Well really it was both problems you posted, But instead it was a guy.
We became friends through a ICT class we were both in and me being kind and pitying him i decided to help him through it and us being friends i decided to help him a bit more than everyone else. Needless to say this is where my crush developed, and i can't really blame myself i ended up staying behind for about 2 hours every day just to help him through this stupid i.c.t. course, and then had another hour and a half traveling home (i know i live FAR from my school). But now that we've finished school and he's sure he passed (mostly through copying my work so i was even putting my qualification in jeopardy from helping him) i've been trying to meet up with him and he's been saying no. And worse of all he's asked me to come and meet him from a place about 5 minutes from his house and about 2 hours away from mine, he doesn't even bother to show up. So basically to date i've wasted about £30 on traveling up to him and then him not turning up. Anyway i've got over my little crush now and have grown to absolutely hate his guts. However he's asked me to meet him this Sunday, but this time i've got another friend to come with me and if he doesn't turn up again me and my mate are egging his house :P
Sorry for the life story but you did ask what happened XD