Am I Gay?

I'm 12 years old and i'm mostly attracted to boys. I know somebody might say "Oh, you're only experimenting." but i have this strange feeling when i see a boy that i like alot. When i tend to think of something nice, i mostly thinks of boys, any help?

You're twelve years old. Why the heck should this sort of thing even be crossing your mind? :I

Get Innocuous! said:

You're twelve years old. Why the heck should this sort of thing even be crossing your mind? :I

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I'm very curious, i am different to everybody in my school.

Well, it sorta crosses you at an age like this.
I mean, it finally showed up at like... 10 for me.

But "experimenting" would mean something else from what you're saying,
However, since I KNOW the mods might close this,
You might as well PM me if you want my thoughts.

Ferb said:

I'm very curious, i am different to everybody in my school.

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Yes, you're unique. Just like everyone else.

Seriously, don't bother trying to sort it out at such a young age. Love happens when it happens, so sort it out when the time comes. It's no use trying to group yourself into one specific category when you've had so little life experience.

If you like boys you're probably gay but seriously 12?
Forget about sexuality and play some sports!

GavZ said:

If you like boys you're probably gay but seriously 12?
Forget about sexuality and play some sports!

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That's the thing, i hate sports and love dancing and singing instead.

Get out and sing and dance then. Don't worry about your sexuality

Man I didn't even have sex ed until I was 11.

For the record, one of my friends is aspiring to be a professional dancer, and he's 17 and straight =T that's such a stereotype.

Hey I wouldn't worry about it. No one can tell you if your gay only you know deep down if you are or not. Thats just something you have to figure out on your own. You just gotta follow what your feelings tell you.

Ferb said:

That's the thing, i hate sports and love dancing and singing instead.

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You're clearly pandering to the stereotypes of homosexuality. There are plenty of heterosexual people who hate sports and like singing and dancing. An enjoyment of the arts doesn't make you gay. ¬_¬

Sorry, so many answers! I try my hardest to fight it but i know deep down it's what i am.

Even if you like dressing up as a girl, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay; singing certainly doesn't make you gay, ignore the stereotype.
You are homosexual if you are sexually attracted towards other males. That is all.

Vendak said:

You are homosexual if you are sexually attracted towards other males. That is all.

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To add to that, no one other than you can tell you that (as Autumn27 has said). You don't need a horde of people you don't know telling you yea or nay. Just get out there and enjoy life.

Ferb said:

The thing is i do care about my sexuality, i need answers!

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It's really no need to stress about.
You might as well calm down.

As everyone else said, don't follow steryotypes as your lead, and actually, figure yourself out.

You might think you need answers from someone else, but really,
all your asking is someone to talk to about it, to pretty much explain it to yourself, not them.

Ferb said:

Sorry, so many answers! I try my hardest to fight it but i know deep down it's what i am.

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...I think you just answered your own question with this last sentence.

I am attracted to males that's the thing when i was about 10 i had a experiance with my friend which was a relationship until he didn't want to do it again.

Ferb said:

I am attracted to males that's the thing when i was about 10 i had a experiance with my friend which was a relationship until he didn't want to do it again.

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*cough*
Answering it yourself?

That's what it looks like.

Get Innocuous!, i just noticed you live near me. :)Back to the topic, if you could call this sick but, me and my friend had near sex at the age of 10 years old in my own bedroom which people would call sick but it involved kissing and sucking things.

Ferb said:

Get Innocuous!, i just noticed you live near me. :)

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I thought you did - noticed you knew the area when you commented in the thread about the new Alice In Wonderland film.

Back to the topic, if you could call this sick but, me and my friend had near sex at the age of 10 years old in my own bedroom which people would call sick but it involved kissing and sucking things.

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:T They grow up so fast these days. o.o