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Started by DeathScape June 8th, 2005 12:45 PM
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Personality or Hottness

Age 36
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Posted December 1st, 2005
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Mwar, looks fade, personality is forever. If I were to only go after the hot girls, not only would I end up really disappointed [I'm not exactly the kind of guy to make a girl faint by looking at him... smelling him maybe but not looking at him XP], but when her looks leave her because of aging... mwar, I'd end up going after more young girls. Not good. Also I'd probably hate 'em 'cause their personalities... may be everything I hate. Mwar. That's one thing I like about talking to people online, I get to know who they are, often way before ever seeing what they look like ^^;;

...Besides, when you love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like 'cause you find their inner beauty radiating through, and you find their physical form attraactive too ^_^

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Age 30
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I would say personality. If someone is hot, they -probably- (not saying all the time, I know some girls [no, they're my friends, don't get any ideas XP]) who the boys in my class are falling over, and they're really nice. But in the other grades, the hot people are complete idiots. X_X

So I'll say perssonality, because, as Pory said, looks go away with age (unless you get plastic surgury, but eventually you won't want that), and personality stays.

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I'd rather date someone for their personality. I would hate it if my boyfriend was very hot, but he was rude and had bad manners. Although, if I dated someone for their personality, I would hope that they look at least decent.
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Age 35
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Posted December 1st, 2005
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18.2 Years
Personality. Definetly. Stuff ta have in common, feelings, friendship, an' most of all, love.
NOT hotness, I'm NOT tha kind of person ta drool over lookin' at some gal like "Man, she's hawt!", yeah of course physical aspect attracts me too, duh, who isn't attracted, especially at this age? XD
But in the long run it really ain't worth it. If you have nothing in common with that person you just end up parting ways with it... unless yar also dumb enough ta keep holdin' on ta what was never there.
I don't go by impulses. Love keeps ppl together, not beauty.
So personality it ish.
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Posted June 5th, 2006
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i say both. i'm kinda shallow, but i also don't fall for the girls who can't remember my names. i want girls to have a fun personality, but i also don't want to go out with someone who i don't like to look at.



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Mwar, looks fade, personality is forever. If I were to only go after the hot girls, not only would I end up really disappointed [I'm not exactly the kind of guy to make a girl faint by looking at him... smelling him maybe but not looking at him XP], but when her looks leave her because of aging... mwar, I'd end up going after more young girls. Not good. Also I'd probably hate 'em 'cause their personalities... may be everything I hate. Mwar. That's one thing I like about talking to people online, I get to know who they are, often way before ever seeing what they look like ^^;;

...Besides, when you love someone, it doesn't matter what they look like 'cause you find their inner beauty radiating through, and you find their physical form attraactive too ^_^
The whole 'personality is forever' thing doesn't really work out. People change a lot, and the changes aren't always for the best. No one stays the same forever, unless you lived in a bubble or something and had no human contact you'd have to change, for better or worse.

Anyways, personality helps a lot but it isn't everything. If a person isn't willing to take care of themselves (and I mean body not face etc) then it shows how much they care about their well being. I'd rather be with someone who's happy and likes their life.

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I think how you look iz a part of your perzonality actually o.o How you chooze to keep yourzelf reflectz your perzonality, imo.
I'd defenatly go for perzonality though ^^ Dating a zexy rock iz juzt a little bit boring =P And you DON"T want to end up with a mean perzon o_o; Truzt me, even if you're going out with him/her, that perzon izn't going to be any nicer to you then other people.

If you're a really friendly perzon though it zhouldn't really matter how you look ^^ I've zeen lotz of hot guyz I'd like to go out with, myzelf, ending up really happy with average looking girlz becauze they're zo outgoing and eazy to get along with ^^
Age 33
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I'm not shallow, but I hope they're a tad bit sexy. I'm not gonna date someone who's face looks like a horse's butt!

I totally agree with you on that one
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Posted October 21st, 2016
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Personality, without question. I read this and had an answer in my head, but I just lost it when I wrote that first sentence. Umm...sorry.

