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Tell me, did you fall from a shooting star?

Cute, intelligent, nice, and not overweight.
 
I want to love a woman. I want us to be for one another and no one else, and I want her to let me take care of her. But still, I want her to care for me emotionally - I want her support and understanding in life. I want her to be intelligent and willing, and recognizing of who and what I am. I want her to let me please her, and I want her to be attractive. While I can't say for love that this look or that is very deciding, long, platinum blonde hair and blue or silver eyes would be absolutely gorgeous. A butch cut would look cute too. I want her to be white. I want her to treat our Union as a unit aimed at collective happiness, satisfaction, and knowledge, as I will. I want her to have intellectual interests that complement mine nicely, and I want us to be able to talk forever. I don't ever want to want her to stop talking. I want her to have the same philosophical ideas as me, and I want her to be open-minded and smart. I want her decisions to be one I could back with an iron fist, and vice versa. We work together, in unison - I want the world to know we together are great.

Wait, did I just describe the perfect woman?
 
I seriously feel like the girl that I've fallen for fell from the sky. She's perfect to me. Oops. Attractive, quirky, incredibly cute with her mannerisms and actions, mature for her age, has seen some pretty fucked up things like me, concerned about her future, open communication, sense of humor. The works.
 
Moderately attractive female, not too perfect but not too imperfect. Not a twig but not a watermelon, somewhere in between. A little something extra to play with when we're sitting around not doing anything. Cute smile, straight teeth (pls god no snaggletooth), race doesn't matter but anything other than white is preferred. Likes to play video games, likes to watch anime and western cartoons all the same. Likes to cook and has an appreciation for most genres of music. Isn't afraid to eat, not bitchy, not trashy, someone who won't put out on the first date. Not two faced, not a liar and no compulsive disorders such as a compulsive liar or thief for example. Brown or blue eyes (they could probably be any shade of green/hazel/brown and I'd never know, colorblindness is great). Has some sort of aspirations for the future or is already on the road to achieving them, isn't lazy, likes to travel and likes to go out and do things. Likes to go to the gym, likes the beach and likes animals.

It's getting harder and harder to remember what all about my ex made me care for her like I did. But these threads just get it all coming back.
 
I've already found her :3
And, she's a best friend, too. She doesn't know, so, shhhhhh.
Anyway, what I "love" most about her, is

  1. Beautiful
  2. Have a sense of humor
  3. caring

I could add more, but, meh.
 
Appearances I don't mind much besides being taller than me (and that's not hard to achieve). Funny, a dork with terrible jokes and a gaming nerd - anime is optional. Most importantly that person can't just be a partner, but a best friend too. Thankfully I've already got him :pp
 
Ya she doesn't exist thought I found her once only to cheat on me a year later. Constantly working on myself if the real woman finally shows up I will just have a shit ton of stories to tell her.
 
I seriously feel like the girl that I've fallen for fell from the sky. She's perfect to me. Oops. Attractive, quirky, incredibly cute with her mannerisms and actions, mature for her age, has seen some pretty fucked up things like me, concerned about her future, open communication, sense of humor. The works.
Mannerisms was plain huge in my last relationship. Or maybe it was the way she talked. Or both.


I would never have expected it, but the peculiar and unique way in which she broke her English was such a turn-on it wasn't funny. Normally I'm bothered by broken English, but... wow.
 
I never know what to say to these things, like... I've always found it frustrating that I can't list out what I find attractive in people, or what I desire in them. It's all about how they treat me, how they interact with me. That being said, I've never been genuinely attracted to a person, so it's just hard for me to define what I like in others. I can read people very well, process them, etc. But to try and figure them out in terms of what I like about them is just impossible for me. I've dated and been sexually promiscuous and had crushes, but I just wasn't attracted to them. Think more... focused longing that lasts for two days and then goes stale forever. There really is just a mental block when it comes to what I'd like in my ideal partner. I don't even have celebrity crushes, or celebrities that I look at and make me think 'Ah yes, they are an ideal human that I could show interest in.'
It's just so frustrating to me, as I consider myself a sucker for the romantic, but I have absolutely no natural inclination towards it and no idea who I'd possibly want.
 
Someone who knows how to laugh and who is as insane when it comes to shipping as me. Also who has at least 1 fanbase in common with me and who likes my kind of music. Someone who enjoys swordfighting like me and who is caring. Imaginative and a good artist. Brown or green eyes and black or auburn hair. Preferably someone hot. Either gender.
 
A guy with a smart, charming, & cute personality that's enough to make me swoon. I don't care if he's cute in a physical sense, though, so in terms of perfection, it doesn't matter haha.

but it's okay because i already found someone!
 
I've been greatly spoiled in the love department if I'm honest. I have met a few people who have molded with me so well that love and empathy came naturally for us. My bonds with them have felt almost.. cosmic. Soulmates are for real, I swear to you. |D

So I guess trying to describe an ideal lover isn't something I can really do, despite my unusual experiences. I'd be doing it no justice, really.. because it's something I personally think needs to be felt rather than described or thought about.
 
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this was actually really hard to write this out, i think i'll know what i want when i meet this special someone, if that makes sense.

anyway, my ideal guy has to have a sense of humor, no amount of money or good looks can make up for dryness. someone competitive would also be nice, being pretty competitive myself i need someone to challenge me. i guess just someone to do cute shit with like hold my hand and give me let me keep your sweaters. appearance doesn't matter too much and race is a non-factor. if you've got a great personality i'll love you regardless. hygiene, however, is required. i'm gonna leave it at this before i start catching feelings or st.
 
This is kind of difficult to explain, because I haven't really had much experience with people romantically, but...

They'd have to be humorous. If you're not able to be silly, then there isn't much fun in being serious all the time. They wouldn't have to be physically attractive, just cute imo. What matters to me is their personality, if they're as a shallow as a shore line, then its not going to work. I'd need them to be empathetic and honest - if we can't communicate efficiently, then the relationship isn't going to last very long. Hobbies and interests don't matter too much to me.

I think I'd know more when I eventually find that special person, because right now all I have are these ideas.
 
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