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Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:27 PM
I'm 12 years old and i'm mostly attracted to boys. I know somebody might say "Oh, you're only experimenting." but i have this strange feeling when i see a boy that i like alot. When i tend to think of something nice, i mostly thinks of boys, any help?

processr
July 27th, 2009, 01:30 PM
You're twelve years old. Why the heck should this sort of thing even be crossing your mind? :I

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:32 PM
You're twelve years old. Why the heck should this sort of thing even be crossing your mind? :I

I'm very curious, i am different to everybody in my school.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
July 27th, 2009, 01:34 PM
Well, it sorta crosses you at an age like this.
I mean, it finally showed up at like... 10 for me.

But "experimenting" would mean something else from what you're saying,
However, since I KNOW the mods might close this,
You might as well PM me if you want my thoughts.

processr
July 27th, 2009, 01:34 PM
I'm very curious, i am different to everybody in my school.

Yes, you're unique. Just like everyone else.

Seriously, don't bother trying to sort it out at such a young age. Love happens when it happens, so sort it out when the time comes. It's no use trying to group yourself into one specific category when you've had so little life experience.

abnegation
July 27th, 2009, 01:34 PM
If you like boys you're probably gay but seriously 12?
Forget about sexuality and play some sports!

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:35 PM
If you like boys you're probably gay but seriously 12?
Forget about sexuality and play some sports!

That's the thing, i hate sports and love dancing and singing instead.

abnegation
July 27th, 2009, 01:37 PM
Get out and sing and dance then. Don't worry about your sexuality

Camisado
July 27th, 2009, 01:37 PM
Man I didn't even have sex ed until I was 11.

For the record, one of my friends is aspiring to be a professional dancer, and he's 17 and straight =T that's such a stereotype.

Ayselipera
July 27th, 2009, 01:38 PM
Hey I wouldn't worry about it. No one can tell you if your gay only you know deep down if you are or not. Thats just something you have to figure out on your own. You just gotta follow what your feelings tell you.

processr
July 27th, 2009, 01:38 PM
That's the thing, i hate sports and love dancing and singing instead.

You're clearly pandering to the stereotypes of homosexuality. There are plenty of heterosexual people who hate sports and like singing and dancing. An enjoyment of the arts doesn't make you gay. ¬_¬

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:40 PM
Sorry, so many answers! I try my hardest to fight it but i know deep down it's what i am.

Gold warehouse
July 27th, 2009, 01:40 PM
Even if you like dressing up as a girl, it doesn't necessarily mean you're gay; singing certainly doesn't make you gay, ignore the stereotype.
You are homosexual if you are sexually attracted towards other males. That is all.

processr
July 27th, 2009, 01:41 PM
You are homosexual if you are sexually attracted towards other males. That is all.

To add to that, no one other than you can tell you that (as Autumn27 has said). You don't need a horde of people you don't know telling you yea or nay. Just get out there and enjoy life.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
July 27th, 2009, 01:42 PM
The thing is i do care about my sexuality, i need answers!

It's really no need to stress about.
You might as well calm down.

As everyone else said, don't follow steryotypes as your lead, and actually, figure yourself out.

You might think you need answers from someone else, but really,
all your asking is someone to talk to about it, to pretty much explain it to yourself, not them.

Camisado
July 27th, 2009, 01:42 PM
Sorry, so many answers! I try my hardest to fight it but i know deep down it's what i am.

...I think you just answered your own question with this last sentence.

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:42 PM
I am attracted to males that's the thing when i was about 10 i had a experiance with my friend which was a relationship until he didn't want to do it again.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
July 27th, 2009, 01:44 PM
I am attracted to males that's the thing when i was about 10 i had a experiance with my friend which was a relationship until he didn't want to do it again.

*cough*
Answering it yourself?

That's what it looks like.

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:46 PM
Get Innocuous!, i just noticed you live near me. :)Back to the topic, if you could call this sick but, me and my friend had near sex at the age of 10 years old in my own bedroom which people would call sick but it involved kissing and sucking things.

processr
July 27th, 2009, 01:48 PM
Get Innocuous!, i just noticed you live near me. :)

I thought you did - noticed you knew the area when you commented in the thread about the new Alice In Wonderland film.

Back to the topic, if you could call this sick but, me and my friend had near sex at the age of 10 years old in my own bedroom which people would call sick but it involved kissing and sucking things.

:T They grow up so fast these days. o.o

Barney.
July 27th, 2009, 01:50 PM
This is getting out of control.

You're gay.

So what?

It also sounds like you're making it up as you go along though.

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:51 PM
I thought you did - noticed you knew the area when you commented in the thread about the new Alice In Wonderland film.
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Oh cool, talk more in PM. :)</p>:T They grow up so fast these days. o.o

It's ok, it's way ahead of me now, i've grown out of that situation now.

Weatherman, Kiyoshi
July 27th, 2009, 01:53 PM
Get Innocuous!, i just noticed you live near me. :)Back to the topic, if you could call this sick but, me and my friend had near sex at the age of 10 years old in my own bedroom which people would call sick but it involved kissing and sucking things.

...Alright then.

Maybe, if you enjoyed it, you are probably gay.
Just a theroy.

Am I the only one not getting laid? XD

Zumi
July 27th, 2009, 01:53 PM
You're twelve years old. Why the heck should this sort of thing even be crossing your mind? :I

Oh for god sake. It's a thing called Hormones.

If your attracted to boys, I surrgest you talk to your parents, get advice, or go to a support group, that helped me when I was 11 to cope with Homosexuallity.

Zakarii
July 27th, 2009, 01:55 PM
Even if you are gay, it shouldn't matter. You are who you are. If your friends don't accept that you're gay, then they're not really your friends.

EDIT: Boo-Yeah! 100th Post :D

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 01:56 PM
Thanks everybody for the help, this thread can now be locked now and i will get advice, thanks again.

ShinjisLover
July 27th, 2009, 01:57 PM
It doesn't matter whether or not you're gay and anyone who tells you otherwise is a freak. Embrace your sexuality.

Besides, being only 12 you still have a few years until your hormones start kicking up. Youmay turn out to be bisexual, homosexual, or heterosexual. It's perfectly natural.

EDIT: Shoulda skipped to the 3rd page. . XD Sorry.

Hatenko
July 27th, 2009, 02:12 PM
You can experiment, it's fine. I'm still not sure of mine. What does age have to do with discovering your orientation by the way?

Gumball Watterson
July 27th, 2009, 02:19 PM
Waitwhat? Aren't sexually leaned topics against the rules here?

Anyways, I believe it is only YOU who chooses your orientation. It is just fine to experiment but... please keep it low...

Chibi-chan
July 27th, 2009, 02:19 PM
You just said you're gay :|
Is this thread needed now.

Ok, locked

Little Monster
July 27th, 2009, 02:20 PM
Lock please mod, thanks for the advice everybody.