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4 things people who are getting to know you need to know about you

Warrior Rapter

Dinosaur Pokemon Trainer
209
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15
Years
1) Humor and sarcasm elude me. To put it in perspective, the top of my list of things I find funny caps around fails that aren't intended to be fails. Puns don't amuse me, and as a general rule, assume I take everything you tell me literally, because more often than not, I really do.

2) Sometimes I butt in where I'm not welcome. If your a friend of mine, and you tell me something that's bothering you, like someone being snotty to you, I'm going to say something even if I shouldn't. I'm the kind of person who believes that if I can help someone, I should help them if I can.

3) I begin every friendship trusting the other person. Everyone deserves a chance, and sometimes I give out too many second chances. But, I don't forget if you break my trust, even if I don't say anything about it.

4) I can be pretty quiet. I have a habit of if I don't know what to say that would be meaningful, I just stay quiet. This can make conversations with me dull, but believe me, if it's over something I'm passionate about, the opposite is true, and you may have to ask for me to shut up (or I'll take your silence as maybe your not interested, and I'll just stop).
 
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10
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  • Age 29
  • Seen Jun 12, 2016
Hmm..

- I'm a generic introvert, only most people don't assume I am because I can be very chatty at times.

- I pride myself for being very kind and open-minded, but I also have a zero-tolerance policy when it comes to bigotry and all other forms of douchey-ness. As a result, I am very blunt and even outright opinionated when it comes to serious issues such as equal/civil rights, sexuality/identity, religion, other forms of politics, and so on.

- My life, as well as myself, can be terribly hectic. Meaning that I often jump between a million different things, can be endlessly busy one moment, and totally free the next. This sometimes bugs people who want constant attention whenever I am online. They don't realize that while I am technically online almost all day, every day, I still am not necessarily available. I multi-task frequently, both on and offline.

- I have my fair share of mental and physical ailments, as well as a fairly extensive knowledge on the subject of said issues (and just humans in general). My anxiety issues are probably the most prominent right now, so people who are ignorant of those kinds of issues may clash with me.
 

Manitee

bury me alive
266
Posts
10
Years
I can't stand fake people. :( I've had to deal with so many in my online-lifetime. I've lost all patience, sorry. :/

I may not seem it, but I'm so impatient!:D

You diss anybody that means a lot to me, you're out. 3:(

You do not judge anybody unless you know them, the only person that's allowed to do that is me.:3
 

zakisrage

In the trunk on Highway 10
500
Posts
10
Years
1. I don't mind referring to people I know IRL by name, and I'll do it frequently. Heck, it's fun to do with the jerks at my old high school!
2. Sometimes I really feel the need to talk about my Lebanese heritage.
3. I make fun of blonds a lot. My best friend has very light blond hair (naturally of course) and he doesn't mind it at all.
4. I'm an anime fan, but I prefer older anime to newer anime. Get used to it.
 

Meganium

[i]memento mori[/i]
17,226
Posts
13
Years
Alright so...

First off, I consider myself extremely anxious. It doesn't seem like it when you see me around, but when you talk to me I tend to hide away because I get scared of ruining the conversation. Don't get me wrong, I love talking to people. I love getting to know people. It's the "hi sup how ya doin?" thing that I tend to have trouble getting past sometimes lol. Don't think I don't like you if I end the conversation all of the sudden, basically. It means I just have nothing else to say.

Second, I get distracted very easily. I kinda have the attention span of a cat or something. If I drift off or disappear for a long while without saying a word, it means something else has grabbed my attention and it may take a while for me to get your attention. idk why but it's a habit I've grabbed recently and it's baaaaad.

Third, I am the most clingiest person you'll ever meet. If I follow you around, IM you, and all that, it means that I care about you and I only wanted to know if you're doing okay. No, I'm not really the "overly attached girlfriend" type of girl ohhh no... it's just part of my personality. I care for all my friends. :3

And lastly, and this is very important: I talk and breathe sports. (okay, that's not really important but this is at least a quality everyone should know! lol)
 
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13
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  • Age 26
  • Seen Jul 14, 2021
1) I'm incredibly shy, online or offline, but I think I am more shy online, after all, if I am around my friends in real life, I tend to be the most extrovert person, but if I am alone, I am incredibly introvert. Because of this, I don't really post a lot around the forums, let alone sending people some VMs, but I would appreciate it if you do, because I am not a good conversation starter, especially online.

2) I stalk a lot; yes I do things like reading your VMs and what not and oh, I lurk around the entire forum, without posting of course as I am very shy.

3) I am a very forgiving person as I tend to view things at a pinch of salt.

4) I am not very good with words, I tend to misuse them, say things that I don't mean, and people get offended easily.
 
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V-Create

You have no power here
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10
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  • Age 28
  • Seen Jan 12, 2014


So I've just about read every single one of your posts, and I was so afraid of critiscm at first but y'know, that doesn't even exist here so yeah.

