The Relationship Thread Page 2

Started by jombii June 1st, 2017 5:16 PM
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LegendChu

❤ CAREFREE, BUT CARING ❤

Male
Third Rock From The Sun
Seen October 21st, 2017
Posted October 21st, 2017
14,122 posts
9.1 Years
Yep, been in a committed relationship for a long time now (a couple of Members here know about it) & its not been easy to say the least, but that's personal stuff, won't discuss it here.

We do have our problems & fights, but the understanding is good enough, so always manage to sort things out.

Relationship tips:-

1) Don't ask for one, you yourself are the best judge of what's good for you.
2) Accept rejection & move on.

Pika Pika :chu:

Mr Cat Dog

Frasier says it best

Age 32
Male
London, UK
Seen September 29th, 2017
Posted July 12th, 2017
11,344 posts
19.1 Years
on this note, who is the best PC couple?
Tie between Kura x Captain Fabio and adventure x seeker.

Fun fact: I was there when both of these couples met each other IRL for the first time. Just call me PC Matchmaker!

Aslan

she/her
Seen 5 Hours Ago
Posted 1 Day Ago
3,108 posts
10.2 Years
on this note, who is the best PC couple?
Squirrel and Franois! Neither of them go on PC anymore but I see them a lot as I hang out with Alex / Squirrel outside of the forums. I'm probably biased because Alex is one of my best friends but they're really cute together. Love you guys. <3
paired with Austin

Sothis

Will this hand destroy you?

She/her
Firene
Seen 4 Hours Ago
Posted 4 Hours Ago
17,836 posts
9.9 Years
Nope, I'm undateable xD

you cannot hope to win
so bound in flesh


Ho-Oh

used Sacred Fire!

Age 31
Female
QLD, Australia
Seen June 5th, 2022
Posted April 23rd, 2022
35,988 posts
17.5 Years
I've been with my boyfriend for over three years now - yes, met from PC! I've been living with him for over two years now.

We met on PC's battle server back in October 2012. The server was fairly new at the time but there was one user who would go to every single server and talk about the staff of all the different servers to other staff. He had a lot of gears to grind.

But luckily he decided to mention me to user Frizy on Smogon server. He was a driver on Smogon's server and I wanted to get any sort of connection I could to Smogon and thus befriended him whereas he just wanted to come to the server to troll (mainly because said user mentioned I was a female admin on the server).

I was with someone else then and he wasn't into me (but I happened to be into him and the person I was with at the time was on a religious mission and thus hadn't talked to him for like a year so I wasn't THAT awful). He stayed on the server and we became really good friends, our first proper chat was like six hours long. Flash forward to January 2014 (this was long after the aforementioned relationship) he told me his feelings etc, I cried (as the story would go) and less than a month later we got together (February 4th!)

We met up in December of that year. It was amazing (went to Sea World, etc - which is why Sea World is a special place to me, it was our first proper date!!) and I decided to move over at the end of the trip lmao. I couldn't bare to be apart from him for much longer because being there felt SO RIGHT. That and I was supposed to be in Sydney at the time of the siege (potentially planning to visit someone in that part of the city on the same day + I love chocolate so it's not out of the question that I could have been there). Instead I ended up being at his place for an extra few days (unaware of the siege about to occur) and got to see the girls (his sister's kids) first birthday party. Me staying there for the extra long trip with him meant something... so that's what really convinced me that being there was where I was supposed to be.

He visited me in February and on my birthday that April (so only a year and almost three months after getting together) I was on a plane, ready to start my new life in his state. Worked out pretty well, only had to move to the other side of the country and the move has been SO GOOD for me in so many ways. Like honestly the move was exactly what I needed, more than anything. That and I have him, his family (one nephew referred to me as aunty today - now to get them all to call me that!! although I'm closer with the kids than most people they're biologically related to so yay!) So yeah, it's been two years and one month since living together.

His mother got me a bird for my latest birthday... and we consider that bird our first kid. We don't plan on having human kids so that's good enough for us!

CidHazard

just a miserable pile of secrets

Age 28
Male
From Parts Unknown
Seen April 8th, 2020
Posted November 1st, 2019
582 posts
6.7 Years
Hmm... Relationships tend to bore me...

But maybe that's because I haven't found someone too really connect with...

Happy for most of the guys and gals in this thread that's found that someone tho... Wish I could find mine soon :D
Don't be ashamed of what you love... even if other people find it embarrassing or pathetic embrace it... Love what you love, you'll be happier that way.

moon

they/them
Seen 13 Hours Ago
Posted 1 Day Ago
37,443 posts
15.5 Years
on this note, who is the best PC couple?
I'm fairly sure that if you'll ever see Dragon and Sopheria together, you'll know why I consider it a fact they are the cutest sweetest PC couple ever. And that's despite several others extremely sweet ones I know of!

Tie between Kura x Captain Fabio and adventure x seeker.

Fun fact: I was there when both of these couples met each other IRL for the first time. Just call me PC Matchmaker!
I'm so glad we took this



Squirrel and Franois! Neither of them go on PC anymore but I see them a lot as I hang out with Alex / Squirrel outside of the forums. I'm probably biased because Alex is one of my best friends but they're really cute together. Love you guys. <3
Omg that is adorable!! And the fact that you hang out with Alex offline aaa I miss him
paired with Ivysaur

Lunar

Age 24
Male
England
Seen September 16th, 2020
Posted September 15th, 2020
I'm also currently pursuing a girl right now, it's been a few weeks and we've been on several dates and hung out as well. I do really like her hope to make it official, gonna be hard when I go to university in September though.

jombii

Crobat is ProBat

Male
Philippines
Seen June 28th, 2019
Posted April 13th, 2019
3,412 posts
8.9 Years
I'm also currently pursuing a girl right now, it's been a few weeks and we've been on several dates and hung out as well. I do really like her hope to make it official, gonna be hard when I go to university in September though.
Is it because you will be busy or is it about long distance? Well, both are hard obstacles to overcome either way so I wish you the best.

