt, I would never wear that one again (I remember this exact moment). If I felt like she disapproved of my behaviour at some point, I did my best to correct that behaviour and get her approval of doing that. I was willing to change my entire high school subjects package to a different one because I thought she chose that package. Someone once said I turned into a rattata around her - I guess that happened, too.

Don't think that will happen next time. I was very dependent of her because she was my first female friend in forever, as well as my bridge to other social interactions, and as a result of that got very attached to her, her opinion, her everything. Now, though I might rely on another person as a social clutch, I am not willing to change myself for somoene at all. So I'm not sure what I'd do actually.

OuterTsuchinoko

Age 31
Male
New Jersey
Seen November 19th, 2018
Posted July 13th, 2018
580 posts
7.2 Years
In a romantic relationship I am very nice and will do a lot and spend a lot of money as well. In normal relationships I do not let people take advantage of me at all. I cannot stand that. I usually will do favors for people, but when I need something and someone refuses to help me after all I have done for them I drop them quick. Also I have a very short fuse and was brought up not to take anything from anyone. My dad brought me up pretty well on that front.

Sheep

She/Her
Australia
Seen 2 Hours Ago
Posted 4 Hours Ago
39,253 posts
16.6 Years
Very. I can be firm, but only to a certain extent. Rather than scolding someone I'm better at empathizing and trying to mediate things. Online I guess it's harder to tell since typing through the computer's a whole different story, but irl I have some difficulty being blunt. Leaves me feeling stressed afterwards. ;(