Yeah I didn't know how it'd work either. Their wedding was very simple and casual, though. They both wore a white dress, but not a typical wedding dress (though they had both been married before and people tend to be less extravagant if they ever get remarried). Like...just white sundresses, really. And it was a very small crowd of people. But how they did it was that all of us surrounded them while they stood in the middle and there was Jesus-y talk and they didn't even kiss, they just hugged, but it was so beautiful regardless. Then they sang a duet for everyone (they're both music teachers, I should add lol). They didn't have bridesmaids or anything...but you know? I don't really want a conventional wedding myself, so it's like...make it what y'all want to make it. If you want to both have a best man, have one! :) And I will so come if I have the money for it! lol