...Very well, then:
There is simply too much confrontation here. So often when weyou and Ichaste began a discussion, it inevitably degenerated into an argument. Before you became a Moderator, this was not a problem, but since then...the "You Make the Card!" thread and this VM conversation itself are evidence of the increasing friction. I realize that you may very well not see them as such, but when a discussion with another individual becomes less of a joy as it is a chore or even a deterrent, I see this as a sign of a larger problem. Between this decline and certain real-life troubles, both court-related and non-court-related, I would have rather removed this stress early and quietly before it inevitably exploded. This is not about my feeling insulted, nor is it about wanting to leave. This is simply about keeping fuel away from the fire.
Before you mention CARD GAMES, I considered that as well. However...despite what certain others might say, I do not take such obligation to a story lightly. Besides, playing as Kuso provided...a sort of vent, albeit a limited one. Still, I realized that any more arguments with you--especially regarding this specific topic--could cause unneeded trouble there, which is why I refrained from any more posts in "You Make the Card!". Now that this has come to light, I will need to reconsider my choice.
As for the Friends list, I was not at all accusing you of doing nothing other than stare at your profile. However, you have admittedly been spending time staring at my profile, which has the Friends box on the right-hand side of the page. I did not see it as unreasonable at all to believe that you had noticed it at one point or another.