Your Flaws

Started by Palamon June 11th, 2019 4:03 PM
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Palamon

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Age 26
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Snezhnaya, Teyvat.
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What are some of your flaws? No one is flawless, we all have flaws in our personalities, and whatnot.

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いかないで

Age 27
Male
京阪神
Seen June 17th, 2020
Posted November 19th, 2019
274 posts
7.3 Years
I am comically bad at not finishing things, so much in fact it has been my goal this year to stick with things (hence why I am still learning Japanese and trying to do it every day and get better at it).

Taemin

MOVE

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USA
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17.8 Years
I don't like admitting when I'm wrong, but over the years (especially at work) I learned that I had to just admit and move on. lol

It was just part of my insecurities.

Another flaw is that I'm sometimes also scared of failing so I don't even try at some things. That's also getting better over time, though.

On the flip side, I can sometimes be overly confident in general? Whoops.


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Sydian

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Age 30
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Georgia
Seen May 22nd, 2022
Posted November 29th, 2021
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15.2 Years
in all seriousness tho i'm w alex on that one. i could solve like 90% of my problems if i didn't fear rocking the boat or confronting people. my confidence in general is like -7 irl. lol i've had my nature set to timid since i joined pc in 08 and it holds true. it me
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in contrast i'm too confrontational and will verbally assault someone in a split second, realising a second later that maybe i jumped the gun even if i was technically right

Fairy

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Posted January 6th, 2023
I go far out of my way to be a people pleaser and tend to go above and beyond to avoid conflict. I hate being the center of attention, especially negative attention, so I’ll do almost everything in my power to keep the peace - even at my own expense and even if I’m not involved in the fight.

Conversely, I care a lot about what other people think of me for someone who doesn’t want attention. :/ I don’t get how it works either but approval is something that matters to me.

I’m also painfully indecisive. Making and sticking to my word is something I struggle with because I always try to be adaptable and flexible for other people. Obviously I do have hard limits when it comes to some topics, but in an effort to be open minded I often find myself paralyzed in analysis.
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Tsutarja

Age 28
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Florida
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I sometimes express anger or give a stern face whenever someone doesn't respond back to me when I talk with them, or they think that I was finished talking to them, when I didn't think so.

I am also confrontational whenever I ask for something and in return I don't get what I wanted. Of course gifts are an exception to this, but things like incorrect orders on food are what set me off in that manner

moon

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Most of my issues stem from being an overly emotional procrastinator :)
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my whole existence is a flaw really. I can have a shopping list with flaws I have :>
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Sammi

Age 33
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The States
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Posted November 8th, 2021
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18.3 Years
does my anxiety count

I'm definitely timid and non-confrontational when I should speak up for myself. Then again, considering how I act out in my brain sometimes... I would probably go too hard the other direction if I did ever speak up, whoops.

I procrastinate to hell and back but considering my sister and her son have ADHD and some of the symptoms hit too close to home, I'm starting to wonder if procrastination is a personality flaw or possibly mental illness related.
On that note it's time to do some dishes

Edit: let it be known that unlike the last time I said I'd do something on PC, I actually washed my dishes :P

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Sheep

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Australia
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I'm very much a pushover and find it hard to stand up for myself. Several friends at work have tried to push me to speak out when a certain supervisor was not treating me fairly (happened several times over the course of two+ years), and in the end I never did hoping it would just pass. I hate being confrontational and putting myself in awkward spots.

Also want to say I am quite introverted and don't enjoy socializing too much irl, but I wouldn't call that a flaw per se. Fine for people to have varying levels of desire to socialize. I just don't happen to have much of it, and love being alone.

Aslan

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I overthink things a lot and make situations much more complicated than they should be. I also have a strong fear of failure and letting down other people which can be restrictive, and is something which I absolutely need to get over as it causes a lot of unnecessary stress. Another issue I guess is grudges - sometimes I just need to let it go but if I develop a grudge, it usually stays for a while.

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Age 27
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Australia
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What even are diplomacy skills?
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Age 23
Female
The Abyss
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Posted December 2nd, 2020
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6.5 Years
I tend to criticize myself and overthink things a lot. Nothing wrong with pointing out flaws within reason, but I sometimes look back on the stupiest things on beat myself up over it (not literally beat myself up). On the overthinking point, I tend to have a hard time telling some people (espically relatives) about some things because I keep thinking about the bad things that could happen instead of reasoning things out.
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noa

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Age 30
Female
Seattle
Seen November 29th, 2020
Posted July 20th, 2020
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7.6 Years
I'd say having horrible anxiety is a flaw

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Memento Mori

Age 25
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The Pacific Northwest
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13.1 Years
im not very confrontational. that's one of many.

Bay

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Dani California
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I overthink things a lot and make situations much more complicated than they should be. I also have a strong fear of failure and letting down other people which can be restrictive, and is something which I absolutely need to get over as it causes a lot of unnecessary stress. Another issue I guess is grudges - sometimes I just need to let it go but if I develop a grudge, it usually stays for a while.
More or less this with me too. The overthinking for me comes from being impatient, like when a mistake I made my temper drives over the roof instead of me being calm and assess the situation. Grudges is another big thing for me too. Takes a bit for me to let go of that grudge and forgive someone.
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I get too comfortable being in one place and stop pushing myself further. Such as if I'm doing great in school, it would be an excellent time to learn a new skill, however the chances of me doing it are slim.

I did teach myself how to cook properly though.