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    First of all, plz dont laugh at me when you finish reading this.

    There is a girl at school who i kind of like and im not sure if she likes me or not. She looks at me and is kind of nice but is also mean. I emailed her saying that i liked her and then her friends and some of my friends knew about what i did. I emailed her why she did it but she said that someone found out and told the other people. Im not sure if she is lying or not. And now she is avoiding me.

    The reason why im confused is why she would tell everyone tht i liked her when she would also get embarrassed.

    Can someone help me?
     
    Young children do things on a whim--I assume you're a pre-teen, so people of your age, especially the type of girl you mentioned (one who swings between kind and cruel) can do things like this for little or no reason at all. Believe me, don't trust anyone with your secrets, especially when confiding "love" in someone, until you're fifteen or sixteen and have people who you absolutely trust. Before then, no one is mature enough to understand the utmost seriousness of a secret. Don't take this the wrong way, but the girl most likely doesn't understand that seriousness, and if she can get a cheap laugh out of it, she'll exploit that email for all it's worth. I doin't really know what to tell you...like I said, people of your age are the most likely to be your friend one minute and your enemy the next. It's all a maturity issue.
     
    xD. You're 36 and going through this crap? xD

    Girls act that way sometimes when guys tell them that they like them. Just give her time and try to talk to her.
     
    coolmaster said:
    There is a girl at school who i kind of like and im not sure if she likes me or not. She looks at me and is kind of nice but is also mean. I emailed her saying that i liked her
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    I did the same exact thing to a girl I used to like: sent her an e-mail! Also, this girl I used to like is nice but mean!
    But no one found out except for her cousins, but that was last year.
    Advice: never tell a girl you like them because you will have problems between the both of you. Happened to me a while ago.
     
    u told her,she knows,and she avoids u..*nods*..all to fimiliar...
    she knows,u know she knows,she knows u know she knows that u like her..and yt. she avoids u,give her time..she'll come around if she likes u,if she doesn't-she's not worth ur time.
    hey cut her some slack,she finds out someone likes her,and saying u like someone is like telling her she's a friends of hers(she could hear it all the time)
    but as i sayed before-if she likes u she'll come around and possibly return ur feelings,if she doesn't,she isn't worth ur time

    *post 600*
     
    Question: Why are you 36 and in school, and you like a girl and you are a girl?
     
    plz don't double post ^^

    well, 1st off, you shouldn't really tell a girl you like her, unless you know how she'll react. if she's stuck up and preppy, don't tell her. if she's nice and down to earth, go ahead. 2nd, ignore what i just said because you can't judge a book by it's cover. (basically use your own judgement) now then, before you open yourself up to her, get to know her a bit. talk to her, ask her questions, hang out with her, get to know her real personallity. after that, go ahead and tell her. most girls tell a friend so they aren't alone in their little secret, and may have some guidance before going on with that secret. and, most girls have a friend that is like a megaphone--they tell everyone. (it would be best to know their friends before you tell that girl as well.)

    ok, now that that's done, now she's avoiding you. i think you should go up and talk to her again--tell her it's important. tell her your true feelings for her, and that you're sorry for her embarrassment. ask her why (but don't be aggressive about it) she's avoiding you. if she doesn't answer or leave unclear, than leave it go--she most probably has a good reason, or simply doesn't want to hurt your feelings. after that, i'd leave it alone for a bit, then talk to her some more. take it slower to build up her trust. and, if you still like her, tell her again. if she starts it all over again, than just leave it alone--she's not worth your time, and their are plenty of girls out there that will like you more.

    that's my advice. i used to be that way, but then i built up confidence and met many girls, who liked me. but they just weren't right for me. (all of them cheated on me or played me) then i met tanya, and we've been together since september 11, 2004. we are getting engaged in a year. (shhh, it's a secret lol) my patience payed off, and i found someone right for me who will spend the rest of her life with me. i know you will find someone too, it just takes confidence, respect, and patience. well, good luck, and i hope you find someone soon.

    ~RaVen
     
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    Ok.... da**, too many threads that are almost equal!!! *explodes* ok... if everyone knew then... there's no doubt: she told all of them!!! ... ?? I better quit the funny stuff. Look... girls (not all girls) may act like... first: they act like if they like you so much by looking at you and smiling bla, bla,bla. Sec: If you fall in their trap (again: not all girls), and you tell them/her (in this case) that you like her... she will know that you fall reaaaaaally good into her trap. Then she tells everyone and everyone laughs at you.

