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Have you ever gotten into a serious fight that damaged a friendship?

Dizzy

My Father is a Baron!
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    Well, have you ever? It happened to me once, me and my friend Mike... we were mad good friends and then we fought each other and now were not friends.....
    Now i dont know who to trust and be friends with :(
     
    Nah, never happened to me mainly because every time I get in an arguement with a friend, we always make up in like 5 minutes
     
    I've gotten into only one huge fight with my friend that I've had since I was in sixth grade. Well, there were two boys that liked her in our last year of middle school and...she disliked them both with a passion...^_^;; But, I was sort of friendly with one of them at that point. Then our school dance came along and I asked him to slow dance with me and of course, he said sure. Mid-way into the dance I see my friend out of the corner of my eye looking at me maybe a couple of feet away from us and she made the most angry face and just stormed off. Then this witchy girl came up to me when I tried to go and talk to my friend and started screaming at me "STAY THE *bleep* AWAY FROM HER"...yep, what a doggy-dog world it is! So, I got so upset by the end of the dance. Everyone was pretty much fighting at that dance, anyway, lol, it was a disaster. I called her up over the weekend after more fighting online and just talked it out and finally we made up. We're still really good friends now! Aww, didn't that sound like a Lifetime movie ending, lol? Again, another long post for you, Kairi...O_o;;
     
    Nah not bog fights though. I just get mad at my friends for couple of days then we apologize to ech other. Nothing special....:P
     
    Pokemaster10000 said:
    Nah not bog fights though. I just get mad at my friends for couple of days then we apologize to ech other. Nothing special....:P

    Same, I hardly get into huge fights with my friends, except this one time wherre my friend got angry at me for no reason, I was really ticked cause I did nothing, eventually he started being an idiot, and everything was back to normal.

    I always seem to be the first to apologize, even though I am usually not the one who starts it ?_?
     
    People don't get mad at me, I get mad at them for not paying attention to me. Sometimes I do get urges to punch them in the face. :knockedou
     
    i don't remember ever being in a Big arguement with my friends. in elementary school my best friend (at the time, now we're barely friends. we grew apart) and i would get into fights over stupid things all the time. but we always made up. i was (and still am) the person who always gets stuck in the middle of fights. i end up being the messenger trying to help everyone make up with each other.
     
    I've never got into a serious fight that damaged any of my friendships ever....i still think that "fighting doesn't solve anything" and stick by that. Though like FT, if i've ever fallen out with a friend over a tiny little argument, i'm usually always the first to apologise...
     
    Not really, if we have an argument it's usually resolved quickly in laughter. I guess I'm pretty lighthearted, or shallow. ._.
     
    Well, twice for me, but they weren't all my fault. And they weren't violent.. You know girls, we just yell at each other. o_o;

    Anyways, the first was probably caused because we were so different. I loved Pokemon, she loved boy bands. I liked watching cartoons, she liked watching MTV. I liked shopping for toys, she liked shopping for clothes. My walls had no posters, her walls were practically made of posters. You know, so.. we just could never solve our differences. >_>

    The other was NOT my fault at all. She took advantage of me completely! O_O When my family went to Hurricane Harbor, I invited her along too. (And we even paid for her ticket.) She never bought me anything, even though she had plenty of spending money and I didn't. >=\ Not that she was supposed to, it just would've been nice, considering that I've even brought her along on one of my shopping sprees with Christmas money. =_= But that's nothing compared to anything else she did... There were tons of other times, like she blurted out my crush in front of all of our friends, and she would get mad at me for no reason. I guess I was just too nice, but at the end she was the one that got mad and wouldn't talk to me.

    The funny thing was, the next day she tried to call me about 15 times. Hah, and I didn't answer once. In fact I went outside to play so she would see that I didn't care. (We lived across from each other.)

    I'm typing too much. Sayuri's worn off on me! O_o Lol.
     