1: I'm really gay er.. like lesbian, but maybe not. I don't know but you know what, I really love women.
I loooove them. I've been like this for god knows how long and I'm never ever changing me:)
If I were to pick between the man I love or the woman I love, I'd easily go for the woman.
People usually don't see me like that or when they see a picture of me they're like "Whuut you like girls?" or "You date girls?!" Yes, infact I do.
Just because I love wearing really girly clothes and wear makeup, doesn't mean I don't want to sleep with women.
It does not mean I don't want to eat the kitty;)

2: Same as Seki, I also stalk a lot. Usually my crushes facebook and things.
I stalk her and I save her pictures on my phone.
Then I go through every single one of their friends and see if they have pictures of her.
Then I cry myself to sleep looking at her beautiful beautiful face... Just anything!
but then I end up ignoring the smiles she sends my way when I'm at school.. and now she thinks I'm rude.. maybe, I don't talk to her.

3: I'm a homebuddy, I absolutely freaking hate going out.
It takes a lot of time for people to convince me to get out of the house.
I just want to drink beer and stay at home and sleep, in short, I'm a lazy ****.

4: I'm a book geek. I literally love books.
People disappoint and books are eternal! and so is food!
I could probably live without internet if I had ****loads of books with me.
Whenever I go to the beach or in really "grand" places (like things worth looking at), I usually just sit at the corner and read my book.​
 
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1) I really like cute stuff. Like, unbelievably so. I wish I could have a room painted pink with stuffed toys lining the shelves and my bed. And cute decorations and etc etc. One day.. it will happen. (though I honestly should give my room a makeover now!)

2) I'm very hard to anger or annoy. I never take things personally and am really mellow 99% of the time unless I'm just having an awful day. It would take quite a lot of work to make me dislike someone, especially over the internet.

3) I'm obsessed with small video game systems. My 3DS and PS Vita are my babies.

4) I'm awful at small talk and initiating conversations. It is also ridiculously hard for me to talk to people I've just met. Takes time, guys!
 
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1.) I like Girls
2.) I'm a very random person with a short attention span
3.) I work at McDonalds like 30 hours a week
4.) I like ketchup with my rice!!

Tbh, I don't know. There's a lot about me I guess.
 

Hatsune Mika

FireRed Nuzlocke
447
Posts
10
Years
1. I have self confidence issues....
2. I easily get hurt emotionally, especially when I feel like I failed at something.
3. If I'm not dping something I like I'm usually sad or mad l. Very messed up kid.
4. I emotionally do not do well and end up losing any friends I male if ever......
 

Cura

[color=DarkCyan][i][b]I see nothing! I know nothin
1,101
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15
Years
I've been a member of the community for a long, long time and I have not even posted here [I think].

1] I am a Christian believer [siggy says it], I love all people and will not be hostile towards anyone. I am very gentle, however; while I tolerate most things, if someone directly attacks me physically, socially, or verbally. I will stand my ground, not in proving them wrong, but in showing my personal value and worth.

2] I am Pro-Military. To have a secure and safe country, one must have a good sized, well-trained and well-upkept military with confident leaders to back it up. I am a avid folk researcher of WWII and its technology, its military strengths and how it effects us today. I study all sides of the table, the American Allies, the British Commonwealth, the German Nazis, the Soviet Armed Forces, and even the Japanese Imperial Army.

3] I love technology of all types, knowing how to fix, repair and debug most hardware and software from computers, games and even smart devices. I am very amazed by learning about the ins and outs of these devices. I also draw freehand and digital freehand when I have to spare time.

4] I am open to chat with, discussion and debate, only if it stays on peaceful terms. Remember, you have an opinion, I have an opinion, the person at the table has an opinion. It is okay to not agree or accept their view, but don't push the envelope and say they have to 'change' their opinion because you feel it is 'wrong', because in truth no opinion is right, and no opinion is wrong.

Spoiler:
 

Talon

[font=Cambria]Hidden From Mind[/font]
1,080
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10
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I'm a complicated person.

1. Most importantly: I have Social Anxiety... so uhh..... I might just shy away from you when you try to talk to me. If I don't shy away, I'll probably stutter like a seal trapped in ice (I don't get it either), sweat like I'm stuck in a fire, and blush like I painted my face red.

2. I take everything literally, even if I know it was a joke. I get pretty defensive about myself, and will fight back and cause a huge scene if you piss me off.

3. I have a horrible memory. If I don't remember our conversation the next day, then you now know why.

4. Finally, I have a very strange sense of humor. It's not normal. You may say little witty jokes, but I say these long complicated stories that require a working brain to even comprehend. I might crack myself up, but you'd sit there and not understand a word I said, while those beside you who have known me and understand my sense of humor, will be laughing along with me.

5. (Just because, I feel it's important) I'm a little clingy. I don't have many people who enjoy my presence, but when someone gives me a chance and learns who I am, a try to be around them, because I don't really have anyone else to talk to.
 

Trev

[span="font-size: 8px; color: white;"][font="Monts
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11
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  • Age 27
  • Seen Nov 15, 2023
I wish I could send this to everyone who's trying to be/is my friend.

1.) I get attached RIDICULOUSLY easy if you're fun to be around, and I am extremely, extremely clingy and protective, to the point where it almost seems like I'm stark-raving mad.

