"Fun" is a word I almost hesitate to attach to gaming anymore, and Meloetta.. I couldn't have said it better myself.
Well, at one time I would have just said "for fun" and left it at that, but the overwhelming stress and sheer frustration FFXIV has put me through since I started playing it a couple of months ago now, coupled with the fact that I'm STILL playing the bloody game even though it's still causing me said stress and frustration more often than not, gives me pause.
"Fun" isn't really enough for me anymore. Or maybe it's just my definition that's changed. Well, I still enjoy a good Mario platformer, but that isn't enough for me to buy one: I want more out of games. I play for entertaining characters, intriguing plots, and spectacular soundtrack. I find most games that aren't puzzle, sports or fighting games to be fun, but I won't play just any old thing.
Gaming has become a semi-serious hobby for me now I think. I play for trophies, for the satisfaction I get from earning them; I like earning Platinum trophies where I can - even if it's not particularly fun after a while, and on my current PSN I'd say at least 50% of my plats weren't fun after a while - and otherwise just seeing the things pop up is especially satisfying.
I also play games because a lot of the people I talk to do as well, so we've got things to discuss...or criticize and argue about, as the case usually is.
They're largely an escape from reality for me, and all of the stress, drama, and pain that entails. It's rather freeing, ya know. Getting lost in another world, forgetting all the negatives for awhile. On a similar note, they make wonderful emotional outlets as well. That said, yes, graphics are often very important.
My immersion. :v
Then there's the completionist and achievement hunter side to it, too. And this is partially where the hesitation on calling it 'fun' ties back in. While I won't continue playing a game I don't enjoy to some extent, I don't really want to quit on anything that I've already started.
Canyon Capers, for example, was one of the few things I've ever given up on. It wasn't too frustrating in the good way; it was poor level design that kept me from bothering with it. I want the challenge and I want the satisfaction from finishing it; it doesn't necessarily need to be purely for fun, or maybe that's just what makes it fun for me.
And, of course, the relationships that have formed through them and around them keeps the hobby going strong. :P
Many of the people I talk to play games as well, and it becomes a central conversational point; arguing about them, gushing over them, complaining about them, making fun of them.
My eldest sister and I bonded over them growing up, and now she's the only one I'm actually close to. My father and I still pway together fairly often. I've
forced converted many of my female friends over the years. :3 And it's one of the few things my boyfriend and I can agree on together, haha.