    I have somewhat of an experience with that with someone who had been my best friend for about 5 or 6 years in Public school, but they were petty disputes that didn't last more then half a day. For fighting in my life I have never gotten into a fight with anyone before, I see no point of it because it won't really prove anything for either person but since I'm pretty tall, people expect me to be violent but I'm not that way at all like what people say sometimes, "A gentle giant" ^^;.
     
    Hey! Do not mock my elite typing skills of lengthiness, Kayleigh, lol! *wiggles fingers like Andre 3000 in OutKast's video "Hey Ya"* Anyway! I've had friends take advantage of me like that, too. I don't blame you for saying she didn't buy you anything when you had the decency to take her with you to Hurricane Harbor. The least the girl could've done was reciprocate to show her appreciation. I've met people like that and I have no use for them.

    I have a friend that I got close to in the summer going into 8th grade and we were really close up until the end of our freshmen year of high school. She had absolutely no one that bothered with her the summer I called her up and then all of a sudden she pretty much stole away my good friend that I mentioned in the story I told previously in this thread once we were all in the same homeroom one year. I'd always offer to have her come along to the mall with me or go to the movies or have dinner at my house and occasionally her's. Now she's so "popular" with who were my friends in the first place. I'm still friends with them all, don't get me wrong, but she treats me differently...she doesn't talk much or laugh like she used to around me. If she doesn't see me online, she doesn't invite me along with the rest of them. She just assumes I'm not home or I'm busy--there is a such thing as the telephone...^_^;; The moral of the story is: People forget who was there when they had no one, Kayleigh! Unfortunately, it happens to everybody at some point! Aw, I typed too much again, lol. O_o;
     
    I've gotten in a few fights...they were with kids that are complete jerks that I wouldn't want to be friends with anyways...

    I've gotten in fights with friends a couple times, and only one of those friends have remained my friend after all this time...good person he is...

    still truckin the BOO ya!
     
    Well... Yes. I've posted some in my old Xanga.... Here's one :
    Grape (ecargnmyst) said in a comment: ..;_;..=/....i thot i was ur BEST frend...no? but u sed "one of my friends that I haven??t seen for 2 years is coming to Taiwan to visit me~!" ....r we not BEST fwends anymoreee??....what happen with beast ferednds 4ever?? =( *sobs*

    i am feel very sad...we r not close anymore..i stil think u r my best-est fwend...but it look like u found a new best frend? we use to do EVRYTHINn togeter. remembver? now, u r in ur own world and i am in my own world?!? u talk about stuff i dont kno. u r so different. y did u hav t o mooveee?!?!?! u stoopid STOOPID GIRL! i HATE this. we r so far apart now! and now ur not even MOVING to the NY...to CALIFORNIIAA!!!!!! *angry* grrrARGH so mad...r we THAT far apart??? .....rn we still even best fweenndsss....?!!??! *sob*sobobob*

    i feel so confuded...O.o i am goin to cry...i dont even kno u anymore...the frendship we shared...was long ago...like it never happend...*tears*

    im not spesho anymore....feel so unspesho..nooo...


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    I always think of you as my best friend, but I typed it like that was because I was kinda worried that do you still think me as my best friend? ;_; Well know you do, I can let out a sigh of relief. ^_^

    It's not that *I* like to move, my mom made me. I often wonder here, why am I so unlucky?! When I first moved here, I can't understand/read a *bit* of Chinese. I got 10s and 20s in tests... Can you guys imagine how that felt? T_T And also another reason that I moved was because of my Father. I can tell, when they talk to each other... The silence, my mom's face... the time when my father isn't home... *cough cough*

    And my mom doesn't want to move back to New York City... She doesn't want to face my Dad... *sigh* I miss NYC... Very, Very, very, very, very MUCH! ;__;

    When I saw your reply, it made me feel...so...down. ;_; My mom said that your mom wants to move to California, or Taiwan...as for why not, I don't know.

    Here's another :
    Written on: 2003/7/30 Time: 9:21 AM place: school.

    Today there was a Chemistry quiz, and I got a 20, which meant I got 4 right out of 19. And my friend just?like sorta got angry with me. She was like, Friend: (Gets back her quiz paper) ?Whee! Lookie me! I got a 65!

