But why'd you come back and talk to me then?
I don't know, he's also on YOUR side. Don't write him off. You're talking to me, you should him too, especially since he was an actual friend.
I think you care more than you want to. And yeah, most are overly sensitive and those in power have a serious hivemind going on, but an infraction really isn't as bad as you make it sound. I have my fair share too and at least they expire.
It's just me, but I don't think running away from problems solves anything. Especially when you're hardly alone on it either.