I'm addicted to you / Don't you know that you're toxic?

[Margaery Tyrell]

How often do you fall for someone? Do you develop crushes easily? How do you handle having romantic feelings for someone? Have your feelings ever been mutual? Do you get over crushes quickly, or do you hold on to your attachments?

-- As for myself, I can develop feelings for people really fast, so if I don't act within a reasonable timespan my feelings ferment into a fine wine and I have a hard time handling them. Almost all of my crushes have been one-sided, so I've learned to get over them quickly.

 

[esperance]

I'll be honest, I was expecting a thread about Britney Spears.

I'm not the type to develop romantic feelings much in general, and never quickly. But I've been able to get over crushes I've had pretty quickly (not that there have been many), so yeah. I can certainly develop feelings of friendship quickly though.

 

[Auticorn]

I'm actually in a committed relationship, so it's not appropriate for me to fall for someone else. Usually, if I do... it's caused by a friendly reaction or 'fangirl crush'. My senpai is a perfect example of this.

 

[Lumina]

if you're a girl who is friendly to me ever i will probably get a crush on you at some point

fortunately i know that about myself and kinda hate it so i will literally never act on it because that could go way more bad than good

 

[Flushed]

I used to fall for people all the time when I was younger. Now, idk if it's because I'm picky or what, but I haven't had a legit crush in awhile and it's kinda sad actually

 

[Hiidoran]

...but yeah, I actually fall quite easily for people. It's typically just little, innocent crushes, and I never really act upon them in any way. You know, you just see a person and you gush over them mentally for a few days. I get over them pretty quickly unless it's built into something serious.

I'm in a serious relationship now, so this doesn't happen too often anymore. I still find other guys attractive, obviously, but I don't think much more about it. -shrugs- I guess I'm content? How about that.

 

[Nolafus]

It's very rare when I do find someone else attractive, and since I'm not looking for a relationship right now, I never act on it. I'll probably want to get into a relationship at one point, but for now, I'm focusing on me.

 

[Wicked3DS]

I fall for people way too easily it seems. I've gotten better over the last few years, but it still happens too often. It's still not as bad as high school. Yikes.

 

[Somewhere_]

I am pretty picky, so I dont really have a bazillion crushes, nor do they change often.

 

[maccrash]

yeah I develop crushes on people rather easily. they're rarely reciprocated, & this goes both ways, much to my dismay.

 

[OneTimeCanine]

Interesting question. I am very happily married but my wife and I use the term "crush" all the time. Usually when talking about celebs or characters in TV or movies that we get a bit obsessed with. She gets girl crushes and if even admit to a few man crushes. Does not meen we are going to run off with them or is behave, just means we go a bit starryeyed (is that even a word?!?) for them and admit that they get the blood pumping so to speak. Whole universe of different between crush and love though. Just my opinion and two cents on the topic. :)

 

[Outlier]

I fall for people pathetically easy these days, even worse than back in high school lol. I feel rather inadequate, for valid reasons too, so I don't usually pursuit my crushes. Occasionally I might try to strike up a conversation with the hope that there's a bit of chemistry and mutual attraction, but it doesn't usually get much further than that.

There was only one time in high school where someone reciprocated my feelings but she already had a boyfriend so I didn't trust her to be monogamous with me even if she left him. Which is funny because I don't care about monogamy at all anymore.



I'm just gonna start adding this to the end of my posts btw.

 

[Melody]

I do develop crushes regularly; some of which do blossom fully into love. It just depends on how fast I capture them and mitigate them. Usually though it's not new crushes I get blind-sided by though; it's those previous ones I thought had been extinguished or dealt with appropriately.

Suffice to say, when I do fall in love, I fall hard and fast. Very Hard and Very Fast. At this stage it is normally too late to mitigate it in any way. It must run it's course and end naturally, then be healed. So yeah. Oftentimes though after it has run it's course I do regain my senses enough to assess if I can maintain it, and if I can, I do. I'm not one to ignore love when it does happen to me, and I enjoy every moment of it when it is there. As such I'm a pretty loyal person when it comes to love...my trust has to be utterly broken before I could even entertain the thought of ending it. Sadly this makes my breakups kind of unfortunately messy ;~;

 

[gimmepie]

I don't fall for people easily at all, on the flip side of that though I also don't get over people particularly well (if ever) either.

 

[Bellsprout]

lol a crush for me is a long and grueling process so when they don't work out I feel pretty discouraged. I fall for people after I get to know them for a while. Last person I fell for was almost a year ago. I didn't even realize the feelings I had for them until it was too late.

 

[Lucid]

I'm super unromantic. I've had maybe a handful of crushes ever.

 

[Syndrome]

Man the last time I had a "crush" I was like 13 or something. I can't say that I fall for people easily at all because I need to get to know them first and take it from there.

 

[Ullion]

Ugh, when I was younger I'd always have a crush on someone. Nowadays crushes are rare and I'm quite content with that.

 

[dad]

i don't fall for people too often, but i do get those small one hour crushes quite often. i try to fight the feels to the best of my ability (usually by ignoring the person) but the feels usually always come back. it's hard to tell if the feels are ever mutual since i'm not bold enough to ask and i'm the worst at dropping clues. since i have no disclosure i hold on to my crushes and just imagine that things will somehow work out. fml

 

[Zeffy]

Can't remember the last time I used the term "crush." I don't fall for someone easily, thankfully :p