I need help with a friend, we're fighting!

[MewSkitty]

Okay, here's how it all started. I was talking to Greg on AIM, and he started up his BS about how my GF doesn't love me. I said that she does, and nothing he says or does will change my feelings for her. Now, he blocked me on AIM and is ignoring all the PMs and e-mails I send him. Greg is my best friend, and he means a lot to me. I realy need help, what should I do?

EDIT: For some reason he unblocked me, and is kinda talking to me. We're realy aren't friends again yet, so I could still use some advice.

 

[Nicole]

well yeah he's your friend and all but why should he get a say in you and your gf.maybe he's jealous?

 

[ashley03]

mabe ur friend like ur Gf,or maybe he feels like she's gonna intereir with ur friendship

 

[Nicole]

yeah maybe that's it too!

 

[DarknessMonkey]

Jealousy, he probably wanted your chicky..

 

[MewSkitty]

I'm thinking that he could be jelous. I'm talking to him on AIM right now. we're just talking, not the kind friendly chat we used to do, just talking. It could be a little bit before we're friends again. I have good friend making skills, so it could even be tonight if I'm lucky.

 

[Nicole]

so ou should be my friend (J/k)(well if you want)but so anywas do you need any more help?

 

[MewSkitty]

I could use help on way to help keep this from happening again. What should I do if this happens again?

 

[Electric Hero]

Well... maybe he is jealous, he likes your girlfriend, maybe he wants you to leave her. Anyway... you can possibly, SLOWLY, try to talk more, and more about... what you used to talk like when you were the best friends ever... try to talk about what likes the most, and stuff like that. Sorry if this is not enough... I have lived this kind of situations... and what I said it's what I always have done... Oh! don't talk about your GF... good luck with this... (I can check this thread and see if you have more problems... I can help... if you let me, of course).

 

[Lust]

Why don't you ask your girlfriend if what your friend says is true?

 

[Kylie-chan]

^ She'll probably deny it if it was true.

;-; Good luck. I hate to see people fight, especially when both of them are my good friends~ [I've spent all my schooling years dragged into the middle. NOT fun. -_-;;;]

Definitely don't bring up the girlfriend topic again. Also, tell him you're sorry and you mean a lot to him [if he hasn't seen this xP] and just don't bring up the argument after that, start up a conversation - not a forced one - and meh, I hope it works out, I really do. ;;

 

[Ryoutarou]

Well, just don't bring up the topic with him again. As for what he said though, it would be best to caution, I've seen a lot of things like these actually be true.

 

[<<-_Lord-Krishna_->>]

The guy (Greg) is definetly jelous or he is tellin ya the truth... who knows? but I say don't bother tryin to make him happy.

 

[^^NICK^^ v.4.0]

If he came at you like the way you're making it sound, rude, then I wouldn't be able to trust him. That would say a lot about his ways, so I would try to distance myself from him. And really, if you want him to talk to you, even though if I were you, the friendship would be OVER, don't seem too desperate, because then he'll think he controls your feelings or whatever. Make him come to you begging for forgiveness (is that a word?). Does that make sense?

 

[Overlord IX]

Even though he made the first attack,apologizing to him wouldnt be a bad idea.

 

[<<-_Lord-Krishna_->>]

I take back what I said, Ignore him till he says he's sorry with a cherry on top

 

[Kylie-chan]

Well, everyone's repeating themselves now. Besides, the person in question happens to be a member here, so yeh... possibly I should lock this. =P
*LOCKED*