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Oh you silly teens and your silly teen problems.

Sublime

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    Ironically, I have silly teen problems. Silly teen problems that YOU, yes YOU, will be helping me with. Kay so, get ready.

    Two girls. One Limey. The choice is tough.
    Kay so, I guess I should explain. You see, there are these two girls that I'm almost positive have a crush on me. One of them is a single, nice looking girl who also happens to be a black belt in karate. Thing is, I'm one of her best friends and we have almost nothing in common. Plus, she's a little on the annoying side. But I still wouldn't mind dating her.

    Second choice is a girl who I have sooo many things in common with. We like the same music, we have the same hobbies, same friends, etc. The problem with this choice is that she's taken (That doesn't mean she can't have a crush on me. I have 'side-crushes' all the time while I'm in a relationship. Everyone does :P). But I do have this feeling she's going to leave her current boyfriend soon.

    Now my choice is to either wait or act now. Any advice?
     

    Zelda

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    I would say wait a little for the second one. She's still in a relationship and you wouldn't want the worst of things to happen...especially if the man would want to start a fight with you.

    If she breaks up with him, then be calm, steady and don't act nervous. Simply just ask her out and if she says no, show her that you're a strong man by not crying or anything like that.

    I hope this helps. :x
     

    Sublime

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  • Well, I do kind of like them both.
    I'm just an indecisive person.
    I always think "What would have happened if I had waited/didn't wait?"
     

    Tater Tot

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    I'd forget about it until the second one breaks up with her boyfriend.

    Sounds like Mr. Blimes is a womanizer.
     

    Aurafire

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  • Don't settle for second best...If you'd rather be with girl #2, and you don't have anything in common with girl #1, wait it out. Keep talking to Girl #2...Show her your interested, but you don't have to "tread" on her relationship. Just keep around, and if it's meant to be, then it might happen.

    Good luck, my Limey friend =]
     

    Sublime

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  • Well the thing is, they're both pretty much my best friends.
    And I'm into both of them about the same. In fact, I usually like girls I don't have things in common with more.

    But meh, I might just stay single for a while.
     

    Aurafire

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  • Do what feels right, just don't rush into anything. Take things slow no matter what you do.
     

    Klippy

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  • Wait for the second one and keep the other as your friend-with-benefits.

    Two girls. One Limey. Win.
     

    Gummy

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  • Opposites attract.

    Pick the 1st one. If you pick the 2nd one the relationship will end brutally. Trust me.

    love the header
     

    Eucliffe

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  • Hmm...

    Well, depends on which one you'd rather be friends with more. 'Cause hypothetically, if you dated one of them and the break-up was a disaster, you might not stay friends anymore.
    This may sound kind of mean, but if that does happen and you guys don't end up friends, depending on how much you wanted to stay friends with them might mean you wouldn't care as much if they hated you.

    What I'd do, is, well... Maybe ask the first one out as friends, then invite the second one and her current boyfriend for a double date? That way, even though the second one is still with her own guy, you can get a good idea on what it's like to be with both girls, and you can choose that way.

    I don't want to pick for you. You should pick for yourself.
     
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