I'm a Total War fan myself; been playing Rome II on and off since release. I prefer this alongside some 4Xs games over the AoE/C&C/Warcraft style since the base-building and actual military endeavours are far more seperate. I just don't want to deal with resource collectors and early rushes, it's annoying and I don't have the attentive mindset required to be good at it. Whenever any game has has 'fast-paced' on the back of its box I begin to doubt that I will enjoy it, and this is especially true of RTSs. Instead I prefer to manage a more realistic economy which actually feels like it belongs to a nation instead of a colony, and to use that to support organised armies/fleets/etc. I enjoy the opportunity to be defensive and careful, and have long-term strategies and paced campaigns, without suffering because of that. Something that always bothered me about 'traditional' RTSs is how units are... well, not units, they're ordered on an individual level and have the atrocious cohesion which comes with it. There's something far more inspiring about a 200-man unit acting as a single body than any display of single combat.