Meganium

memento mori

she/her
Houston, TX
Seen February 1st, 2023
Posted February 1st, 2023
I am currently two years with the one I'm with. Been though a ton. He was also a special one because he was the first friend I made when I moved to Texas from California, and he stood through thick and thin when it comes to my stress and mental issues. No one, not even my own family stood through it. Only he did.

Been living with him for a few months now, though there aren't any big plans as of right now because he still has one more semester of university to go, and I want to be settled into my new career by the end of this year.

Lunar

Age 24
Male
England
Seen September 16th, 2020
Posted September 15th, 2020
Is it because you will be busy or is it about long distance? Well, both are hard obstacles to overcome either way so I wish you the best.

It's a bit of both really, my uni is only just over an hour away which is good. Thanks :3

jombii

Crobat is ProBat

Male
Philippines
Seen June 28th, 2019
Posted April 13th, 2019
3,412 posts
8.9 Years
It's a bit of both really, my uni is only just over an hour away which is good. Thanks :3
an hour away is manageable! you have it better than most <3 good fo ryou

an illegible mess.

i'll make tiny changes to earth.

he/him
buffalo, ny.
Seen 4 Days Ago
Posted 2 Weeks Ago
592 posts
11.7 Years
im in a polyamorous relationship with two people. one i've been with for five years now and planning on marrying and the other ive been with for about half a year. im happy and love both of them a whole lot.
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jombii

Crobat is ProBat

Male
Philippines
Seen June 28th, 2019
Posted April 13th, 2019
3,412 posts
8.9 Years
im in a polyamorous relationship with two people. one i've been with for five years now and planning on marrying and the other ive been with for about half a year. im happy and love both of them a whole lot.
This is interesting. How do polyamorous relationship starts?

an illegible mess.

i'll make tiny changes to earth.

he/him
buffalo, ny.
Seen 4 Days Ago
Posted 2 Weeks Ago
592 posts
11.7 Years
This is interesting. How do polyamorous relationship starts?
i recently discovered i was polyamorous. in terms of getting into my most recent relationship with the person i started dating half a year ago, it was actually a pretty nervewracking process. it's all about communication and consent. i let my boyfriend that i was with at the time (and still am with) know that i was polyamorous and i was interested in someone. we talked about it and he came to respect me and my polyamory. we're not all dating each other, i'm just dating two people. i guess it can be a little confusing and hard to understand to others, but it's managed to work and be fine so far.

this reply is all over the place and i apologize. im losing my train of thought lol.
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jombii

Crobat is ProBat

Male
Philippines
Seen June 28th, 2019
Posted April 13th, 2019
3,412 posts
8.9 Years
i recently discovered i was polyamorous. in terms of getting into my most recent relationship with the person i started dating half a year ago, it was actually a pretty nervewracking process. it's all about communication and consent. i let my boyfriend that i was with at the time (and still am with) know that i was polyamorous and i was interested in someone. we talked about it and he came to respect me and my polyamory. we're not all dating each other, i'm just dating two people. i guess it can be a little confusing and hard to understand to others, but it's managed to work and be fine so far.

this reply is all over the place and i apologize. im losing my train of thought lol.
Don't worry. I get you. I just find polyamory fascinating as I've never met one IRL. I'm not interested in starting one though as I find even monogamy challenging lol.

Good thing your boyfriend is chill about it.

alisaie

they/them
Seen March 14th, 2023
Posted February 3rd, 2022
13,598 posts
14.8 Years
rip me trying to find that special someone anywhere so i've decided that i'm just going to be happy with a bunch of animals. a few things have crossed my mind to why things never worked out in past relationships that i keep in mind in the case i do find someone but tbh i feel like the chances of it happening are really low for me.

jombii

Crobat is ProBat

Male
Philippines
Seen June 28th, 2019
Posted April 13th, 2019
3,412 posts
8.9 Years
rip me trying to find that special someone anywhere so i've decided that i'm just going to be happy with a bunch of animals. a few things have crossed my mind to why things never worked out in past relationships that i keep in mind in the case i do find someone but tbh i feel like the chances of it happening are really low for me.
wherever you are, the important thing is to be happy. You can have a committed relationship to yourself, keeping yourself happy, doing things you ask yourself to do, treating yourself. There are all kinds of love.

of course, PC loves you too.

Spyro

Seen October 5th, 2018
Posted July 26th, 2018
2,373 posts
7.4 Years
I've been in a relationship for a year and a half. My health issues have seriously hurt the relationship and I hope we can recover eventually.

My tip: When arguing, focus on how you feel, don't try to analyse the other's actions and words. Emotions suck most of the time.

El Héroe Oscuro

IG: elheroeoscuro

Male
Chicago
Seen April 10th, 2022
Posted August 21st, 2021
7,237 posts
14.3 Years
been in a relationship for about 3 years now and it is fun
Echoing this, Logan and I have had a pretty solid relationship so far.

Pick up some bread on the way home hun, we're out right now.
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