I know, it's basically the only way I feel "legitimate" -- but I can see how that is interrupting my ability to just do and say as I feel. I have been struggling with my gender since my most early memories, but I had suppressed these thoughts for a long time -- it really f**ked with my ability to just make it through the day. Seriously, I bet you know what I mean when I say it felt like I was just performing masculinity rather than being masculine.
Currently I am doing research on identity construction and political institutions, which was inspired by my internal struggle. Forcing myself to think rationally and read others experience of gender helped me get passed some of these mental barriers that prevented me from knowing my authentic self.
It's hard to describe, but in nearly every dream I have always been a girl. I was always envious of other girls and so badly wanted to be included in that world, but I was not allowed to. Also, being with other men as a man always felt off to me especially since I never felt comfortable with my body.
Wow, 3 very nice qualities indeed!
Do you have any updates on your appearance by chance? I am just curious since the last time we spoke you had not begun a physical transitioning process -- unless I am totally mistaken! Also, have you recently started dating? Also, how's dating AND being trans?
Sorry, I just want to use you for info :p