2.) I am so socially awkward that it's a form of bad luck, meaning I will always say the wrong thing at the wrong time. Do not be discouraged.

3.) I expect you to pick up on when I'm sad and ask me why I am so I can explain and then receive advice, regardless of how many times I say, "It's nothing," or "Don't worry about it."

4.) Tell me if I'm making you uncomfortable, because it's super embarrassing to me and I will stop whatever is making you feel uncomfortable if you vocalize it.

There are like 300 more things I'd like to add but these are the most important please abide by them at all costs
 

Retom

Retomplay on Youtube
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10
Years
1: i am quiet, in my classroom i am always a background person, in new classes some classmates dont even know me. I am shy and cant handle more than 10 people look at me, so school is difficult.
When everyone is looking at me i am unable to talk or move, once it was an awkward situation where i shouldve done a presentation
However in text chat i am talking non stop
No one talks more than me

2: i am gullible

3: i get scared quite easily
People saying boo behind me but also stories
Ive always been scared of 2012 and other things
The same with info id like to stay anonymous

4: i am alone
I have one friend who i almost never see
I have no girlfriend or ever got requests or ever felt love with strangers
I dont mind relationships
I do mind having no friends

So thats all
 

Sir Codin

Guest
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1. I'm a Classical Liberal (aka Libertarian). What that means is I advocate limited government, individual liberties including freedom of religion, press, assembly, and association, voluntaryism, and free market. As a result, I get very easily irritated with comments that promote fascism, socialism, statism, communism, and totalitarianism. I believe more in freedom than I do equality; equality is all well and good, but equality brought about by free will is far better than equality brought about by force and coercion.

2. I'm a big fan of video games and card games, and recently Dungeons and Dragons. Planescape is my favorite campaign setting.

3. I identify as athiest. My reasoning is that I find myself skeptical that there is an existence of a higher power, then I simply don't believe there is a higher power, therefore I must be atheist. You are free to worship whatever, just don't expect me to get in on the action and especially don't expect me to stand by and watch you encroach on other's liberties using your religion as an excuse for it.

4. I have Asperger's Syndrome. As a result, I don't talk much or express myself very well. I tend to be quiet most of the time. I find myself far more interested in hearing people talk than listening to myself talk.
 

Jet Pilot

I killed Spiderman.
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10
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I like cats more than dogs
I like my coffee like I like my women, made with 18% cream.
I like TV, especially cartoons.
I like adventuring deep into the wilderness.
 

Fernbutter

Murder is the way.
821
Posts
10
Years
Well this is going to be the most awkward thing ever so here we go:

1.) I am probably the most "internet" person you can define, and I don't just mean normal internet,
I literally mean everything, even the dark internet, even when I talk, dress up, and sometimes act
as if I was on the internet.

2.) I am both the nicest person that probably ever lived and at the same time the most demented
morbid psychopath that could possibly exist in the entire universe, not to mention I have serious
D.I.D. (dissociative identity disorder), it doesn't seem to really affect me when I am online, probably
because on the internet I literally feel like one person.

3.) I don't seem to be interested that much when it comes to serious commitment, like getting married,
in a relationship the furthest you can go with me is at, uhh, girlfriend/boyfriend? But I am pretty sure
there is that one true person out there that I hope will be the one I get married with, if I knew who it
was of course.

4.) I hate people this is a joke I'm hilarious, I am probably a comedian reincarnated, again that
was a joke but almost all the time I seem to be able to make people laugh, and as weird as I can get, I can
still be pretty serious.
 

Paige Berlitz

HAPPY SAINT PATTIES DAY
282
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10
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1.) I like to tell the truth even if it hurts but there are rare occasions when i will lie to keep a friend safe.
2.) If you ask me if I believe in god(christianity) then i will straight up tell you that i don't and the conversation ends there.
3.) If i don't like you i will tell you
4.) I trust animals way more than people because most people are untrustworthy
 

Honest

Hi!
11,676
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15
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1)I'm going to make every attempt to keep conversation rolling, so if you want me to shut up, pick up a book or tell me to shut up. I'll happily oblige.
2)If I end up insulting you and I smile, or something like that, it means that I'm extremely comfortable being around you. Hell, it means I trust you. So don't take it to heart. I'd be really cold (which is rare) if I really do wanna be insulting.
3)I'm extremely spontaneous, so if something sounds like a good idea, I'll probably go with it.
4)I like taking risks, even dumb ones. So expect a few "wtf are you doing Dipu" moments around me.
 

Yukari

Guest
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Well here we go...

  1. It isn't easy to get on my nerves, unless you know how, in which case it's VERY easy
  2. I will, under any circumstance, tell the truth, I won't lie to protect people. THE TRUTH ALWAYS COMES OUT IN THE END!!!
  3. In contrast to the person above me, I'm very religious, but I won't force my beliefs on you. I also like discussing peoples beliefs
  4. I love video games. I am a hardcore gamer and have a fairly large collection of games. I don't like playing with other people as much though.
 
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