Your dad, father, big guy, old man...Daddy

Started by John Denver July 2nd, 2005 6:11 PM
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Cherrim

Age 34
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Toronto
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20.4 Years
It depends, with me. I feel closer to my dad, I think, because we're more alike than my mom and I. Like, we both find the same things funny, we have the same interests, etc. We can talk about things that my mom and I can't. The same thing, however, holds true with my mom, though, so that's not a very good example.

Really, for me it might be the fact that my dad never nags me and he never, well, punishes me. Like, my mom spent most of today telling me to do the dishes. I was working on a commision for my dad so he did them for me. He didn't get mad or anything. So... since I'm all like rebel!teenager, I sort of tend to prefer the parent who doesn't bug me all the time. oO; But I've always felt really close to my dad so... yeah. @@;

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Seen November 26th, 2021
Posted November 26th, 2021
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19.6 Years
Well I am closer to my Dad but he raised me and my sisters. My Mom walked out when I was 11. She is very self centered and we are not that close at all. However I am close to my Dad.
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Im alot closer to my mom,infact im a mama's boy..XD Don't get me wrong,I am close to my dad,but closer to my mom. I have no clue why but I just am.I guess I feel comfortable talking about some things with my mom rather then my dad,which makes us closer. So yeah im close to my dad,but closer with my mom.

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Age 35
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Kitchen Stadium
Seen March 8th, 2013
Posted January 31st, 2012
12,044 posts
19.2 Years
I have no closeness to my father whatsoever...I speak two words to him on average per day: good night. And that's it. He's incredibly hateful, violent, and paranoid, and constantly keeps me afraid that he's going to explode. He's threatened to leave, burn the house down, terrible things like that, and he would do it. He's that kind of person. The only thing in the world that he loves is money, and he keeps me, my mother, and my sister under control with his threats and his money-related excuses for not letting us do anything that we want to do. I'll be so glad when I'm not living here anymore, but I'm also scared that he'll do something to my mom and sister. I'm the only one that can stand up to him physically, and he's afraid of going too far around me lest I go too far. I'm terrified of what he's capable of when I'm not around.

My mother is an angel. I love her immensely and she's never done anything wrong; she's been the best mother she can be under the tyrannical reign of my father.

Seen September 4th, 2009
Posted September 17th, 2005
758 posts
19 Years
Me and my dad can't be in the same room for more than a minute without fighting ><.

I was closer to my mom(who passed away 3 years ago), as we were very alike (we loved the same shows(errr... aside from Pokemon XD, she like most of the cartoons I watched), like the same music, and had the same taste in guys XD.

But I never really got to hang around with my dad before my mom died, so me and him never really see eye to eye... but my dad does give me money (like about $100 when I go to the mall(but that's 'cause I shop at Torrid and Hot Topic, very expensive)) So I won't complain >.>

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Age 34
Seen April 23rd, 2014
Posted January 17th, 2010
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19.7 Years
My dad... I don't know him all that much... he calls us every day, but yet he feels like a stranger to me. o.O; I have a very complicated relationship with him... Well, he did some damage to our family when we (my brother and I) were still small - he abandoned us and stuff... and my mom never really forgiven him. >"<; And... welll, I wouldn't like it if they got together. They're both strangers to each other. Even though I'm pained by his past actions, my little brother suffered the most. He always had some sort of admiration towards my dad, and when he found out what he did - lets not get into that.

Anywho, I feel closer to my mom, even though she's nagging at me right now.

{EDIT} As for why some people feel closer... I dunno. xD


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Seen June 14th, 2006
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18 Years
I wouldn't know. I don't know who my real father is. And if I ever found out who he was, I hunt him down and (the following text has been censored curtosy of me 'cause it's bad...and I mean BAD!). I love my mother unconditionally.


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Seen March 28th, 2023
Posted January 9th, 2023
13,114 posts
18.5 Years
I couldn't say for certain - I'm probably as close to my dad as I am to my mom. Maybe slightly more closer, but that's it. My dad's the one that I feel like I can say some things to (like how I managed to do something wrong), since he won't get as upset - though there are still some things I feel comfortable with saying only to my mom.

*shrug* But really, I'm about equally close to both of them.
Age 32
NYC
Seen February 14th, 2007
Posted January 2nd, 2006
155 posts
18.1 Years
I guess that I am closer to my mom than my dad. I mean dont get me wrong, im close to my dad and he is cool and everything, But I am more closer to my mom. I feel I can talk to her about personal things in life than my dad, and when I get into trouble I look up to my mom cause she isnt so strict and doesnt get so upset, on the other hand my dad will explode!-_-;; XD So yea im closer to my mom ^^
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Seen January 12th, 2006
Posted November 21st, 2005
773 posts
18.3 Years
I feel closer to my dad because we spend alot of times playing video games and eating. That, and because this is the first time I've seen him in 2 years.


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Posted January 15th, 2007
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18.9 Years
My mum, we're always together, we know everything about eachother, and she means the world to me, shes helped me through so much, and we've been through more than most familys would ever do in a lifetime.

Although me and my dad to get on very well to, he's into computers and stuff so we're very alike.
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Seen July 17th, 2006
Posted May 3rd, 2006
390 posts
19.2 Years
I'm alot closer to my mum than my dad. I mean me and my dad can get along but for only about 20 minutes. The tiniest thing can get us screaming at each other. We have apsolutley nothing in common. He's the kind of dad who can't admit when he is wrong.
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19.7 Years
Closer to mom but I admire my dad due to the work he does.

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18.7 Years
=/ I'm a lot closer to my mother, even though we argue a lot. We've been through a lot together... she understands me the most, even though my brother's her pet I'm Dad's. X_x I'm close to Dad... but just not close enough... but then, that's understandable, if you know... I forgive, but I don't forget...
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18.1 Years
definately my dad. he is sooo much cooler and my mom is really strict and doesn't like me half as much as my sister.



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