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"Conformity is boring and inspiration is endless" happens to be one of my favorite quotes of all time, from a member on this board, Abnegation. He's a gold mine for these sorts of things if you're looking for them. ;D
I read this part of a post today. And I was kind of, I guess you could say I felt happy that someone sees the things I say, in this way from time to time. At PC I've had a big issue in portraying who I am, in real life, but doing so online. I think that very rarely, do people see me for who I really am. In saying that, I feel like I'm a person of many attitudes. Which bothers me somewhat. I can sit back, and I can analyze a situation, in a very relaxed state, choose my words carefully and I can offer advice or a rational view on something. This is possibly who I like to be, who I am deep down, what is underneath all these layers which are simply blocking the way.
I feel as if what you see, before you get to know me, and I'm not sure how many people will agree, is a disingenuous, I come across as busy, stressed, arrogant, self absorbed, empty, simple, elitest, and so on, maybe I'm being harsh in not adding some more positive elements, I say that as a person who is comfortable with who they are as opposed to liking themselves a bit too much. BUT, I'm happy with who I am, yet I do not know who that is. I don't know what side of me suits me best, and what way makes both me and other happy to the best extent. I really hope that I can learn to kind of, control, who I am online. Because offline, I'm very much a solid person, who never lets things go to his head, because I know, those who do, end up derailing in one form or another.
It would be interesting to know what people see in me really, both positive and negative. As an artist, I've grown to accept both. As an artist, I can't accept a label; therefore, I am not an artist in my own eyes, until I prove myself. As a writer, I keep my writings to myself, this does not make me a writer. As a game developer, I do not have a released game, this does not make me one. As someone who dislikes stereotyping, I will always argue them, no matter how wrong my argument is, because no one has one side to them. Nobody. I just really want to know, what it is that makes people see me for who I really am, but also, to know what people see in what I am not.
Ever feel this way?