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    At your current age, how young is too young for you? So to speak, what age is the lowest you'd go when it comes to dating?
     
    I'm 18 now, and youngest for me is about 16.
    Though maybe sometimes I can make exceptions depending on stuff... and stuff.
    A friend of mine, same age, said he would go out with a 13 year old, that's way too low for me.
     
    16 is way too young. 17 is kiiiind of pushing it, but I think that goes with the whole "Oh you're over 18, so you're considered an adult shouldn't you be with someone who's also 18 or over?!?" thing most people have. I know some people (mainly parents) have a problem with people in a relationship with someone 3 years in age difference, but I don't because my parents were that and they were alright. 18, no problem!

    But I don't really date. Not with how most people do it. When I think of dating, I think of meeting someone new and going out one night to do something and getting to know each other. Every relationship I had so far developed from friendships, so I already knew them, they already knew me, and we were familiar with each other's families.
     
    Anything below my age. lol I don't like dating younger people. But I don't wanna aim too high. The person I'm with right now will be 22 next week and I'm 19, but I'll be 20 in August, so we maintain a 2 year difference for most of the time. That's fine with me. But I'm kinda odd in that I consider whatever age I was previously as "young and foolish" because I tend to look back at how dumb I was lol. So even 18 is too young, and I already feel like I'm 20 so even 19 is starting to look young. My logic is odd.
     
    I don't date younger than me as a general rule of thumb. Once I had a crush on a guy who was only a year or so younger than me and I felt like it was ages of difference. Maybe it'll change when I get older, but anything more than 6 months or so is too young for me right now.
     
    I guess I could go as low as 18... but just imagining that makes me feel kinda weird and icky in a stupid way. If the woman was an emotionally mature 18-year-old, then maybe it could work but now that I'm typing all of this out, it just feels slightly wrong, to be honest. Let's revise that estimate up to 20. Yeah, that sounds more reasonable and less icky.
     
    I would probably go to 20. I've had younger girlfriends and I'm just to partial to that maturity of an older woman. Not too old; in fact I've never dated anyone older. I feel at my age it's a bit odd dating young and becomes more "ok" when you're in your later years.
     
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