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I can use safeguard too? o3o

-fire spin-
I have you trapped. <3

I'm a fox. \o/
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That's more like it, female dog. \o/

Not yet X_X Like I might've mentioned earlier, I'm at my dad's for an entire week. And I think he'll kill me if I download it X_X

So sorry; you'll have to wait 'til next Sunday D= It would be more recent though, if I didn't have a whole week of school off...

It depends on how intense the relation is. If it isn't that intense, I wouldn't want to wait that long. But, I think I could handle staying friends with this person if we were to end the relationship and meet up in college. And who knows, we could even begin dating again once we're together.

Feel free to send me a PM about it. I'm sometimes able to give advice, depending on the situation. Divorce, death of someone much loved, trauma, you name it.

But you shouldn't PM me if you don't trust me with this kind of information. I'm not trying to push you into telling me or anything, really ^^' It's your choice.

That's a cool mom :3 She sounds like the kind that'd give you advice, much like my mom (who also gave me advice on how to work the Ouija board).

I think my dad would be the one to freak, since he comes from a very serious/strict family. 'Twas one of the reasons my mom divorced him. Then she met my stepdad online in a dating service, and they met at a Double-T Diner someplace in Maryland (I think).

But yeah. 'Course, it also depends on what grade of high school you're in, and when you first develop a relation. 'Cause you may both be in 12th grade and in the final month of school, but if you just started the relation then, it's unlikely that you'd wind up at the same college, must less wind up in colleges close to each other. However, if the both of you are in 9th grade and are somehow able to keep the relation for four years, you would probably end up together at the same college (or at least at nearby/sister colleges), though you would have to wait quite a bit. But yes, it is quite the loophole, and because you're considered an adult when you move on, you don't have to tell your parents if you don't want to.

Yeah. Because my parents don't even want me to IM anyone I know only online (though I do it anyways *shifty eyes*). And I think if they found I had a Myspace (even though it really can't be seen by others except for friends), they'd probably kill me.

But yeah. The first two are vital if you want to have a relationship with them (personally, I wouldn't be too big on long-distance relations, unless the two of you know you'll be able to get back together eventually), and the third one is a must. Sneaking out or lying to get with the person you love would make your parents even more upset with you.

Actually, I honestly don't believe in it too much. Even on a site like Gaia (poor example, I know DX) something like that is just pathetic. I don't mind having online friends, but to have a lover online that I don't even know? That's wrong, if you ask me.

I suppose I don't really mind if my friends are online or real life, but if I ever choose to date someone, I want to know the person in real life.

One of the other cons about having an online relationship like that is you can never hug, cuddle, etc. Online friends can't do that either, but if you really love the person you're with at the time, it might hurt to not be able to do those kinds of things.

That's true too. And of course, some people make friends based on looks, which is the same as someone looking for a relation. Which I hate. Which is also why I like the internet. Because online, unless you have a pic of yourself that the public can see, people pretty much don't know what you look like, and you can get to know them without even caring what they look like. And even if they show you a pic of themselves, you'd be a true friend by not caring how they look (though it is nice if you compliment them :3).

But yeah. I forgot about that factor. You definitely need to make sure a specific friend (or friends) will support you, but you can't decide that just by immediately becoming friends with them. That's why I take my time to get to know them, online or in real life.

Hmm...

Well, I suppose I can't give a straight answer, seeing how I've never developed a relationship with someone other than friendship.

But in my honest opinion, I find that friends are always there to support you, and they seem to help you with any problem you may have. Even if they don't know how to help you, they would at least try to give you some encouragement or support to get your spirits up.

And I must admit, the person you have a relation with might do the same, but if you aren't a married couple and break up, you could maybe suffer heartache for quite a bit. But I don't know :/

XD I'm not really that brave, to tell the truth. I always fear a ghost will show up in my room at night, regardless of the number of lights I have on in my room (I have a slight fear of the dark, though I seem to love it in the morning >.>).

But from the sounds of it, if you ever do get your hands on a Ouija board, to use it when you have friends around. Because then you'll have people to be at your side when you're asking the questions and whatnot :3 No matter what, I think I'll always treasure my friends more than I'd ever treasure a relationship. But that's just me.

Hmm...

Well, you can do this alone or with multiple people. And actually, an ex-friend of mine was able to make his own Ouija boards, but that's besides the point.

Well, you need to have two fingers from each hand on the side of the triangle thing (forgive me; I forgot what it was called DX). Then you need to ask a question. Finally, wait for it to move. It'd work a lot better if you had your eyes closed, because if you have them open, that could influence where the triangle thing moves. When it pauses, though, you open your eyes to see the letter (or number, or even "Yes" or "No"), and then close them again as you wait for it to move to the next letter.

And if you're unsure if it's done or not, ask it during a pause and it'll either move to "Yes" or "No" on the board, and it'll continue if it goes to "No".

But yeah. I think that's the general idea. And sometimes you might want to have someone with a free hand write it on paper in case the answer is long.

I'd love to, only one thing: My dad's house was almost done being built when he bought it, so it probably doesn't have any spirits haunting it XD Plus, my Ouija Board is down in NC with my mom and stepdad and two dogs.

That's the nice thing about pets. They can see ghosts, and warn you if any of them have an evil aura and whatnot. Seeing how our dogs never got frightened, it meant the child ghost was not a threat at all.

I also recall using a Ouija Board in my psychologist's office XD One man waiting to go back told me to be careful with it, as I knew already. But I was able to contact an 80-year-old woman who went by the name of Sally there, I believe.

Hey. :3

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XD I'd ask the spirit about themselves just to know them better. Though I'd be a bit frightened that they showed up. But at the same time, they might be afraid of me. It all depends.

Hmm... I've actually been stupid enough to use a Ouija board for that reason (I've decided not to do it anymore), and I found out a lot about the ghost in our house, if what he said was true. He was five, died in a fire, lived in (I think) the 1700s, and was named Thomas Farmer Miller.

But yup, Ouija boards are definitely dangerous and one has to be careful with them.

'Tis very true :3

Aw, really? XD Well, we actually had a real ghost in my old home here in Maryland. It was only a child, and we know this because my parents saw a figure the shape of one. It was much younger than I was at the time, so it couldn't have been me. And I also recall hearing human footsteps behind me in a hallway when my family was out...

I heard meditating in complete silence for 15 minutes each day is the best way to be able to see spirits.

And to be quite honest, I'm kind of afraid of seeing them too XD

I'm on a mission,
And it involves some heavy touchin', yeah.
You've indicated your interest,
I'm educated in sex, yes.

;)

XD Thanks.

I honestly like to speak my opinion whenever possible. I don't care if people don't agree with me or not, else why would it be called an opinion in the first place, hmm?

And I'd love to talk over MSN, but as of now, I don't have access to any sort of IMing software because I'm now at my dad's house.

"...and its meaning is "falling vulture."

Sounds pretty badass to me, actually. But yeah, you got me there. I guess traditionally it might be a girl's name, but not when your name change was based on this dude.

Edit:...Disregard that last statement. I never realized how much Vega looks like a chick up until just now ._.