"no it has to be on your end. when you are the leader we both crash, when i am only you crash. im not saying your lying about your earlier battles but its not my fault."
No! When I do the invite I see you going off the list, and when you do the invite I get knocked off, so no, it's the same phenomenon on both ends, and let me ask you, have you had earlier battles today? If not, then what makes you think it's my end the problem lies, when I have not touched my router's settings for A LONG TIME and it has worked fine?
"I live in Florida so..do you live anywhere far away like Australia?"
You can find that info in my profile, but for your convenience, I live in Denmark, the small country just north of Germany in Europe. However, I have never run into a case where distance has been an issue and I have played people in the UK, the US, Canada and Australia.