    Ok... you just asked why... and I gave you a whole new situation. In other words: The girl told everyone, and she told her friends/everyone before saying you like her. Just to make fun of you...

    This is not a really good answer... but that's all I know about the kind of girl you talked about. Sorry for not being very helpful
     
    raven, i'm pretty sure kaga didn't mean to double post seeing as they're the same post.
    in my expert opinion (yes that's right i'm an expert with girls... at least amongst pokemon fans jajajaja only kidding guys) the fact that she's avoiding you upon finding that you've taken interest in her indicates that she does not like you. i'm sorry... that's probably the way things are. i make sure that i never confess my interest in somebody until i know them really well. well... in general i avoid trying to take interest in people who i don't know well. judging by the fact that you said "looks at me and is kinda mean/nice/whatever you said" i think it's safe to assume that you have one of those "across the room crushes."
    i hate these... there's no good way out of them. my advice would be to lie to her and say something like "oo... i only sent you that e-mail to see if you liked me because i was kinda under the impression that you did and i think that you seem pretty nice. well, pretty and nice (that line gets girls if you use it at the proper time... this isn't the best time to use it but who knows, it could work)" and then just do your utmost to cover your behind to save yourself from any other further embarassment. i wouldn't try to get close to girls until (i think kaga said this too) you're at least 15. girls younger than 15 are generaly insecure and therefore selfish and mean (i would know... i had a "girlfriend" in 7th grade, and it really, really didn't work). and besides... girls are only going to get more attractive and sympathetic, don't waste your time now, pokemon is much more important at your age (just make sure that you don't end up getting asked to a dance by a girl and responding "o, i wasn't planning on going, i'm normally at pokecommunity.com RPing and my fellow role players will be concerned if i'm not there") ya... too much advice *flees*
     
    Legendary Pok?mon Master said:
    xD. You're 36 and going through this crap? xD

    Girls act that way sometimes when guys tell them that they like them. Just give her time and try to talk to her.
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    Nope, Im currently doing a dare from the dare thread.
     
    coolmaster said:
    First of all, plz dont laugh at me when you finish reading this.

    There is a girl at school who i kind of like and im not sure if she likes me or not. She looks at me and is kind of nice but is also mean. I emailed her saying that i liked her and then her friends and some of my friends knew about what i did. I emailed her why she did it but she said that someone found out and told the other people. Im not sure if she is lying or not. And now she is avoiding me.

    The reason why im confused is why she would tell everyone tht i liked her when she would also get embarrassed.

    Can someone help me?
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    HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA-

    No.

    1) Get to know her first (IMPORTANT)
    2) Ask her out
    3) Get to know her even more to the last detail
    4) GO SLOWLY (VERY IMPORTANT)

    Take it from someone who had first hand experience.

    Never tell a girl that you like her before she even knows you because SHE'LL THINK YOU'RE A STALKER!!!!

    edit: If the girl is like this, what's the point of trying to chase her? If she's such a [female dog], then just find someone else. You'll get over it.
     
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    Well Coolmaster is really 11 and he is a boy.

    Now,Ummm i think you should just ask her out i know it will be tough but it's better to know then to keep thinking about her.

    Anyway Good Luck.
     
    rsgh5 said:
    raven, i'm pretty sure kaga didn't mean to double post seeing as they're the same post.
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    Thanks for defending me--the forum lag kicked in right when I was trying to reply, I disconnected the computer, and tried to post again, seeing as how I thought the post didn't go through. I didn't bother to check the topic after posting.

    Hope that clarifies everything. Believe me, I hate double-posting as much as the next person.
     
    From all the good things I have heard about Kaga, I highly doubt he would double post intentionally. Indeed, I myself double post all the time. Frickin' lag! ><;;;
    Well, there happens to be an advice thread about this... I don't go for general help threads, but seeing as it does exist... I'm going to lock it. Sorry Kenny. ^^; Besides... if you've emailed her, it's a bit late to have second thoughts now ><
    *LOCKED*
     
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