I actually despise people who would be considered "hot", for the most part. They're so full of themselves and have awful personalities. What's worse, are those people who think their "hot". They act like Paris Hilton, but aren't attractive at all (kind of like Paris Hilton, Lol) and that somehow in a social aspect raises their "hotness". They have the worst personalities of all.

Things are backwards for me. Someone could look absolutely gorgeous, but if their personality is dreadful that's what I'd end up seeing. I end up picking up or sensing that personality in everything they do, their mannerisms. A trait that, for me, overrides any physical beauty.
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Posted May 3rd, 2006
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18.4 Years
I'd say personality, because if you really like someone's mind and personality, whether they can make you laugh or have a good conversation, their true hottness will stand out.XD


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Age 31
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Posted August 19th, 2005
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18.1 Years
Personality, without question. I read this and had an answer in my head, but I just lost it when I wrote that first sentence. Umm...sorry.

I actually despise people who would be considered "hot", for the most part. They're so full of themselves and have awful personalities. What's worse, are those people who think their "hot". They act like Paris Hilton, but aren't attractive at all (kind of like Paris Hilton, Lol) and that somehow in a social aspect raises their "hotness". They have the worst personalities of all.

Things are backwards for me. Someone could look absolutely gorgeous, but if their personality is dreadful that's what I'd end up seeing. I end up picking up or sensing that personality in everything they do, their mannerisms. A trait that, for me, overrides any physical beauty.
I hate when people say that! Not all hot people are really mean. They say that about actors, too. Where does everyone get this rumor from?

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Posted October 5th, 2016
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Hmm... 2/3 Personality 1/3 Hotness. xD Well, yeah... a person being hot is what turns you on, but like sammi-san said, what fun will it be in dating a jerk? xD;

And too hot people are scary. o.o; Just presentable is fine for me. xD
Exactly.
I agree with rsgh5, but I can honestly tell you 2/3 personality, 1/3 hotness too. I fell for a guy I didn't know slightly in Year 1 because I thought he was cute - not hot, cute - and then I got over it, then I had that crush until I graduated from primary school inside me because I thought he was great. I refused to see the bad stuff... we were "friends" and half the school had paired us up. >>; We were like each other, we loved Pokemon, the TCG, and school, but... he was an arrogant jerk. I got over him because I realised he enjoyed humiliating me in front of his friends, and that he'd only talk to me if his "mates" weren't around, so yeah.
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Age 31
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Posted October 16th, 2006
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i think the personality is most important,but looks are good too!if his personality is SO wonderful,i don't really care about the looks..he may get older an become hotter..maybe...so looks 1/3,personality 2/3..i agree with miyu-chan!
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I'd say either 2/3 personality 1/3 attractiveness, or 3/5 personality 2/5 attractiveness.
There are cases where you're attracted to someone, but your personalities are too different for anything meaningful to ever work out.
On the other hand, you have to be attracted to the person in order for intimacy and it does affect loyalty.
Personality does outweigh looks slightly, but both are important imo for a relationship to work in the long-run :3
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Posted April 23rd, 2006
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18.3 Years
I'd say personality but looks often come into account. Personality is what I would judge someone more on and looks would be a bonus. ^^

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Personality.

Well, I've never liked a guy of had a boyfried, but personality is more important to me than anything when I'm looking for a good friend.

I do have some boys as friends, but I'd never fancy any of them, even though they all like Pokemon and they have the same personality as me really.
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I hate when people say that! Not all hot people are really mean. They say that about actors, too. Where does everyone get this rumor from?
I didn't mean all. I was actually referring to people that I know and see everyday at school. I know I didn't state that fact, but I didn't feel that I had to.
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Just Looks = One Night Stand Material
Just Personality = Friend/Hang Out Buddy Material
Both = Relationship Material

It's all chemical, lol... You need the attraction from the looks to light the spark and the personality and who the person is keeps things moving in a relationship. Only some people out there are so focussed on 1 of the 2 that things usually fall apart and when they land it hurts, n.n'
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