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crap i did it again :c

droomph

droomph

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    So have you ever done something regretful? Did you hurt someone's pet? Did you break their stuff? Did you offend them?

    If you've ever done anything like that, how do you:

    • deal with it?
    • apologize, if you want to?
    • restore your relationship with them?
    Yeah. I realize these are pretty much the same, so answer however many you think is relevant.
     
    You know, I think I might be close to a world record for the amount of times doing or saying something trivial that I regret. I guess I have trouble gaging how people are feeling, or what they want me to say, and I say something that's wrong, or that I just have a big mouth. It's weird, because I don't really talk that much to begin with.

    How do I deal with it? Not very well. I usually come out worse for ware than the person I offended. If I ever say something that makes someone else upset I tend to dwell on it for the longest time. I don't think there's a rational reason for it. Dwelling won't fix anything.

    I fear that people won't accept my apologies sometimes, which makes me put off the act of apologizing for quite a while, but usually I get my happy resolution. Well, until the next time I slip up.
     
    I've done a lot of things I've regretted throughout my life. Generally, I try to deal with them by trying to take my mind off of them by doing other things that are unrelated to the event. When apologizing and/or restoring relationships is possible, I try to do that.
     
    I've done things I regretted and probably hurt people in the process. I tried to fix it, though sometimes I couldn't do so. Some people forgave me and others still refuse to forgive me or accept my apologies. There isn't anything I can do about that really. Maybe they'll forgive me someday, maybe not. Though I never meant to do anything wrong.
     
    I haven't really hurt someone personally, not anything off the top of my head that I can think of anyways. But I do regret sleeping in class, which might hurt the teacher's feelings, I don't actually know. I obviously didn't deal with it very well since I did it quite often. I tried to make up for it by studying harder and being a decent student, but I couldn't like apologize or anything to the teacher; talking back isn't necessarily commonplace.
     
    I've...done a lot of bad, yeah. :( I just try to apologise/make it up to them, even if it takes time, although the situation is sucky in the first place!
     
    I was being a real dick to my friend once and he got so frustrated he pushed me down the stairs and I fell into the wall at the bottom and broke the wall. I felt really bad because it was my fault, I was just being a precocious brat to him for no reason lmao.

    The first thing I said was "I'm not paying for that". Apologies don't really come naturally to me, as you can see :P. Generally I just wait for things to blow over. Nobody ever seems to stay mad for long.
     
    Social faux-pas are my specialty. The last thing I did that I lost a friend over was eating a piece of birthday cake before it was ready to be eaten, hahaha. I was baked.
     
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