[ this blog is intended to reflect on the actions of a bunch of MSN/Skype baboons, bare with me - it's also a chain to X-626's blog entry]
Can I ask something? Why is everyone's mood in a freaking knot lately? Wait, no, not lately, since the start of late May. I thought this was supposed to last June, everyone would get their crappy moods, disagreements, and what not out of their system and the upcoming months would be awesome. Boy was I wrong.
Here's a bunch of people with their own box of chocolates, we'll call them imperfections for now. Every single day is a ticking time bomb, one spark, one tiny tiny TINY disagreement starts WW3. What the hell is up with you guys, seriously. o_O I'm trying so hard to ignore all the mess that perks up around every corner. It's not only a mood killer, but it gets annoying after a few times. I've been somewhat annoyed since mid-June... now I'm just sick of waking up to it... every single day. It's to the point were one of the main reasons I'm looking forward to my three weeks off is escaping you crazy fools throwing food at each other over the computer screen. This war that's gone on for the past month or so marked quite a bit of firsts, it was the first time I ever talked to Malyka trying to patch up some wounds and got snapped at. That doesn't happen, it just doesn't. And she's not the only one where that's happened.
Again, it's summer (for some of you), a time known for relaxation and fun. You all are (supposedly) friends. Can't you all just shut up and get along? You couldn't last one day, that's sad, it really is. Is that asking too much from a bunch of friends I A) used to look up to for how they handled themselves and B) think really know how to take care of business. (in a fine manner without erupting like a volcano)
Do you realize the consequences of your constant bickering does to the people in the middle? Like Francer, Mika, Signomi, myself and the bystanders that really hang out with you all for the joy-filled moments and awesome experiences. What happened? Was there a "no fun" cult created? Did all of you just decide to flip a switch and ATTACK people you enjoy the company of at the slightest movement?
It's daily war, and I'm tired of it. Learn to accept criticism, imperfections, that you have adversity in life and have to take care of it, or honestly, shut up. I do care that some of you are having a rough life right now, but it's one thing to talk about real life stress and another to start a two-day cat fight. If you are experiencing such stress, get off the computer and fix it yourself, immediately or gradually, because coming online and dishing out your acute anger that was supposed to be directed at relatives and what not at your online buddies is bull, and you should know that. It's okay to vent, it's okay to look to your friends for advice on how to deal with something, but it's not okay to start the same crap and ruin everybody's mood.
There have been slight improvements in some areas, at least from what I noticed, but the severe negatives are shutting their spotlight down.
If you encounter troubles with your friend (which happens, but certainly not at the frequency of the past month) then calm down and go take a breather. Say "ya'know so-so, I don't want to get into this" and chill out. Go meditate, go read a book, go do something to get yourself out of that messy mood. I do that, and it's why I'm usually happy as a fish-eatin' bear when I'm online, because I can usually handle what's going on. And if I can't, I seek help from my close friends.
When I log on MSN or skype, I log on to enjoy chatting with my friends, not to bicker with them, or worse, watch them bicker in front of me.
Have a nice day.
PS. Please, please do not start some flame war in comments here, I'll just delete them. If you can't keep a level-head and press the submit button with a easy-going attitude, don't comment.
Can I ask something? Why is everyone's mood in a freaking knot lately? Wait, no, not lately, since the start of late May. I thought this was supposed to last June, everyone would get their crappy moods, disagreements, and what not out of their system and the upcoming months would be awesome. Boy was I wrong.
Here's a bunch of people with their own box of chocolates, we'll call them imperfections for now. Every single day is a ticking time bomb, one spark, one tiny tiny TINY disagreement starts WW3. What the hell is up with you guys, seriously. o_O I'm trying so hard to ignore all the mess that perks up around every corner. It's not only a mood killer, but it gets annoying after a few times. I've been somewhat annoyed since mid-June... now I'm just sick of waking up to it... every single day. It's to the point were one of the main reasons I'm looking forward to my three weeks off is escaping you crazy fools throwing food at each other over the computer screen. This war that's gone on for the past month or so marked quite a bit of firsts, it was the first time I ever talked to Malyka trying to patch up some wounds and got snapped at. That doesn't happen, it just doesn't. And she's not the only one where that's happened.
Again, it's summer (for some of you), a time known for relaxation and fun. You all are (supposedly) friends. Can't you all just shut up and get along? You couldn't last one day, that's sad, it really is. Is that asking too much from a bunch of friends I A) used to look up to for how they handled themselves and B) think really know how to take care of business. (in a fine manner without erupting like a volcano)
Do you realize the consequences of your constant bickering does to the people in the middle? Like Francer, Mika, Signomi, myself and the bystanders that really hang out with you all for the joy-filled moments and awesome experiences. What happened? Was there a "no fun" cult created? Did all of you just decide to flip a switch and ATTACK people you enjoy the company of at the slightest movement?
It's daily war, and I'm tired of it. Learn to accept criticism, imperfections, that you have adversity in life and have to take care of it, or honestly, shut up. I do care that some of you are having a rough life right now, but it's one thing to talk about real life stress and another to start a two-day cat fight. If you are experiencing such stress, get off the computer and fix it yourself, immediately or gradually, because coming online and dishing out your acute anger that was supposed to be directed at relatives and what not at your online buddies is bull, and you should know that. It's okay to vent, it's okay to look to your friends for advice on how to deal with something, but it's not okay to start the same crap and ruin everybody's mood.
There have been slight improvements in some areas, at least from what I noticed, but the severe negatives are shutting their spotlight down.
If you encounter troubles with your friend (which happens, but certainly not at the frequency of the past month) then calm down and go take a breather. Say "ya'know so-so, I don't want to get into this" and chill out. Go meditate, go read a book, go do something to get yourself out of that messy mood. I do that, and it's why I'm usually happy as a fish-eatin' bear when I'm online, because I can usually handle what's going on. And if I can't, I seek help from my close friends.
When I log on MSN or skype, I log on to enjoy chatting with my friends, not to bicker with them, or worse, watch them bicker in front of me.
Have a nice day.
PS. Please, please do not start some flame war in comments here, I'll just delete them. If you can't keep a level-head and press the submit button with a easy-going attitude, don't comment.