Yea during my lunch (college), I had a few girls harrassing me asking why im so quiet. They told me this "You won't get a woman, if your shy all the time". I could have just cussed them out, but how mature would that be? Yea it upset me, but I won't let it go strictly to my head, but I kinda stuck with me through out the day. What people grind your gears?