I don't have a gaydar. roflThe gaydar never fails. Just saying. ^^
I don't have a gaydar. roflThe gaydar never fails. Just saying. ^^
I don't have a gaydar. rofl
It's a metaphor, and it's very expensive.
I'm pretty sure you have to buy them from someone else or make them yourself.Really? How much do they cost? Where can I buy one?
I don't think it's been asked yet.Topic hijack!
Vague, open-ended and somewhat philosophical question now, something I'm sure many of us have thought about: what is sexuality for you? Not "what is your sexuality?" but what is it in general, or what is it to you? Did we do this question already? Well, if we did then just ignore and talk about gaydar or whatnot.
The funniest thing happened at school. One of the county board members who is known for her extreme homophobia came by our campus to discuss something about taxes. She used a public restroom there, so some lesbian students who live in her district decided that they'd ask her why she is homophobic. She stormed out of the restroom yelling that they tried to rape her. The woman is like 80 years old.
Hold on.. how do you know what actually happened in the restroom? ._. They're not allowed to put cameras in there..
@_@ Though if that is true.. it's quite ridiculous. I'm very sad that homophobia and discrimination exists.. :c..
As for sexuality.. I like TornZero's response with "To me, "sexuality" is the broad term that refers to sexual orientation, gender identity, and romantic orientation."
However, I would even go so far as to say someone's identity.. and not just their gender identity. Sex is natural for humans and therefore that's why/ how I can see it is part of their identity.
I guess to better understand what I mean.. take Samantha from Sex in the City for example; her sexuality plays a huge role in her character.. and although sexuality doesn't necessarily has to be public, I feel it still affects who you are as a person :3
Just my thoughts <3
Really? How much do they cost? Where can I buy one?
Freaky, you're in luck! As a woman, you have one pre-installed, and at "that time of the month", it's even more powerful.
Also, to my mind sexuality refers to physical attraction and physical attraction alone. Most people are lucky enough that who they are physically attracted to and who they are romantically attracted to match up, but for those that don't, I'm happy to use the extra term.
Also, to my mind sexuality refers to physical attraction and physical attraction alone. Most people are lucky enough that who they are physically attracted to and who they are romantically attracted to match up, but for those that don't, I'm happy to use the extra term.
I was hoping some of these responses would help me word my own reply to the question I asked, but it's still just as difficult to describe.
I sort of agree with Toujours that there's a practical aspect to it. It doesn't feel right to call yourself something that you're not, except I'm on the fence about whether I feel it's more important to explain sexuality in terms of what you do or what you are. It's common to say that sexuality means "attracted to _____" but does it apply if you've never acted on your attractions or accepted them? And with someone's sexual identity, does one have to do something to be that identity or can they simply exist in it?
Like, say you're a guy and you were attracted physically to men, but you felt more comfortable actively engaged in relationships only with women. Are you gay because that's what your attractions are, regardless of what decisions you make? And is your identity completely subject to your biology then, or do you allow for personal decisions to be part of your identity? I don't like the idea of having my identity being completely out of my hands so I feel like there's got to be some level of choice involved in saying "I am _____."
AND THIS IS WHY ANDY IS SO SKETCHY @-@ My gosh ;.; Get a boyfriend :P
Oh *hides* I was sure that I had at least another hour until Andy woke up from his bat cave :3 Nyeh... Is got a lot of esplaining to do the next time I see you on msn :3 We'll just keep it at that ;)Welcome, AlexOzzyCake!!!
Huh? Sketchy...what? I don't understand lol. What do you mean?