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https://waitbutwhy.com/2013/10/why-procrastinators-procrastinate.html
I was reading that instead of revising a few mintues ago and I was amazed by how much of it rang true for me. I've always been a massive procrastinator; the number of times I've pushed work to a later date is astounding. I always believed that while I may not be "feeling it" then, come the time I had set myself I would be much more ready for the task in hand, more motivated, more willing. It was a lie and an excuse that I would have told myself million times for a million other tasks before, but it would still be good enough for me to instead do some other random shit, completely ignoring what I was really supposed to be doing at the time.
Procrastinating has never helped me. It has always made me late for a deadline, late for homework, late for my job, late for everything. Whenever I end up not doing anything about the task in hand when I go to bed I would just lie there for hours, thinking about why I didn't do what I didn't do. There would be self-loathing, anger, confusion. But the worst emotion I feel would be regret. Regret that even after the multiple times I had told myself before I would never ever succumb to procrastinating ever again I still did. Regret about maybe what my teacher would think of me after I tell him that no, I still haven't finished the coursework in time, even two weeks after the one week extension he gave me after the original deadline. Regret about how me choosing to procrastinate has made me miss so many great opportunities that had been handed to me in a silver platter before. I don't exactly have that many deep regrets in my short life so far, but nearly all of them stem from me not giving a shit and doing nothing when it mattered. Then I would sleep, wake up, forget everything about what I thought of last night and the vicious cycle would repeat.
I don't really know what this thread is supposed to be. It certainly feels a lot more like a blog post right now but I wanted more of a discussion on the topic of procrastination, and maybe for others to share their own stories if they wanted to, that would be cool. Trust me, real procrastinators know they are procrastinators, and they know that this is a habit as hard to kick as maybe smoking for a guy who's been smoking twenty cigs a day for ten years. I've had few rare moments of runs when I've been absolutely driven and focused on my goal and what I needed to, and those moments I say are the moments which have brought any kind of success I've had so far, which only leads me to think sometimes of how much I could achieve if I could just do what needs to be done when it's supposed to be done.
Tl;dr - do you think you suffer from procrastination? If you think you do, how much would you say has it affected your life?
That's all.
I was reading that instead of revising a few mintues ago and I was amazed by how much of it rang true for me. I've always been a massive procrastinator; the number of times I've pushed work to a later date is astounding. I always believed that while I may not be "feeling it" then, come the time I had set myself I would be much more ready for the task in hand, more motivated, more willing. It was a lie and an excuse that I would have told myself million times for a million other tasks before, but it would still be good enough for me to instead do some other random shit, completely ignoring what I was really supposed to be doing at the time.
Procrastinating has never helped me. It has always made me late for a deadline, late for homework, late for my job, late for everything. Whenever I end up not doing anything about the task in hand when I go to bed I would just lie there for hours, thinking about why I didn't do what I didn't do. There would be self-loathing, anger, confusion. But the worst emotion I feel would be regret. Regret that even after the multiple times I had told myself before I would never ever succumb to procrastinating ever again I still did. Regret about maybe what my teacher would think of me after I tell him that no, I still haven't finished the coursework in time, even two weeks after the one week extension he gave me after the original deadline. Regret about how me choosing to procrastinate has made me miss so many great opportunities that had been handed to me in a silver platter before. I don't exactly have that many deep regrets in my short life so far, but nearly all of them stem from me not giving a shit and doing nothing when it mattered. Then I would sleep, wake up, forget everything about what I thought of last night and the vicious cycle would repeat.
I don't really know what this thread is supposed to be. It certainly feels a lot more like a blog post right now but I wanted more of a discussion on the topic of procrastination, and maybe for others to share their own stories if they wanted to, that would be cool. Trust me, real procrastinators know they are procrastinators, and they know that this is a habit as hard to kick as maybe smoking for a guy who's been smoking twenty cigs a day for ten years. I've had few rare moments of runs when I've been absolutely driven and focused on my goal and what I needed to, and those moments I say are the moments which have brought any kind of success I've had so far, which only leads me to think sometimes of how much I could achieve if I could just do what needs to be done when it's supposed to be done.
Tl;dr - do you think you suffer from procrastination? If you think you do, how much would you say has it affected your life?
That's all.