    Me: (joking) ?And you?re just saying that because I got a 20?!?

    Friend: (a little angry) ?Well, it?s your own fault that you got a 20! Who told you not to memorize it before?!?

    Me: (Thinking, Well, who?s fault was it before?! Who kept talking to me during class?! Well, it?s you that goes to a Cram school, not me! Just like our teacher said, ?It?s better to listen in class then to study it again when you get home.? And think about yourself! If I told you to ?Shut up? during class, you?ll sulk won?t you?! Well, I had enough with your attitude and I?m glad that I?m moving!) [But instead of saying it out, and getting into a fight, I decided to say something else.] ?I really don?t care?just as long I?m happy?? (tries to smile)

    Friend: ?Well, if you keep acting like this, then you?ll still get a 20 when you move to the US!?

    Me: ?The decision to be happy of to be depressed is on my hands. Why fell depressed when you can feel happy??

    *later*

    It seems like she got over it?that?s strange?really, really, strange?I?m confused. O.O

    And here's another... :
    Recentlly, I've got friend problems. You see, I have this friend called Flora. She is nice, friendly, yah...but what I hate is her TEMPER!!! *ANGRY* You have to look at her face if you want to live peacefully. And she also makes comments about me sometimes...But when I say like...her temper needs controling...you know what she does?! She says, "So what? I can't help it, that's just the way I am." Me, "Okay..." But if I say that to her, she'll probally bring her anger out at ME~! >"< Okay...WHAT DID I DO TO ANGER HER?!!! D*** IT. *inhales...exhales...* Okay...So I've been thinking if she really doesn't like me that much...Maybe I won't be friends with her anymore...just classmates. Why is our friendship so hard? Why be so unhappy? If ending this friend ship makes me happier, then I'll do it...
     
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    Whoo hoo hooie, saying damm will make Kayleigh come here. Well, I don't get in fights with friends, because I don't see anything to disagree about... Once I got into a fight with a guy I didnt know, and he became my friend.
     
    Once, last year, I got into a verbal shouting match with a kid who was one of my best friends. Out of nowhere he began mocking me because I had a different ideaology than him and I lost it after he made a few arrogant comments toward me...I suppose my anger at him wasn't entirely for that event...he'd began hanging with the wrong crowd and had changed quite a bit in a short time. We never spoke after that, and he moved away this summer.

    What a cheerful story, eh?

    I'm not really a hothead...I just won't take being insulted lying down. He crossed the line which few people have ever dared cross (since I suppose people at school generally get along with me) and I couldn't help putting him in his place. I feel bad about it now, though. I shouldn't have let my temper get the best of me. When I do I usually mess things up bigtime.

    Ah well...it doesn't really matter to me anymore. Just thought I'd throw in my two cents ;P
     
    bna_li said:
    Whoo hoo hooie, saying damm will make Kayleigh come here. Well, I don't get in fights with friends, because I don't see anything to disagree about... Once I got into a fight with a guy I didnt know, and he became my friend.
    Just because she does her job telling people not to bypass it doesn't mean you should make fun of her. So she tells people not to swear, and...? Any mod should give a warning about that, but that's just a copy/paste of a blog entry. [Miyu] probably forgot it had that in it, I'm sure it wasn't intentional. The people who do it to be bad are the ones it's meant for.
     
    Why is it that only when the fight is physhical*kick punch that sort of stuff* that's your friendship isent hurt but only by words? maybe it's just the fact i'm a guy and cant feel any pain other the physical.
     
    Kairi said:
    Just because she does her job telling people not to bypass it doesn't mean you should make fun of her. So she tells people not to swear, and...? Any mod should give a warning about that, but that's just a copy/paste of a blog entry. [Miyu] probably forgot it had that in it, I'm sure it wasn't intentional. The people who do it to be bad are the ones it's meant for.
    Yeah, I didn't notice, Sorry! ;-; And I was really, really, angry at that point, but it was lightyears from now, so it doesn't matter. *shrug* I've gotten in alot of fights with that friend, most are in my diary... *Edits the previous entry*
     
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