I gotta problem

Started by Solo_tremaine October 17th, 2005 4:00 PM
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Age 32
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Seen May 1st, 2006
Posted April 4th, 2006
120 posts
18.4 Years
Here my problem. I just ogt a BF, and he wants me to drop out of highschool when he graduates this year. Should I do that? I love him and I don't know what to do. What should I do? Also, should i Mention that he's 18 years old.


Age 33
Seen July 17th, 2006
Posted May 3rd, 2006
390 posts
19.2 Years
No offense, but that is stupid! I would not drop out if I were you. You need an education, that is what is most important. If you don't drop out I'm sure your b/f will still love you. But if you honestly don't want to drop out then don't.
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*smiles* here is my area of expertise... *walks over to Solo_tremaine* I only hve one question, Do you love him enough to sacrifice the rest of your life?I really don't think you want everyone else to hear what else I have to say about this.. if you pm me your MSN adress I'll talk to you one on one... trust me I'm the only one that can help you with this.. I had the same problem last year.. I know what it feels like...
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Do u have AIM? cause if You do, My AIM is Grape42000. AIM me if you have JbcBlank.
I don't have AIM.. I hate that everyone else does... but I don't.. only MSN and YahooMessenger... how do I go about getting AIM anyway?
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Do you use AOL? cause if u do, they have an 'IM' button. How abnout we just PM about my situation. Ok?
Sure... PM me.. and I don't use AOL I don't like it...
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Age 33
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Posted May 24th, 2007
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18.2 Years
It will sound bad, but i recommend you to keep studying. How do you know that you will be with him forever? Ifyou go with him you will lose all except for your love, If you have a problem with him in the future, you will have wasted a great education for nothing.

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Posted October 5th, 2016
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You know... it's a lot to give up, your schooling. It's kinda like giving up your future, in a way - and it's unfair of him to ask you to do that. Unless you don't want to continue with your education, I think you should tell him no. If he still won't accept no, then he obviously doesn't care about what _you_ want ultimately.
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Seems like everyone else here shares my same idea. If this man loves you, he'd let you finish. Real men respect their women, and if he respected you, he'd wait patiently and let you finish up. If he shows impatience, then he doesn't deserve ya.

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Well, most of the people here have said that already. But Ill just say it one more time.
If you truly love him, and if he really does too, then he will underestand. If you drop high school, then trust me, you will regret it afterwards. We dont play with these things, graduating from high school will help you through your whole life. Talk to your boyfriend, tell him all about it...say that you love him, and as Ive said before, if he truly cares for you like you do for him he will accept it. True love need sacrifices. How else it would be called strong?
I hope I made you make up your mind a bit, just think about it before doing anything.
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Everyone else has already sayed it, but I'll say it one more time,

If the man truly loves you he will understand if you say no and if he wouldn't he'd probaly ditch you sooner or later anyway. Are you truly willing to drop of your education in hope of that the man might stay loyal to you?

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Posted December 30th, 2013
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18.2 Years
Okay...this is just plain dumb.
Don't drop out of high school for a guy, that's stupid.
Just tell him that you need an education too and you won't drop out.
If he keeps saying something like,"Aww c'mon do it" DUMP HIM. :)

And this is pretty sad that you're asking a Pokemon forum on whether or not to drop out. >>

EDIT: Woah woah woah...I reread your first post saying, "I JUST gto a new BF..."

Don't do it.
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Posted November 18th, 2005
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19 Years
* sigh *

ok, this guy,
1. you only just got this guy as a boyfriend right? i think he is rushing it a little? honestly??
2. I think if he loved you, he would let you finish youre education first, cause that would be weird if he didnt o.O
3.is he a little weird, ( my opion ) be a little careful please ^^;;
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Age 33
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Seen December 31st, 2022
Posted December 16th, 2016
303 posts
17.7 Years
Think about it this way, Tremaine. I completely understand that you really love your boyfriend. But dropping out will do you no good. If he truly loves you and cares about how you choose to live your life, he will allow you to graduate and not leave you. But, if he leaves you because you wish to have a decent education, he doesn't love you nearly as much as he might say, or as much as you might believe.

Also, I'm guessing you're in 9th or 10th grade? (guessing by your age, please correct me if I'm wrong) If your relationship is truly meant to be, he can wait the 2-3 years for you to graduate.

Third, look at him. He's graduating. You should not allow someone to tell you to drop out and actually do it, especially if he's graduating. You'll only hurt yourself, especially if things don't go quite right in the end.

If you have any more questions or comments, feel free to PM me, and I'll reply as soon as I get it. I'll help you out as much as I can. ^_^ But for now, take this. *hands you a muffin*
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Seen April 6th, 2012
Posted July 15th, 2006
3,422 posts
17.8 Years
Don't ya' ever drop outta school just because of a guy.. Just give him up.. If he really loves ya', he will let ya' continue schooling till' ya' graduate.. No point wasting time on a guy who wants ya' to give up something so important for his own selfish rights... High school ish important ya' know? It plays an important part in deciding your future..


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