...The Hardest Part Was Still To Come...

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    Yes this is related to the thread I just closed.

    Tonight I can see again, all it took was a thunderstorm with my emotions.
    I know I made the right decision and it was my friendship with not her but my true friend.

    I guess I am still confused, how could I have been so blinded and confused and not know it?

    In the end I said farewell to her and I don't expect her to understand why nor do I hope she ever finds out. My life is at peace I will never let a girl ruin an awesome friendship again.

    Shes probably hurt but theres nothing I could have done to change that, nothing, but sometimes its best to meet your needs even if it crushes someone close...right?
     
    If you were reasonable with her about it, yes. Were you that way or did you whirl violently on her?
     
    If you feel that your friendship with your friend is more important than a romantic relationship with the girl, then Naminé guesses that the romantic relationship will not be lasting even if you force yourself into it for the sake of protecting the girl's feelings. Better the short pain for her now than a long pain later after a couple of years together already~

    Though, Naminé thinks that it's not totally unreasonable if you send her an email to explain how you cannot forsake your friendship with your best friend right now. If she is truly as likable as you mentioned, then surely she will understand and take the experience a bit better, maybe. Oh, it's probably best if you don't listen to Naminé because she is a failure~
     
    Well I did sent her a message, and she did respond, I read it this morning... She basically said that when shes scared and confused she says things that she honestly doesn't mean... She said she knew that I was trying to get a point across and that she knew I couldn't find the right words, she also said she didn't want it to end like this. As for right now I am friends with both and maybe its just the eye of the storm but I have a feeling we will all get through this as friends...but what really got me was at the end of her "letter" she wrote "ok just send it just send it" That so made my day...she thought I'd never talk to her again but I felt she wouldn't talk to me again...its funny how life works.

    Last night was the most drama I have been put through in the longest time, I guess sometimes being foolish is the only way to bring forth happiness.
     
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